After Feng Dan was abused by Han Jinjin, he lived in Chen Li's house for two weeks, Chen Li's wife Hou Yuanyuan accompanied her daughter to study in her hometown, Chen Li and Feng Dan lived alone and widowed, and in order to prevent Hou Yuanyuan from finding out, Chen Li deliberately unplugged the router connected to the monitoring.
Hou Yuanyuan came back from vacation and found a lot of Feng Dan's long hair falling out from the sewer, and had a big fight with Chen Li, and Han Jinjin also came to pick Feng Dan away. Unexpectedly, not long after, Feng Dan ran away from home again.
Chen Li found Feng Dan's rental house and was told by the landlord that Feng Dan had quit the rent. Chen Li walked out along Feng Dan's residence and found Feng Dan sitting in a car with a pool of blood under the car. He quickly opened the car door, and Feng Dan fell to the ground with a deep cut on his wrist.
Chen Li hurriedly sent Feng Dan to the hospital, halfway through, Feng Dan's emotions were very excited, and he tried to escape many times in the hospital, Chen Li had to guard her every step of the way, Hou Yuanyuan called, he didn't care about it, and the unit leader called, he still couldn't take care of it.
Because he was afraid that Feng Dan would have an accident again, Chen Li returned the nurse he had called, asked Ye Yifan to express his clothes and toiletries, gave up going to the project meeting, and accompanied Feng Dan day and night.
It can be seen that he is very pitiful to Feng Dan. As early as when Feng Dan was subjected to domestic violence, he secretly let Feng Dan live at home without knowing from Hou Yuanyuan, without any scruples about the suspicion and dissatisfaction that Hou Yuanyuan might have.
This time, in order to take care of Feng Dan, he didn't even take his daughter's **. Daughter Chen Jiaqi had to go back to her hometown to study because she did not have a Pingcheng hukou, she was not familiar with the place and was not suitable for the environment, and Hou Yuanyuan gave up her career for the sake of accompanying the study.
Chen Jiaqi called Chen Li ** that day, Chen Li knew that she was taking the exam that day, and guessed that she might not have done well in the exam and needed comfort. But he felt that this was a trivial matter, and Feng Dan's matter was a major matter, so he concentrated on accompanying Feng Dan and didn't care about comforting his daughter. And in his hometown, his daughter disappeared.
A man knows how to pity the fragrance and cherish the jade, which is indeed a manifestation of kindness to a certain extent, but if because of a person who is not very related, it affects his family and marriage, and neglects his wife and children, it is enough to explain more problems.
Xiaoman Life" Hou Yuanyuan has quarreled with Chen Li many times because of Feng Dan, and Chen Li has said confidently every time that he is not familiar with Feng Dan, and he is just helping. But an unfamiliar woman, he can do it for her regardless of his wife's feelings, the needs of his children, and the needs of his work, what does that mean?
After Hou Yuanyuan took his daughter back to his hometown, his daughter had been depressed, in order to make his daughter happy, Hou Yuanyuan specially asked Chen Li to send the stray cats that his daughter had taken care of before.
It is said that Xiao Biesheng is newly married, and Hou Yuanyuan, who has been separated from her husband for a period of time, deliberately sprayed herself fragrantly, put on ** pajamas, and appeared in front of Chen Li. But Chen Li picked up the quilt and wanted to sleep in the living room.
Chen Li found various reasons to shirk being close to Hou Yuanyuan, but Hou Yuanyuan was too enthusiastic, so Chen Li had to take advantage of the reason for taking the wrong crayfish gloves, pretending to be defeated, and fell asleep.
The next day, because he knew about Hou Yuanyuan's monitoring, he lied that there was a problem with his work and left quickly. It can be seen that even after a period of separation, Chen Li is not willing to "touch" Hou Yuanyuan at all, so you can imagine what kind of state they are in when they get along day and night on weekdays.
Intimacy is often the most intuitive response to a marital state, a person loves you, naturally willing to be close to you, on the contrary, find all kinds of excuses to alienate you, avoid you, it means that he does not love you.
Of course, each individual's need for intimacy is different, and if a person has a weak temperament from beginning to end, does not have a warm and delicate attitude towards others, and does not have much such needs himself, it may be determined by his personality or physiology.
But when Chen Li faced Feng Dan, he knew how to pity the fragrance and cherish the jade, and took care of Feng Dan meticulously and thoughtfully, which was enough to show that he was not a person with a weak temperament. Then why did he face his wife Hou Yuanyuan, and he didn't even want to "touch" it?
Then there is only one possibility, because he doesn't love Hou Yuanyuan, and even more, he hates Hou Yuanyuan. The reaction of the human body cannot deceive people, and the lack of love can be covered up with rhetoric, but the instinct of the body makes your heart exposed.
Xiaoman Life" Hou Yuanyuan was very insecure in this marriage, and before she returned to her hometown, she not only installed a monitor at home, but also installed a locator in Chen Li's car.
Hou Yuanyuan thought that she could maintain her marriage in such an extreme way, but she didn't understand at all that the reason why Chen Li would pity Feng Dan but was unwilling to "touch" her was not because Feng Dan was more attractive than her, nor because Chen Li was born with a heart.
It's because Chen Li doesn't love her at all.
When Hou Yuanyuan quarreled with Chen Li, Chen Li once said that Hou Yuanyuan pretended to be pregnant and cheated on marriage, and it is not difficult to judge from this detail that Chen Li did not love Hou Yuanyuan now, but he didn't love her from the beginning, he didn't even think about marrying her, and over the years, he has been haunted by marrying her.
That's the crux of the matter. Hou Yuanyuan thought that as long as he "tied" this man into the marriage hall and "looked" at him, he would be hers. But what she didn't know was that the more she was in love with someone who didn't love her at all, the more disgusted she became.
When I say this, I don't mean that Chen Li is right. As a husband and a father, Chen Li lacks the sense of responsibility and boundaries he should have, and he cares more about outsiders than his wife and children, which is obviously his fault.
What I want to say is that it is precisely because of this that Hou Yuanyuan is even more pathetic. All she struggled to keep was such a man, it was too unworthy!
Chen Li only saw Hou Yuanyuan's fake pregnancy and trick him into getting married, but he never thought about how Hou Yuanyuan could use pregnancy to trick him into getting married if he didn't have intimate contact with Hou Yuanyuan.
Neither wants to restrain his own behavior, but also does not want to take due responsibility, this is the man Hou Yuanyuan tried his best to keep.
Women must remember that no matter how much you love someone, if he is not willing to marry you, you should not give yourself to him. Don't try to pull a person who doesn't want to marry you into a marriage, even if you have already done a lot for him, you have to understand that he is not responsible now, and he will not be responsible in the future.
Don't be stupid and want to live with someone who doesn't love you and doesn't care about you for the rest of your life, not only will they not appreciate it, but they will also put all the blame for the misfortune on you.
You have to learn to please yourself and learn to discern those who are willing to please you. Although pleasing is not necessarily because of love, a person who is unwilling to please you and does not care whether you are happy or not must not love you.
Winter chapter of romance dramas