Su Min and I were college classmates, met by chance on campus, fell in love at first sight, and soon got together. Su Min has a cheerful and lively personality and always brings me laughter. I was also touched by her sincerity.
After graduating from college, we decided to get married. Although the married life is busy, there is love as a pillar, and life is sweet. We would go shopping at the supermarket together, cook together in the evenings, and go on outings to the park on the weekends. Even though there were occasional quarrels, they quickly reconciled.
Since we can't agree on the philosophy of life, let's get a divorce. Su Min's words caught me off guard.
Have you really decided?We can try again. "I don't give up on persuasion.
I've decided. Su Min was resolute.
And just like that, we got divorced inexplicably. The failure of my marriage was painful for me, I became depressed, immersed in the memories of the past, and my productivity dropped dramatically. My colleagues advised me to pick myself up and start over.
A month after the divorce, I sent a message to Su Min: "It's been a month since we divorced, how are you doing?"”
What about you?Let's meet if we can. Su Min said.
I was a little surprised, I didn't expect her to offer to meet.
On Saturday at 2 p.m., let's meet at the Claude Café. Su Min sent the time and place. I'll be on time. "I'm glad she remembers the café we frequented.
On Saturday, I arrived at the Czur café half an hour early, ordered two lattes, and waited for Su Min to arrive. I was suddenly a little nervous and uneasy, and I was wondering why she wanted to see me.
At 2 o'clock, Su Min walked into the café on time, still as demure and elegant as she remembered. I hurriedly stood up to greet her, a little overwhelmed.
You sit down first, and I'll order. After Su Min finished speaking, he went to the counter to order.
I looked at her back, and my heart was mixed. After a while, Su Min came to me with a coffee and sat down across from me.
How are you lately?I asked tentatively.
It's okay, busy at work, but life is regular. Su Min said, "What about you?"It doesn't look like he's in good spirits. ”
I'm not doing well, my sleep quality has dropped, and you know, the divorce hit me hard. I said sincerely.
Sorry, I was too impulsive to consider your feelings. Su Min said.
It's not all your problem, I'm also responsible. I just didn't expect that we would come to this step of divorce. I sighed.
Emotional matters are inherently unpredictable. It can only be said that we are not suitable. Su Min said quietly.
I know you're trying to make it clear when you see me. Actually, I have never been able to forget you, and I have always wondered what would happen if we could do it all over again. "I plucked up the courage to speak my mind.
Su Min was silent, and after a long while, he slowly spoke: "Actually, I often think about the bits and pieces we were together. But looking back, it seems that our problem existed in the first place, but it was never taken to heart. ”
I knew she was telling the truth. Our personalities are different, and we also have differences in life philosophy, which is destined to be difficult to live in a long-term marriage.
yes, I think so now. Maybe we shouldn't have been together in the first place, but we were carried away by love. "I'm a little relieved.
Still, I'd like to try again. I plucked up the courage to say.
Su Min looked at me in surprise: "What do you mean?".”
I mean, maybe we can be friends first, get to know each other again, and if we think it's possible, we might as well give ourselves another chance. I said tentatively.
Su Min was silent for a long time, and I wasn't sure what she was thinking. Just as I was about to give up hope, she spoke: "I need time to think about it." But it doesn't hurt to make friends. ”
My heart suddenly became clear, maybe this is the dawn of hope.
Chatting and chatting, time passed quickly, it was getting dark, and the coffee was almost drunk.
It's getting late, and it's time for me to go back. Su Min looked at his watch and said.
Then I'll send you home. "I offered it.
No, I'm here by car. Su Min waved his hand.
Then you drive carefully. We'll get back to you later"I'm a little reluctant.
Okay, I'll get back to you. Su Min nodded, got up and picked up her bag to leave.
I also stood up and plucked up the courage to speak: "Su Min, goodbye, you must take care of yourself." ”
Well, you too. Su Min smiled slightly, turned around and left the café.
I looked at her departing back and couldn't look away for a long time. This meeting gave me hope to regain my happiness.
When I got home, I called Wang Tiezhu and told him what happened today.
Brother, you're chasing your ex-wife again. Wang Tiezhu said with a smile.
It's not, I just want to slowly get to know her again and strive for the opportunity to be together again. I explained.
Your divorce has been signed and sealed, so don't worry about it anymore. Let's start all over again. Wang Tiezhu persuaded.
I know, but I can't forget her. Just give yourself one last chance. I said firmly.
Then you can choose for yourself, I just want you to be happy. Wang Tiezhu said.
Hung up**, I have mixed feelings. I understand what Wang Tiezhu meant, but I really can't forget Su Min, and I want to fight for the possibility of being with her again.
A month later, Su Min and I met again. This time she offered to ask me out.
During this time, I carefully considered what you said. Su Min said straight to the point.
Well, how are you thinking about it?I asked cautiously.
I agree to be friends first. But take your time, the previous problems will not be solved all at once. Su Min said.
I was overjoyed: "Great!".Thank you for giving us a chance to start over. ”
Don't rejoice too soon, it's going to take a process. Su Min said with a smile.
Since then, Su Min and I have been in regular contact and meet at least once a week to talk about our work life and relationships. Gradually, the gap between us is disappearing, and in its place is a renewed relationship. I think there is hope for us.
In this way, after another two years, Su Min and I finally confirmed our relationship and decided to marry again. This time, we will cherish it more, communicate rationally when we encounter problems, and no longer choose divorce easily.