The 21-year-old Dou Wei has been the lead singer of the "Black Panthers" for two years in 1990.
After graduating from the High School Attached to *** College, Luan Shu brought his little girlfriend Faye Wong and happily joined Dou Wei's team as a keyboard player. This year means a lot to him.
Luan Shu never expected that he had only stayed in Dou Wei's band for a year before he found that his girlfriend Faye Wong and Dou Wei had inexplicably met each other.
Like him, he felt inexplicable and Dou Wei's first love Jiang Xin.
Although the professional photographer Gao Yuan was dissatisfied at the moment, he could only reluctantly continue to play the role of a photographer, staying by Dou Wei's side, constantly waiting for the opportunity to replace him.
Dou Wei feels like he is acting in a movie, he thinks that he is in a dream, and he still complains that the two marriages between him, Faye Wong and Gao Yuan are a complete conspiracy.
Dou Wei was born in 1969 in Beijing Miscellaneous Hospital. Influenced by his father, who was a musician, he was able to perform as a soloist in kindergarten at the age of six.
However, with the divorce of his parents, his artistic talent was once dimmed.
Dou Wei had just entered middle school and was at the peak of his rebellious period, while his father was desperate to divorce his mother, who worked in a machine tool factory.
From that moment on, Dou Wei was like a wild horse that had escaped the reins, running tirelessly all day long. Until one day, he suddenly appeared on the scene of a British band called Mighty Fierce.
16-year-old Dou Wei had a new understanding of ** in an exciting performance, he realized that ** is not limited to playing the flute, so he had a dream of becoming a rock musician in his heart.
However, the mother is not energetic at the moment, unable to cope with her rebellious son, and does not understand what the "rock" he talks about all day long.
In the end, Dou Wei almost abandoned his studies, and had to reluctantly enter a vocational high school and began to study Xi psychiatric nursing.
At first, Dou Wei was very reluctant, but who would have thought that this major would actually require students to learn Xi**.
In fact, taking care of the mentally ill in the future also requires guiding them to sing, dance and play games.
For this reason, Dou Wei had to stay in the vocational high school, where he learned to play the guitar and drums, and was even able to compose.
Dou Wei aimed at learning Xi **, so he actually entered the Beijing Youth Light ** League.
and then sang a few songs by Jiang Dawei and Cui Jian, accompanied by a classic break dance, so he became the main performer in the troupe.
At this time, the students who were studying Xi ** in colleges and universities all enviously voted for Dou Wei.
Dou Wei stood on the stage and began to put on a cool look. He often wears sunglasses, short-sighted glasses, and skinny jeans to show a rock 'n' roll vibe.
After Ding Wu, the lead singer of the Black Panthers, left in 1988, someone recommended the cool Dou Wei to Guo Chuanlin, the founder of the Black Panthers.
Guo Chuanlin was initially skeptical of Dou Wei, but when he saw Dou Wei improvise a song by a British rock band on stage, he immediately determined that the lead singer of the Black Panther was none other than Dou Wei.
He went to Dou Wei's home many times and took the trouble to rock and roll with him. Dou Wei was deeply influenced by rock fans, and finally decided to give up his stable ** group job and follow him to join the Black Panthers.
In the second year of the Black Panthers, Dou Wei met the first woman in his life, that is, his first love Jiang Xin.
Dou Wei was not only the lead singer of the band at that time, but also responsible for the creation of all the lyrics and **, so he would often go to the bar for a few drinks to find inspiration.
At that time, Jiang Xin, who was studying for an undergraduate degree, was silently following his friends to find happiness in the bar, when Dou Wei stepped forward to introduce himself with a slightly drunk mood, and soon the two became a couple.
It should be so, when there was a woman by his side, Dou Wei's inspiration should have burst out.
However, a year on, their band not only failed to establish itself in the rock scene, but suffered a serious failure.
In 1990, Beijing held a performance called "90 Modern ** Meeting", inviting many bands such as the high-profile rock band "Tang Dynasty" and "Cobra" to participate, and also included Dou Wei's Black Panther Band in the organizer's invitation list.
When they performed on stage, the members of the Black Panthers could only sit offstage**, and Dou Wei and his partners left the scene in a hurry before the performance was even over.
A few young people come home after being stimulated and rehearse frantically, as if they have been stimulated with infinite energy. As the saying goes: "It's never too late for a hero to take revenge for ten years." ”
In just one year, the Black Panthers successfully washed away the shame of the early stage with a song "No Place to Shame", and quickly became a high-profile rock band at that time.
Faye Wong made her successful debut in Hong Kong with the Cantonese song "Still an Old Sentence", and now she has appeared in Dou Wei's life as Luan Shu's girlfriend.
Dou Wei's love with his first girlfriend Jiang Xin was in full swing at the time, but everything changed as Luan Shu joined the Black Panthers as a keyboardist.
As Luan Shu's girlfriend, Faye Wong often visits her boyfriend, but during one visit, she took advantage of the gap between Dou Wei and her going out to buy food together, and had a private relationship with Dou Wei.
At that time, Faye Wong was not as famous as she is now, so she had enough time to write letters and send CDs. Every time she returned to Hong Kong, she would launch an offensive against Dou Wei in this way.
Dou Wei initially opened the letter and read it with her in order not to make his girlfriend Jiang Xin suspicious, but as Faye Wong called him more and more intimately, Dou Wei didn't dare to share these contents with his girlfriend anymore.
Under the recommendation of Faye Wong, the Black Panther signed a contract with Chen Jiantian, the manager of the Beyond band, and then they launched their first ** "Black Panther" of the same name, and they officially debuted from then on.
Once this ** was released, it created the miracle of the highest sales of Chinese rock bands in the world, and the Black Panther became the most well-known rock band at home and abroad.
Surprisingly, not long after Dou Wei's debut ** came out, he accidentally cut off his long flowing hair, and announced that he was quitting the Black Panther Band at the performance in Hainan, and even said that he would never sing Black Panther songs again.
Fans were puzzled by this, but Dou Wei had made up his mind. It wasn't until he re-formed the "Dream Band" that his girlfriend Jiang Xin saw her boyfriend who had just taken a shower at two o'clock in the night at the hotel where Faye Wong was staying, and then she realized that she had been fooled.
Just like Lao Liang introduced in "Lao Liang Has Something to Say", Faye Wong fell in love with Dou at first sight, which led to contradictions within the Black Panther Band.
Therefore, after Dou Wei left the band, Luan Shu took over the position of the lead singer of the Black Panthers.
It seems that Luan Shu is still quite lucky, although he lost his girlfriend, he at least got a chance to be a lead singer.
Jiang Xin was not so lucky, her boyfriend had an ambiguous relationship with a third party behind her back, she witnessed all this with her own eyes, but she could only wait for her boyfriend to make a choice.
However, what she was waiting for was disappointment.
Jiang Xin was overconfident in his relationship with Dou Wei, and Dou Wei was in a dilemma.
It wasn't until 1994, when Dou Wei quit the "Dream Band" that Jiang Xin asked him to choose between himself and Faye Wong, that Dou Wei said this helplessly.
After Dou Wei sent Faye Wong back to the hotel, she did not return all night. At the same time, Jiang Xin, who was home alone, did not close his eyes for a moment.
At dawn, Jiang Xin left quietly, while Faye Wong stayed in the compound with a public toilet where Dou Wei was located.
After many years, Jiang Xin seemed to have been unable to let go, so she poured out her inner dissatisfaction in her autobiography "The Days of Long Hair Flying".
Jiang Xin revealed in her autobiography that Faye Wong had written a letter to Dou Wei, and she always thought that the two were just "pure friendship".
However, in fact, Faye Wong has secretly dated Dou Wei many times after his performance.
This also revealed the real reason why Jiang Xin couldn't find a boyfriend at that time.
Now it seems that these seem to be meaningless, after all, Faye Wong and Dou Wei have become husband and wife, and Dou Wei's other confidante Gao Yuan is about to become the focus.
In 1996, Faye Wong held 18 concerts at the Hung Hom Stadium in Hong Kong and became the first Chinese female singer to appear on the cover of Time magazine in the United States.
Faye Wong's Buddhist personality made her very proud of this honor, so after giving birth to her daughter Dou Jingtong in the second year, she resolutely devoted herself to her career, regardless of Dou Wei's feelings.
Dou Wei initially expressed full support for Faye Wong's career, he not only wrote songs for her, but also cheered for his wife as a drummer at Faye Wong's concert in 1998.
It is rumored that when Faye Wong and her friend Na Ying just finished the concert and returned to the courtyard in Beijing, they happened to run into the "battlefield" that Dou Wei and Gao Yuan had not yet sorted out.
At that time, Faye Wong was so surprised that she couldn't say a word, and Na Ying, a straight-talking Northeast girl, stepped forward and scolded Dou Wei and Gao Yuan.
After Faye Wong finished scolding Na Ying, she pulled her and left, while Gao Yuan shouted "Find out the situation and then scold", while Dou Wei stayed in the courtyard silently to discuss countermeasures.
Soon after, Na Ying said that Gao Yuan was not as good as a certain kind of poultry when he faced **, which angered Gao Yuan, and he wanted to sue Na Ying for defamation.
At this moment, Faye Wong's agent Qiu Likuan came forward and said "Chicken is a very sacred animal" to calm down the matter.
In the end, Faye Wong did not make any movement on her side, and Dou Wei and Gao Yuan impatiently started a trip to Japan, and Dou Wei proudly declared in front of ** that "she is Gao Yuan, my love".
Faye Wong was disheartened, and after signing a divorce with Dou Wei, she did not hesitate to throw herself into Nicholas Tse's arms.
In his dilapidated compound, Dou Wei and Gao Yuan ushered in the third woman in his life.
The two got married and gave birth to a daughter step by step, full of fantasies about the future. That's it.
However, Dou Wei seems to have felt that his talent has dried up, and he no longer wants to pursue higher fame and fortune, but longs for a plain and stable life. However, this fantasy is limited to Gao Yuan alone.
Takahara is hell-bent on marrying him, but that's not what he thinks.
He is looking forward to seeing the energetic Dou Wei and is eager to enjoy the treatment as the wife of the hottest rock singer Dou Wei.
Dou Wei was no longer able to meet her needs, so Gao Yuan carefully planned the marriage that was taken from Faye Wong, and it ended after only two years.
Dou Wei was so saddened by his two failed marriages that he couldn't help but tell others that his two marriages were like two completely devastating "conspiracies".
Originally, Faye Wong was the girlfriend of Luan Shu of the Black Panthers, and for her sake, I had to leave the band.
Eventually, however, she became the woman I was afraid of. She either works or plays cards and sings all day long, and her life is irregular.
Gao Yuan is the ex-girlfriend of Ding Wu, the first lead singer of the Black Panthers, and she and I are together to seek fame and fortune, while I am down for revenge on my ex-boyfriend Ding Wu.
In his opinion, I had lost my usefulness, so he kicked me away without mercy.
In the end, he also clarified the embarrassing situation between Faye Wong and Na Ying who stumbled upon him and Gao Yuan, and made it clear to the outside world.
It was he who took the initiative to confess to Faye Wong, and even proposed to break up, but Faye Wong cried too sadly at that time, so there was no negotiation.
Gao Yuan never seems to have responded to the "conspiracy theory" in Dou Wei's mouth, and even whenever Dou Wei is mentioned, he will praise him as an extremely pure ** person.
Whenever she and Dou Wei's daughter were mentioned, Gao Yuan couldn't help but choke.
Therefore, when the people in the ** world heard the gossip news of Dou Wei and Gao Yuan, the intimidating reporter surnamed Zhuo puffed up his chest, picked up the camera and came to Dou Wei's door, ready to conduct an interview.
Dou Wei, a person who is ignorant of the world, unexpectedly rejected the enthusiasm of the reporter surnamed Zhuo without hesitation.
As a result, a report entitled "Ding Wu persuaded Dou Wei to give Gao Yuan 500 yuan a month for living expenses" began to spread on major **.
Dou Wei was enjoying a quiet life at home, and when he learned about this, he immediately became angry, rolled up his sleeves and came to the newspaper office where the reporter surnamed Zhuo was located to ask for an explanation.
However, no one expected that Dou Wei, a visitor, would be treated coldly, and no one would be willing to receive him at all.
Frustrated, the angry Dou Wei had no choice but to spread his anger on a white car on the side of the road, because he couldn't find the other party
Dou Wei was eventually scrapped due to a fire and was sent to the police station.
In the end, he apologized to the victim in public and paid 7,000 yuan in compensation before being released.
Outside the door, a woman pulled a banner in full support for Dou Wei, which attracted Dou Wei's attention.
She is Chen Ran, Dou Wei's super little fan sister.
After experiencing his first love Jiang Xin, Faye Wong, and the talented girl Gao Yuan's three senior girlfriends, Dou Wei suddenly had a strong heartbeat for the ordinary woman in front of him.
Her eyes were full of him, and of course she couldn't refuse the honor, so she willingly sat in the back seat of Dou Wei's electric car, accompanied him to visit cheap stores, and tasted a dozen bowls of noodles together.
Dou Wei seems to have always dreamed of such a life, but Faye Wong and Gao Yuan can't give him the stability and steadfastness he longs for.
In 2016, the news that Dou Wei became a father again caused a sensation, which reminded people of the once smash hit rock singer.
Years passed, and it turned out that he had remarried.
It was this ordinary woman Chen Ran who became his third wife.
Dou Wei is now 52 years old, his figure has become fat, his hair has begun to thin, and he looks like an ugly uncle with a big beard.
Some netizens even joked about him when they saw him eating cold noodles in a restaurant recently:
This is obviously the embodiment of Marx's thoughts in him, and he is no longer the immortal Dou Xian of the past.
Isn't this the mark of time?Two failed marriages, four beautiful women, and the fairy-like "Dou Xian" have now become the greasy appearance of this middle-aged uncle.
In the end, Dou Wei was lucky to find a woman who was willing to share his taste of ordinary life, perhaps this kind of love is the most real and passionate.