Whether in any relationship, a long-term development or a breakup in the middle of the relationship can happen. Especially heterosexual relationships, if both parties do not know how to maintain them, then such a relationship can be dangerous. It's important to keep the right distance and the bottom line for each other. It has been said that there can be no real friendship between people of the opposite sex, and that those so-called friendships are just pseudonyms for the love of one person for another. While this may be true, there is one thing we need to know anyway: when we get along with the opposite sex, once we receive the following cues, we should let it go!You're not a good fit, and the other person doesn't really love you.
When a person of the opposite sex gives you a hint that he just wants to play with you, then you must not take it seriously. You have to understand that such people don't really love you, they just want to take advantage of you. Maybe it's because they're lonely, maybe it's because they're bored and want to have a girlfriend to play with. For example, Xiaoxiao has a good relationship with a friend of the opposite sex, and at first Xiaoxiao thought it was just pure friendship, so the two got along very well. However, as time goes on, Tiny discovers that things are not the case.
Because this friend of the opposite sex is always kind to Xiao **: Anyway, we are all single, why don't you try it?When Xiaoxiao heard this hint, she was shocked. Xiaoxiao doesn't understand why it seems to her to be serious love, but in the eyes of the other party, she just tries it, whether she loves it or not. Actually, the reason is very simple, when a person doesn't love you enough and is still single, they want to find a girlfriend, but they can't find the right one, so they find you. They don't have a sense of responsibility, but they want to be with you. Once you receive such a hint in a heterosexual relationship, you have to understand that the other person just wants to play with you and doesn't really love you at all. Such people, you need to learn to stay away from them.
There is also a situation where a friend of the opposite sex is with you, under the guise of a friend, but wants to have an affair with you. Such people don't really care about you and don't really want to be with you. When someone treats you in this way, you have to understand that the other person doesn't really care about you and just wants to play ambiguously with you. For example, when the other party always says to you: "No problem, I'm here, you can come to me if you have a problem, and I will protect you." "It seems that he cares about you, but he always takes you to bad places, forces you to drink, etc., and says something very ambiguous. For example: "You are the person I love the most" and so on. Such a person, if he doesn't really love you, he just wants to have an affair with you. They just want to get your love, and once they do, they will leave you and cut off contact. So, when you meet such a person, you have to keep your eyes open and see the truth clearly. Once you can't see clearly, such a person will ruin you.
There is also a type of person who, when they are with you, seem to care about you and even want to be with you. Although you are friends of the opposite sex, the other person shows a deep affection for you, making you mistakenly think that the other person really loves you. However, when you are involved in a relationship, you will find that the other person doesn't really love you and just wants to talk to you temporarilyIn loveand will not give you a future. Previously, a netizen shared her experience, she said that she had a friend of the opposite sex, and at first they were just friends, but then the other party's attitude became very different. Seeing the other party like this, she mistakenly thought that the other party liked her.
However, soon after, the other party always said love, intentionally or unintentionally, which made her feel warm. As time passed, she began to be tempted to be with each other. However, when they are really together, she discovers that the other party is not like that, and the other party never says that he loves her, and never talks about the future. They just seemed to be nice to her, but they weren't sincere. They just wanted to talk to her for a whileIn loveand that's it. After a long time, she saw the other party's thoughts, but she had fallen into it and been hurt. Actually, some people are just like this, they can't find a suitable partner and think that you are not bad, so they hint at you and make you mistakenly think that they like you and care about you. But once you're tempted and give your heart, they get bored and leave. Therefore, when you meet such a person, you must stay away as soon as possible and understand that the other person does not really love you, they just want to have an affair with you.
There is also a kind of friend of the opposite sex, who is with you and does not really love you, but just wants to take advantage of you. In their eyes, you are useful. So they have a better relationship with you than the average friend, and they say something to you that will make you feel tempted and make you mistakenly think that they truly love you. However, once you really need their help, once you are in need, they no longer care about you and stop helping you. They just want to use you when you need it and meet their own needs. For example, when the other party always says to you: "I will always be with you and never leave", it makes you feel very loved. However, when you really need it, the other party is always perfunctory and unwilling to really help. Such people just want to take advantage of you and take advantage of you. When you see such hints, you must stay away from them and stop having illusions about them.
Relationships between the opposite sex are very complex and can easily be misled by innuendo. We need to know how to discern and discern the true intentions of the other party, and not be fooled by their hints. Once you find out that the other person just wants to have fun and just wants to have an affair with you, or doesn't want to give you a future and just wants to take advantage of you, then stay away from them as soon as possible. They don't really love you, and you shouldn't take them seriously. Remember, it's important to keep the right distance and the bottom line for each other. Some people just can't see their strengths, but you have to know how to see clearly. Otherwise, they will hurt you and plunge you into deep pain. So, learn to protect yourself and learn to say no to those who are not worth your effort.