The more I grew up, the more I realized that it was so difficult to be an adult. Many taboos and sayings are also known from adults. There is a common saying among them, I don't know if everyone knows it: "If one household opens two doors, it is difficult for people and money to save."
What does this mean?In fact, many people can't understand it, although it sounds like this sentence seems to mean this, but there is a deep meaning in it. What do the two doors in this sentence refer to?What's the point?Let's move on.
In ancient times, people used to record their perception of nature and the worldHence the birth of oracle and so on,There are also cases that have been passed down by word of mouth to the present society, which contain proverbs, many of which are symbols of their great wisdom, and thus have been passed down in this form to the present millennium later.
China's culture is broad and profound, so many years of inheritance in addition to leaving precious cultural relics to our descendants, but also to condense the wisdom of our ancestors, such as "one household opens two doors, people and wealth are difficult to save", this proverb.
As the saying goes, this carrier that has always accompanied the development of Chinese history has also played a lot of roles in the long river of history, but just looking at this proverb,Many people may not understand what the ancients wanted to express.
It seems difficult to decipher with modern thinking, but in fact, as long as you combine the context, it is actually very easy to understand. The reason why these sayings are born is also because there is a story behind the sayings.
And the story behind "one household opens two doors, and it is difficult to save people and money" happened in the Spring and Autumn Period, when everyone had little capital, and a couple of businessmen and wives in the Jin Kingdom usually went out to sell umbrellas to make a few dollarsThe business is slowly getting up for them.
After having spare money, the husband and wife bought a trolley to pull goods together, because the door of the house was too small for the trolley to push in, so a door was opened from the side, but after the family opened two doors, the family's business plummeted, and finally ended up with a wife separated.
It is also a verification of the saying that there are two doors in the proverb, but nowadays people mainly use suites or bungalows, and the area is basically small, so there is rarely the possibility of two doors.
Do you think this proverb is really a bit mysterious?This has to sigh the wisdom of the ancients, and some feng shui words can be summarized in such a saying.
In ancient times, the feng shui of a family was very important, just like the Jiafu in the Dream of Red Mansions, it was also a rich and noble family, but there was only one door that could be called the main gate in a family's home, and the others were side doorsIt's not a "gate" in the traditional sense.
This can also reflect the importance that the ancients attached to Feng Shui, so why can't you open two doors?There is also a saying here, in the minds of the ancients, the door is the key to whether a family can gather energy and wealth, and it is the most important part of the house.
One reason is because they think that one door in one home is just to lock the blessings in the home, and if greed opens one more door, then the two doors will affect each other, and will scatter the blessings and wealth that were originally gathered in the family, and finally end up with an ending where "people and wealth are difficult to save".
Another reason is obvious, the original family has only one main entrance, if there is a second main entrance, it means that the family will be separated. After all, if you divide into two households, two doors can exist.
Since ancient times, how to divide the family and how to divide it has always been the point of family conflict, until nowMany originally harmonious families ended up in trouble because of the poor separation, and the two sides did not get along with each otherThis kind of thing is not uncommon.
The so-called people are social animals, before the Shang Dynasty changed the law, everyone lived together as a family, unity is strength, all the clansmen condensed into a rope, all the strength was made in one place, and everyone worked together to live this life well.
But after the Shang Dynasty changed the law, the family was required to start dividing, because in ancient times, because in ancient times, because you had to have land before you could build a house, and there were many brothers in the family, basically many big families built another door in the yard, so the family was dividedDivide a large yard into small yards.
Divide it, but if you are not careful, the family will directly divide the hatred, either because of the uneven distribution of property, or because you don't want to support your parents, etc., and rarely the family will be divided into harmony and wealth.
If the separated children have no achievements and sit on the old books, the end of this family can be predicted. This is also why in ancient times, it was obviously quite a prestigious big familyBut the reason for the gradual decline after the separation.
In addition to the reason of separation, if there are two doors in the family with another meaning, that is, the relationship between the members of the family is not harmonious, in fact, it can also be expected, after all, if the members of the family do not look up and look down all day long.
If you don't want to see each other when you go in and out of the door, it's best to build a new door on your side. It can be seen that the prosperity of a family and the unity of the family members are inseparable from the relationship.
In addition to these reasons, in terms of the safety factor of public security, it is also a safe thing for a family to have only one door.
If the thief comes, he only needs to defend the gate, if the two doors are also dispersed, the difficulty of defending is also a lot higher, so the security factor of one door is much higher, if the thief enters from the other door,In ancient times, when public security was not good, it was also easy to have the possibility of "losing people and money".
For the vast majority of proverbs, their meaning is not only the meaning of the words on the surface, but the profound truth behind it, just like today's saying "one household opens two doors, people and wealth are difficult to survive", it represents people's hope for a better vision, which is of great significance.
And the reason for the existence of this proverb is also because I hope that people can be full of love for their familiesThe unity and harmony of the family is more important than anything else.
Whether it is this proverb or other proverbs, this is the truth condensed by the older generation to the next generation, telling the stories that have happened, so that future generations can be vigilant and let them avoid some problems that can be avoided.
Although some colloquialisms are not commonly used or are out of touch with the current society, they should not prevent them from playing a roleWhether it is Feng Shui or other content, it is very effective for future generations.
However, on the road of life, the most important thing is to rely on yourself. Through this slang study, do you also feel the charm of slangs?