Children are the hope of the motherland, the future of the nation, children are born like a blank sheet of paper, seedlings, need parents to carefully cultivate and care, grow up to become a towering tree.
However, many children have become what we call "bear children" because of the lack of parental discipline and correct education. When we are parents, we often worry about not knowing how to educate our children.
Parents are the best teachers for children, every word and deed may affect the child's life, naughty, nonsense, and active are the nature of boys, and the little boy in this article is afraid of making pranks, and the mother's behavior is worth thinking about for all parents:
For various reasons, Mr. Li and Mrs. Li traveled around the hospital for several years, and finally gave birth to their son Lele at the age of 30.
Mr. Li has been investing in the construction site business and knows many people in the society, Mrs. Li used to be an employee of a bank, but later gave up her career for the sake of family life and devoted herself to her children
Lele is the heart of his grandparents, and he can't see his grandson being wronged, he is simply pampered. As long as someone else's child has it, his own grandchildren must have it, and there are more than others
There are more toys at home than in the toy store, and all kinds of toys make Lele love to show off with other children since he was a child. Every time you go out, you have to take a most popular toy to attract the attention of more children.
Dad is busy with business, and he can only come home after working until night every day, and he is woken up by ** and hurried out almost every day. The responsibility for the education of the children is left to the wife
Dad always speaks with a "mantra", once grandpa amused Lele, snatched the toy in Lele's hand, asked Lele to call grandpa, shouted grandpa and returned the toy to him, but Lele didn't think that Lele opened his mouth is a dirty word.
Hearing a dirty word coming out of the little person's mouth, instead of getting angry, the grandfather felt that his grandson was really "amazing". The first thing he would say when he was less than a year old was a swear word, and the grandmother who called Lele teased her again so that the grandmother could also hear her grandson swearing. The old couple was actually very happy.
Lele was still taken by his grandparents when he was two years old, and his grandmother went out with his big fat grandson all day long to show off with others, Lele often ran without shoes and legs, and his grandmother had to follow behind and chase after him, and never felt that Lele was disobedient like this. Lele had to go to the toilet when he was sleeping, so his grandmother asked Lele to solve it in the trash can, and he also served his meals on the bed, and it was common to wash the sheets.
Mrs. Li took the time to go to her grandparents' house to see Lele on the weekend, Lele took the small net bag that her grandmother just bought for him and buckled it on her mother's head, seeing that the child was disrespectful to others like this, and her mouth was still laughing, Mrs. Li took down the net bag and told Lele that she couldn't do this, Lele still went her own way, and once again buckled the net pocket on her mother's head.
Mrs. Li was instantly furious, snatched the net and threw it aside. Lele looked at her mother as if she was angry, and climbed on her mother's body to punch and kick, without realizing her mistake at all. Mrs. Li scolded Lele and pointed to Lele's grandmother who happened to come in when she was educating.
"What's the matter, what's the matter, why are you arguing with the child" The grandmother walked towards her grandson in distress while slipping into the room. hugged his grandson in his arms, "Lele is good, mom is a bad guy, not the same as mom" Lele saw that her grandmother seemed to see a backer, and she cried instantly.
Mrs. Lee realized that as the saying goes, "three years old sees old". If the child continues to be loved indiscriminately by his grandparents, it is bound to be a bad thing. Communicate with Lele's grandparents at dinner in the evening, and establish a correct education for the child, even if he can't become a talent in the future.
But the grandparents disagreed, thinking that the child was so young that he didn't understand anything. If you can't embarrass their grandchildren, only good children will be naughty, and children who can't be naughty are fools. Of course, in the eyes of Lele's grandparents, Lele is the smartest child in the world.
After returning home, Mrs. Li and Mr. Li talked about it, and the young couple discussed that Mrs. Li would quit her job in the bank and devote herself to Lele's education.
Mom quit her job for this, and Lele, who didn't live with her parents since she was a child, didn't listen to her mother very much. In order to make my son's body nutritious and healthy, I searched all kinds of information on the Internet and tried to learn how to Xi make various delicacies for my children.
However, Lele has long developed a Xi with his grandparents, except for eating meat buns in the morning, rice at noon, and loving grilled chicken wings, he is not willing to eat a bite of anything else. will also knock over the fruits of her mother's labor, for which Mrs. Li is very angry.
In this electronic age, children seem to be proficient in all kinds of smart products. Of course, Lele is no exception, when he was one year old, his grandparents' "coaxing baby artifact" is a tablet computer, with various cartoons on it, small ** short films, Lele is naturally familiar with it for a long time, only the tablet can make Lele quiet.
After dinner, Mrs. Li took Lele downstairs to play with the children in the community, in order to better improve the relationship with the classmates and become more familiar with the students. Lele prefers to take the Transformers that his grandfather just bought for him, and he has to ride a scooter, and Mrs. Li thinks that as long as the child is happy, let him be.
As soon as Ms. Li arrived at the playground, she chatted with her neighbors, and Lele played with other children. But after a while, Mrs. Li found Lele standing alone in the playground **, holding a toy in her hand. There is a sense of loneliness invisibly.
Mrs. Li came to her son: "Son, why don't you go playing" Mrs. Li touched her son's head. "Mom, they don't play with me," Mrs. Li heard her son say and led him to the children's side.
After returning home, Mrs. Li found that her son had too many problems, and when her husband came back, she asked her husband to communicate with his son. Who knew that after her husband came back, he didn't agree with his son, and he hit her son's body and hurt her mother's heart, Mrs. Li was distressed, and she had a big quarrel with her husband for this.
On the first day of the new students, Mr. Li and Mrs. Li sent their children to school together, and the principal warmly received the new students and invited Mrs. Li to join the parent group.
The two decided to let Lele stay at school for dinner at noon, being too picky eaters at home, and with the help of other students in the school, it should improve. After school in the evening, the principal's words meant that Lele would not cooperate with the teacher's work and disrupt other students' classes. and said with a smile that it is the nature of boys to love to play, and Mrs. Li didn't think too much about it.
Bathing Lele at night, taking off his clothes, he found that Lele had a wound on his back, which was obviously cut by something, and his legs were also blue. Mrs. Li asked Lele what was going on, if she was fighting with other children, and Lele lied that she didn't.
Mrs. Li looked at the pressure from her son's mouth and couldn't ask anything, so she decided to go to the school early the next morning to ask the teacher for clarification, Mr. Li was very angry and told her son: When others bully you, don't coax it, remember to fight back. I can't beat it, and I go home and tell my dad. Lele felt that his father was reasonable and gave his father a big compliment.
Lele is five years old and almost six years old, and he is also going to be a student in a large class, and the principal often sends messages to Mrs. Li: Lele broke the light in the class, Lele always runs to other classes to disturb others' normal classes, and he can't sleep during nap time....
Slowly, Mrs. Li felt that her son was no longer disobedient, and everything would not be her son's problem, and she also had a conflict with the principal, and was persuaded by the teacher to quit.
Instead of blaming, the grandparents blamed all the problems on the teacher. Mom took Lele home as usual, but Mom ignored Lele along the way, and Lele felt very bored.
When I went up from the first floor to the first floor, I met Zhao who was delivering water to customers, and Zhao was carrying a 40-pound bucket on his shoulder.
Lele glanced at Zhao with his eyes, Zhao had also sent water to their family before, because he was carrying a 40-kilogram bucket on his shoulder, and it was not good to carry it again, and he didn't have the strength to speak.
Zhao didn't say hello to Lele, and soon the elevator reached the ninth floor, Mrs. Li walked out first, Zhao then struggled to step forward, Lele saw that Zhao had just taken a step, and stretched out his left foot to Zhao's feet.
Zhao stumbled and almost fell, and the bucket on his shoulder almost fell, Zhao was scared into a cold sweat and glared at Lele behind him.
Zhao recalled that if he was tripped and the elevator door was just closed, and the elevator was suddenly shaken, the elevator would fall, and the consequences would be unimaginable.
If you fall at the elevator door and fall on the floor tiles, not to mention that you fall down, the bucket will break your bucket and you will have to pay the guests for this trip.
The more he thought about Zhao, the more angry he became, and when he turned around, he kicked Lele twice, but he didn't really kick Lele, he just wanted to scare and scare him. Lele subconsciously took a few steps back.
Mrs. Li put down the mobile phone in her hand and watched Zhao teach Lele a lesson. Zhao said while scaring Lele's mouth: "I'm not your parents, I won't get used to you" After speaking, Zhao angrily carried the bucket and continued to complete the next work.
Mrs. Li watched Zhao educate her son, but instead of being angry, she felt that Zhao had taught Lele a lesson.
Family education is an important part of children's growth, parents need to pay attention to their children's growth dynamics, understand their children's ideas and needs, and let their children become independent, positive and caring people through correct guidance and leadership, which is the source of family happiness and the key to children's success.
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