Mother-in-law treats you like air, have you ever tried the feeling of being neglected?When you talk to someone, she completely ignores your existence and only cares about herself talking to others as if you don't exist
Have you ever met someone like this?Chen Songling had encountered this situation before, and she not only encountered it, but also had to get along with such a person for a long time, because this person was her mother-in-law.
At the beginning of the show, Chen Songling and Zhang Duo were playing songs at home, and both of them seemed to be very happy and enjoying this quiet and beautiful life.
However, at this time, Zhang Duo's mother called a **, which broke the good atmosphere.
* Obviously for Zhang Duo, when ** connected, Chen Songling politely greeted her mother-in-law and asked her about her recent situation and where she was.
However, the mother-in-law didn't seem to hear her, so she only cared about talking to her son, and told her son in ** that she was invited by the program team and was about to live in their house for a while.
Not only did she completely ignore Chen Songling's greetings, but she also had no respect for her status as a hostess.
However, Chen Songling did not give up, she took her mother-in-law's words again and talked to her enthusiastically, but was once again ignored.
This made Zhang Duo next to him very angry, and his words immediately became expressive of ending the conversation, and then hung up.
After hanging up**, Zhang Duo and Chen Songling glanced at each other, Zhang Duo comforted his wife, and Chen Songling also said that it didn't matter.
Obviously, this mother-in-law's behavior has become the norm, and the two seem to have become Xi to this situation.
After Zhang Duo's mother came to her son's house, her behavior shocked netizens again
Not only did she turn a blind eye to Chen Songling, but she also went against her everywhere, picked on her, and even found fault with some unreasonable things, completely ignoring the existence of the camera.
In her eyes, her son Zhang Duo is the best actor and son in the world, and her daughter-in-law Chen Songling is not worthy of him at all.
She not only treats Chen Songling as air, but also lets her do all kinds of work, while Zhang Duo is regarded by her as a person who should rest and should not do anything, and should enjoy life.
She has a very different attitude towards her son and daughter-in-law.
Zhang Duo's mother not only pretended to be on the show, but also praised her son, almost saying that he was incomparable
What's more, when she speaks, she seems to be reciting poetry, with a calm voice, with a very slow speaking speed, full of undulating tones, so that Zhang Duo's father next to her can't stand it, so that she stops pretending and sounds like acting.
After Zhang Duo's mother heard that it was exposed, she could only smile awkwardly and did not refute.
It can be seen that she usually doesn't speak so exaggeratedly, just because she is on the show, this heavy burden is really embarrassing.
Every time she interviews Zhang Duo's mother, she is always inseparable from the topic of her son, claiming that her son is impeccable in terms of appearance, height, morality and acting skills, and he is simply excellent.
But he didn't mention anything about his daughter-in-law.
After a long time, even Zhang Duo's father couldn't stand it anymore, and said bluntly: "You have been talking about your son, why do you never mention your daughter-in-law?"Faced with such doubts, Zhang Duo's mother could only smile awkwardly and couldn't refute it.
Zhang Duo's mother's dissatisfaction with Chen Songling comes from her expectations for her son
She hopes that her son can find a daughter-in-law who is smart, beautiful, young, can do housework and can take care of Zhang Duo.
However, Chen Songling is 8 years older than Zhang Duo and has a proud career, which is destined to not be a little woman who will only take care of her husband at home.
These factors made Zhang Duo's mother difficult to be satisfied with Chen Songling.
In addition, Chen Songling once suffered from ovarian cancer, although she has **, it is difficult to conceive again.
This means that she and Zhang Duo have no chance to have children of their own.
However, Zhang Duo gladly accepted this fact and was determined to stay with his wife until old age.
Zhang Duo's mother couldn't accept this reality, but she held her breath because she couldn't refute her son's insistence.
She found all kinds of excuses to pick on Chen Songling, whether it was her dress, cooking skills, or housework, and even dissatisfied with the gifts Chen Songling chose.
Usually she doesn't bother to take care of Chen Songling's kindness.
Although Chen Songling tried her best to please her, she often felt aggrieved.
The two often quarrel in the show, and many times they need the reconciliation of the program team to continue recording, which shows that the contradictions between them are very deep.
If the husband is like this, what does the woman ask for Zhang Duo naturally knew about the contradictions between his mother and wife, and even when he was in love with Chen Songling, he was strongly opposed by his mother
Thanks to Zhang Duo's persistence, his mother was finally able to compromise.
Faced with such an aggressive and unscrupulous situation as his mother, Zhang Duo was simply in a dilemma.
On one side is his mother, who gave birth to him and raised him, and he doesn't want to make her angry;The other half is the person he loves deeply, and he is reluctant to let his wife get hurt.
Every time there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Zhang Duo will come forward to reconcile, so that both mother and wife feel better.
Zhang Duo knew that his mother was unreasonable, and he also had his own measurements in his heart.
When he can't reconcile, he will choose to side with his wife.
Often, his mother would stop when he was facing Chen Songling.
It is precisely because of his deep love and maintenance that Chen Songling will not care about her mother-in-law's bad words, and will take the initiative to make peace after the matter has passed.
Everyone has their own way of life, and you can't just treat your daughter-in-law with bad words just because she can't have children or doesn't meet your expectations, and just treat the other person as if they don't exist
After all, people live their own lives, and how can outsiders know about their happiness?Zhang Duo was able to accept his wife's problems and shortcomings happily, and loved her very much.
As a mother, there is no need to dwell on one or two issues all the time, which can easily lead to the deterioration of the relationship with her son and is not conducive to family harmony.