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A few days ago, Dong Yuhui's small essay was still in an uproar, and "Dong Mingzhu angrily reprimanded Meng Yutong" was on the top of Weibo's hot search.
Dong Mingzhu and Meng Yutong's "grievances" must be clear to everyone, and they can guess that the two must have broken up unhappily. When the gang first broke up, Gree was still calm, and posted a message wishing Meng Yutong and netizens well.
But with Meng Yutong going to Tsinghua to give a speech, the popularity of fans is getting higher and higher, and now the annual income can reach 4 million just by receiving advertisements, which is estimated to make Boss Dong feel unbalanced, and he can't help but confine Meng Yutong:When you live in Gree, you don't do it well. Gree cultivated you, Ya, but you made money everywhere with Gree's endorsement.
In particular, Meng Yutong's Xiaohongshu profile is also prominently writtenWith the secretary of the president of the top 500, these words stinged Boss Dong's eyes even more.
Maybe afterwards, the more Dong Mingzhu thought about it, the more angry she became, so we also crisscrossed the rivers and lakes all our lives, and finally was put on a spot by an unknown yellow-haired girl, and the anger in her heart made her lose the dignity and demeanor of a big entrepreneur.
No, at the induction ceremony of Gree's 2023 college students, Dong Mingzhu couldn't help it: not only publicly reprimanded Meng Yutong, but also had poor ability and disdedication, couldn't even write an article as a secretary, and only wanted to be an Internet celebrity, so he fired her.
I can't wait to let everyone know that Meng Yutong was expelled by Gree.
Even ordinary management knows that when the employees are gone, they still have to get together and disperse, Dong Mingzhu is such a well-known entrepreneur, and the whole network reports that the employees are not good. It seems that he is indeed angry.
Although Meng Yutong also did something wrong, after Dong Mingzhu's operation, everyone supported Meng Yutong instead. accused Dong Mingzhu one after another, he is a big entrepreneur, why must he put the little girl to death, the pattern is too small!
Why more and more young people are fleeing the workforce
Look at how "sweet" the two used to be, and how ugly they are now.
After reading Dong Yuhui's "Little Composition Incident", and then watching Meng Yutong go to tea and cool, he was also "hunted down" by the previous bossI finally understand why more and more young people are choosing to flee the workplace.
Because, not only do you work a lot here, you get less money, but you also have to accept PUA from your boss and colleagues. The boss draws the boss one by one, and carefully calculates how to squeeze the value of the employees to the fullest, but he is reluctant to give the employees a bowl of soup.
My friend Ming Xu once shared with me an experience of his resignation:
Mingxu is a front-end development engineer. Because of my interest, I opened a *** while sharing work experience and giving development guidance to others.
The other party was very busy at work and often worked overtime because of the project. finally found a hobby for himself, but after his boss found out about it, it became a big deal.
He worked overtime until 9 p.m. for a long time, and his boss pretended not to see it, but he posted an article on the weekend, and his boss immediately arranged a job for him, for fear that he would be idle.
Not only that, but the other party always suspects him of using the company's platform to do private work, and often quietly appears behind him during working hours to see what he is doing.
The boss's suspicion made Ming Xu very unhappy and aggrieved, he couldn't help complaining: During the peak period of project operation, I used to be busy until 3 o'clock in the morning, and even my wife gave birth to a child, I didn't stay with me, I paid so much, the boss didn't see it, I wrote an article on the weekend, and the boss could think of whether it was made during working hours.
So, within 3 months, he left his job.
Mingxu left the workplace because his boss was suspicious, and he was obviously working overtime to work on projects, but he was suspected for no reason. At the same time, I felt that it would be stupid to work so hard, so I gave up my job.
There are also people who leave the workplace because they are too depressed. Wu Yu is the human resources director of a pharmaceutical company, and they have a chairman who particularly likes to have meetings, and it doesn't matter if he likes to have meetings, the main thing is to hold meetings when things are big.
Once, a light in their office area was broken, and it was already 10 o'clock in the evening, and their chairman immediately called all the executives to have a meeting on the issue of this light, which was open until 3 o'clock in the morning.
More than once or twice, it's not uncommon to have meetings until midnight because of a little thing. Not only that, but what is even more excessive is that sometimes in the middle of the night, I call him to go to the company for a meeting.
And Wu Yu also resigned from ...... because his life was seriously disturbed
In reality, there are still many people like Ming Xu and Wu Yu, and there are many people who either choose to swallow their anger or suffer silently in the corner by themselves in order to make a living. In fact, this is not conducive to your own growth.
Patience and depression is the least cost-effective consumption, it will not only damage their enthusiasm for work, but also damage their health because of emotions, if you feel that the environment you are in is very depressing, then don't bear it, hurry up and leave, to choose a more suitable way of working.
As Ampei Yelang, the author of "Late Night Canteen", said, job-hopping is not a choice for the present, but a choice for the future.
Why you should choose freelancing
Because of freedom, you have the final say on your own value, and you don't have to be PUA by others.
This is the voice of my former colleague and now friend Xiaoxu. She used to work as a designer in a training institution, but because of the double reduction, she was accidentally reduced, and later found a job in a state-owned enterprise.
The style of state-owned enterprises, everyone knows, there are always so many senior relationship households, very capable of pointing fingers, pointing at every turn, the implication is that they have their own ability, you are not an outsider.
In state-owned enterprises, one of the most important skills is to be able to lick, as for whether the design of the work is good or not, it is not all a matter of other people's words.
Xiaoxu was quite bored, so she quit her job and concentrated on her hobby and taking pictures of engaged couples. Unexpectedly, it became a small hit on Douyin, many fans added her WeChat to buy her services, and Xiaoxu's customers became more and more, and slowly, the income was higher than the job.
Here's what she got for her clients:
Now, she only spends 3 hours on each shoot and the rest is her own.
I have time, I have money to make, and the customers like her very much, and I always say that she serves well, Xiaoxu said to me: Why do I have to work?
She is enjoying the state she is in. Since freelancing, she has never complained because she is happy every day.
Nothing is more important than deciding how she likes, life is too short, and she hopes that in the future, she can work the way she likes.
How can you achieve freelancing
In fact, whether it is Meng Yutong and Dong Mingzhu, Yu Minhong and Dong Yuhui, there is no right or wrong in the things they have made in the past few days, it is the ass that decides the head.
The boss wants his employees to do more work for less money, and he wants to work for himself 24 hours a dayAnd employees want to get more money and do less work. Or, employees have a better direction to go and have another choice.
The positions are different, the directions are different, there is a fate to go hand in hand, and it is good to go their own way without fate, there is really no need to be like Dong Mingzhu, you have to give someone a charge to the little girl.
If you are tired of the workplace and want to freelancing, here are two pertinent suggestions for you, I hope you will carefully evaluate your situation and make the most suitable choice for you.
First, freelancing is good, but it's not for everyone. Freelancing actually requires people, first of all, people need to have absolute self-discipline.
Although freelancing does not work, it does not mean that you do not go to work, but you just go to work in a form of freedom, and you need to make work arrangements automatically and spontaneously, and you are even busier than going to work.
If a person can't complete the task in a timely and efficient manner when working in the company, and procrastinate under supervision, then it's better to go to work obediently!
Second, freelancing requires you to have a hard skill. Just like Xiaoxu, her hard skill is the photography and design experience she has accumulated in the workplace, because she is professional enough, others are willing to buy her services, and they also recommend her to their friends.
If a person does not have a particularly outstanding core skill at work, or if their job is messy, it is recommended not to freelancing. Because you are not capable at work, and there are leaders who can turn a blind eye, but freelancing is completely subject to market assessment, and only if you match your ability, will someone ask you to cooperate.
If you want to realize freelancing as soon as possible, then start from these two aspects, use 3-5 years to cultivate a field, accumulate resources, and polish yourself, when you have professional ability, strong self-discipline, customer resources, you are not far from freelancing!
Life is not easy, I hope you can realize freelancing as soon as possible and be happy to be yourself!