When it comes to Di Lieba, her image in our eyes has always been so lively and cheerful, as fresh as a summer breeze, but I didn't expect that her heart was actually a turbulent ocean. Come, follow me to uncover this mind box about Reba.
Imagine that you are a goddess with a good face and has always been synonymous with perfection in everyone's eyes. Then, the hotel you are responsible for has a small reservation and is either full or wrong. What will you do? Well, most people will probably smile, wave their hands, and think it's not a big deal. However, Reba's reaction was - guilt and self-blame. It was as if she had made the biggest mistake in the world, and she had made the sins of the whole world bear in her heart.
Let's take a look at some of her details in the show. In order not to wake up Sister Qin Lan, she actually chose to sit on the balcony all night and wait for her hair to dry naturally. Do you have a feeling of being warmed? That's right, this is her people-pleasing personality at work, in order for others to have a good resting environment, she chooses to pay silently, even regardless of her own comfort.
So the question is, who does Di Lieba's people-pleasing personality please me?
In fact, she pleases all of us, the audience. She pleases everyone who sees her give like this, and she gives us the impression that she is really good, an image of being meticulous and considerate of others in every way. The care she showed in the details undoubtedly touched our hearts deeply.
However, it also makes us reflect on why she is so flattering. Is society's expectations too high, or is she herself too demanding of herself? This kind of reflection is actually an interpretation of her people-pleasing personality.
After all, Miss Reba is a very sensitive girl who cares about the feelings of others. She sees the needs of others as more important than her own, always cares about the emotions of others, and even shows that she cares too much about small things. This kind of over-pleasing is actually a kind of self-sacrifice, which makes her spiritual world overly immersed in the worry about the expectations of others.
We thought Reba was very cheerful and lively, but we didn't expect her mental exhaustion to be so serious. Like a bright star, she is always illuminating the path ahead for others, but ignores her own light.
So, can we take some inspiration from Reba's story?
First of all, we should learn to appreciate her efforts, but at the same time, we must also understand her heart. Her people-pleasing personality is not a weakness, but a manifestation of her kindness and sensitivity. Therefore, while appreciating, we should also give her enough understanding and love.
We can also learn from her story some lessons about giving advice to girls with pleasing personalities. First, learn to relax and not always overthink the feelings of others. In life, we can't always live in other people's expectations, but also know how to protect our emotions. Learn to express your needs appropriately and not put your feelings on the back burner. It's good to please in moderation, but you also need to know how to protect your feelings and not overly ignore your own interests for the needs of others.
Overall, Miss Reba's people-pleasing personality allows us to see a different her, a more real and sensitive her. In the entertainment industry, which is full of grass and trees, her performance may be a kind of courage and a kind of truth. I hope that while appreciating public figures, we can give more understanding, and at the same time, we must be kind to our hearts and minds, and not let excessive flattery become a burden. Just like Reba's story, let us care more about ourselves and everyone around us.