A sense of happiness and fulfillment in life is achieved by achieving a purpose in life. The magnitude of the goal value is directly proportional to the sense of well-being and fulfillment. A life without a goal can only give people a momentary nerve stimulation, and nothing else. Based on a person's concern and goal positioning in life, the goal of life can be divided into three categories: social life goal, semi-social life goal, and personal life goal.
Social life goals
In order to improve social status:This kind of life purpose still has a high support rating for people today. As long as society exists, the human instinct for power will not disappear, and therefore, it will also provide a breeding ground for the continued existence of this purpose of life.
Faced with a life goal, some people only have their eyes fixed on the highest point, and some people climb up step by step, the former is a minority, among which there are not too many people of type A and type B. Type O people also have some ambitious people after middle age, but young Type O people generally do not do this. Type A people like to climb one step at a time, Type O people have the strongest desire to keep improving, and Type B and Type B people often want to improve their status in order to carry out their work more easily.
Want to gain fame and fame:In the information age, due to the popularity of the Internet, sometimes people value social visibility more than social status without reputation. In today's society, there are more and more people who value popularity, and reputation is more and more favored by people.
O-type people are most eager for popularity, but there are also many O-type people who have a certain degree of popularity, and will shift their attention to the aspect of paying attention to affordability. Type AB people also sometimes show a desire for self-expression that is no less than that of Type O people. In general, though, they take fame relatively lightly and are rarely stubborn. There are fewer people in Type A and Type B who seek fame and fame, but in their later years there will be some people who value fame and fame very much. The pursuit of fame and fame is a social psychology of human beings, but it is far more dangerous than the pursuit of real status.
Career Development:Career refers not only to running a business or engaging in politics, but also to engage in learning and art. Most Type O people have a strong desire to develop their careers. Type B people are not very aware of this, but sometimes they can go all out to develop their careers. Type A people's desire to develop their careers is often to prove their own existential value. In addition, there is a limit to the desire of Type AB people to develop their careers. Career desire is closely related to the desire to survive, and sometimes a person cannot dominate his career, but he can also get a great sense of satisfaction by participating in career activities. Pioneering business has a wide range of connections with society, and because of this, sudden changes in society often cause setbacks in career development.
A sense of mission in society:Under the influence of the moral concept that everyone should dedicate themselves to society, people have developed the purpose and idea of life to pursue satisfaction through social service. This is not limited by blood type. However, in comparison, it seems that this kind of thinking is still stronger than that of Type A people. There are also some people in the AB type who have a strong sense of participating in society, and their behavior also reflects a strong sense of dedication to society. However, in essence, dedication to society is generally their second purpose in life. There are not many people in Type B who hold this kind of thinking, but once they have this sense of mission, they will feel the vastness of history and the greatness of life. The sense of mission of the O-type who pays attention to reality often stays only on the surface. In general, this sense of social mission and social dedication also changes with the values in society.
Live for someone else:This kind of thinking is a concrete manifestation of the sense of social mission above. Here, they no longer talk about great ideas and morals, but prove their worth with practical actions. The target of service can be a job, a neighbor, a relative or friend, a region or an ethnic group, or it may not be a specific target. If a man is a man, he may be a qualified husband and exist for his own family. The difference between this kind of thinking and a simple sense of social mission is that they not only want to satisfy themselves, but also have a strong desire to be recognized by the other party. That is, their happiness will depend on whether the other person acknowledges it or not. This kind of thinking type A person is stronger, and in terms of behavior, type AB person is more prominent. Type O people like to praise others, while Type B people like to be praised by others, and the motives of both are not very pure.
Pursuit of stable interpersonal relationships:This kind of person takes the greatest pleasure in making good friends, close colleagues, and having a good wife or husband, and they want the relationship to develop steadily. There are more O-type people in this kind of people, and A-type people are often satisfied with being able to make "bosom friends". Although Type B and Type AB people are also concerned about the stable development of such interpersonal relationships, few of them feel that their lives are meaningful because they can do good things for their classmates and colleagues. There are some similar thoughts in it, and they want the people around them to see themselves as good people. Type A people practice this, and Type O people also have a strong desire for this in their minds.
There are often joys and sorrows in the world, there is life and death, social conditions are changing all the time, and only relying on the survival of the other party to achieve the goal of life will always go hand in hand with unstable conditions.
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