In the world of emotions, everyone longs to be loved and seen.
For girls, it is often assumed that the way boys express their likes is bold and direct, and they will definitely not twist and preach.
But that's not the case, after all, everyone has their own personality and way of doing things. Just like some boys, when they meet someone they like, they tend to choose a more tactful, subtle, and restrained way to express their feelings.
Therefore, if a girl finds that the boy around her is not pursuing you passionately like the male protagonist in the movie, don't be discouraged, maybe he is silently paying attention to you and liking you in his unique way.
Here's how to find out if a guy likes you.
1. Observe his eyes
The eyes are the windows to the soul, and a person's eyes can often reveal the true thoughts of his heart.
If a guy likes you, his eyes tend to unconsciously stay on you and pay attention to your every move. When you look at him, he may quickly look away and show a shy expression. In addition, his eyes may be full of tenderness and affection, which are signs that he likes you.
2. Pay attention to his words and deeds
1. Take the initiative to approach you: he will find all kinds of excuses to talk to you or find opportunities to stay by your side.
2. Be particularly concerned about you: He will care about your daily life, ask about your current situation, or take the initiative to lend a helping hand when you need help.
3. Praise you often: He will sincerely praise your appearance, personality or talent, so that you can feel his appreciation for you.
4. Willing to pay for you: He will be willing to spend time, energy, and money for you, such as accompanying you shopping, helping you move things, giving you small gifts, etc.
3. Observe his social ** dynamics
On social media, he may give you frequent likes, comments, or shares of your posts. In addition, he may pay attention to your dynamics and interact with you at the right time. If he keeps in touch with you through social** on a regular basis, it's also a sign that he likes you.
FourthObserve his friends and social**
1. Does he often mention you in front of his friends: If his friends or people around him know about his feelings for you, they may mention him in front of you or see you in a special way. Sometimes, his friends may notice his liking for you sooner than he does.
2. Does he follow you on social **: such as liking, commenting on your ** or status?If he interacts with you on social ** a lot, then this is also a positive sign.
5. Try to communicate with him directly
If you are still unsure about the above signs, the most direct way is to communicate with him.
Find a suitable time, a quiet place, and be honest about your feelings and confusion about him.
Through direct conversation, you can get a clearer picture of his heart and can also make your relationship clearer.
Summary:
Love is always inscrutable, but when a guy likes you, his words and deeds will always reveal some clues.
As long as youObserve with your heart and express yourself at the right timeOut of their own confusion, then, it is easy to find out the boy's mind.
Of course, everyone's way of expressing feelings is unique, and the most important thing is to feel and experience the other person's heart with your heart.