The article is entitled "The Contradictions and Entanglements of Protecting Father's Love When Daughters Get Married", which mainly tells about the emotional entanglements and ambivalences of some fathers when their daughters get married. Here is the original article that I rewrote based on the content of this post:
Recently, in a program, the host asked the celebrity Sun Nan: "Have you ever thought that one day, your daughter Bao Yao will get married, and she will get married?"Sun Nan's answer was moving: "Nono, don't think about it, I won't go, if Bao Yao gets married one day, I refuse to participate, I will bless her at home, but don't go to the scene." This remark sparked widespread attention and discussion, and people couldn't help but think about the impact of daughter's marriage on father's love.
The daughter is the weakness of the father, and the father's love is selfless and unconditional. However, the test of father's love for a daughter's marriage is also huge. The night before Pan Changjiang married his daughter, he and his wife recalled their daughter's growth and didn't sleep well all night. It was a happy day, but they agreed not to cry. But when he handed his daughter's hand to his son-in-law, his heart was shaken, but he quickly adjusted his mood and kept smiling. This is a psychological struggle that a father has to face, and as a father, he can't bear the pain of his daughter marrying someone else.
Similar emotional entanglements have been expressed in other fathers. Liu Wei said bluntly: "I don't want to have a daughter, my daughter marries another man, I can't bear this kind of psychological entanglement." "Fatherly love is strong, and fathers want to always be the protector of their daughters and not let them be wronged. However, when their daughters get married, fathers lose the ability to protect and care for their daughters, and this sense of powerlessness can make people feel uncomfortable crying.
The marriage of a daughter is a turning point in a family and a norm in society. Similar events have occurred in the past and present. Pu Cunxin cried when his daughter got married, and Hu Jun also cried offstage, they all knew that sooner or later, their daughter would also leave, this mood was embarrassing. The father used his life to take care of his pampered daughter and entrusted it to his son-in-law's family, sincerely hoping that they could meet a man worthy of entrusting him for life. For the sake of their daughter's happiness, even if their hearts hurt, they still choose to let go.
This question has aroused heated discussions among the majority of netizens, and some netizens expressed their understanding and approval of the selflessness and selflessness of father's love. There are also people who believe that it is normal for a daughter to marry in life, and a father should understand and respect his daughter's choice. In any case, the marriage of a daughter is a spiritual baptism for the father, a process of growth and acceptance.
In addition to the impact on the father's personal feelings, the marriage of a daughter also has a certain impact on the whole society. The rise of women's independent thinking makes it no longer a unilateral choice for daughters to marry, but the result of joint decisions between the two parties. This also means that the way and scale of the daughter's marriage event will change, no longer limited to the traditional wedding method, and more people will begin to pay attention to the relationship and companionship between father and daughter.
The marriage of a daughter is a necessary rite of life, which is not only the pain that the father must face, but also the beginning of the infinite extension of father's love. Whether it is Sun Nan, Pan Changjiang or Liu Wei, they all sent blessings to their daughters with the most sincere fatherly love. However, in this world, whether or not you can be happy is relative, and only by letting your daughter marry someone who truly loves and cares for her can you reassure your father. Therefore, the marriage of a daughter is not only the happiness of a daughter, but also the best reward for father's love.
Father's love is great and selfless, and the marriage of a daughter does not mean the end of father's love, but only a new beginning of the father-daughter relationship. The marriage of a daughter is a turning point for a family and even the whole society, and every girl wants to marry a man worthy of life and reassure her father. But this requires fathers to let go of their contradictions and entanglements, admit the growth of their daughters, and accept their own choices. May every daughter marry her beloved, and fathers only need to rest assured to bless and protect.
Now, have you ever wondered what one day, your daughter will get married, what will you choose?As a father, do you feel entangled and sad?Please leave your comments to share your thoughts and experiences. When a daughter gets married, the contradictions and entanglements of father's love are worth thinking about.