With the progress of society and the development of the times, I think everyone has also noticed these phenomena. We don't know whether the social progress is fast or people have turned their lives upside down, I have counted several phenomena in the society to share with you, you can see if these phenomena appear in our lives, reflected in our lives
01.Vegetable sellers don't eat their own food, and chefs don't eat their own food.
Today's people are completely different from the previous concept, as if the life is reversed, and today's sellers sell products you never know what black "technology" is put in the products sold in order to save money, use poor fertilizer planting, kitchen in order to reduce costs, use expired meat to fry and eat. Those unscrupulous merchants use the worst things, plus some so-called "technology" to make things the way you want. The vegetable seller dislikes his own food, there are too many pesticides in it, and he is afraid of being poisonous;The chef dislikes the food in his restaurant, the food is not good, and there are too many food additives for fear of not being able to eat.
02.Boys and girls, stupid can't tell the difference.
Modern young people are too much in pursuit of "freedom", so their dress and posture are less and less like the same sex, and in today's society, men may be more feminine than women, and women may be more powerful than men. When the man speaks, he holds the orchid finger, and the woman speaks with a momentum, at first glance, the man is not a man, a woman is not a woman, and he will always admit his mistakes, which leads to a lot of jokes for others to see, which is really the "fashion atmosphere" of young people.
03 There are too many "leftover women" in the city, too many "leftover men" in the countryside, and young women in the city pursue unmarried and infertile women, pursue a free and young life, and choose freedom;And the families in the countryside have to have a boy, which leads to a large gap between the proportion of men and women, and when the children grow up, they find that they can't marry a wife at all, so find a wife in the city, people want education, cars, houses, bride price, appearance, and height. It's too difficult to find a desirable partner, and no one wants to endure the grievances and hardships brought about by marriage, so it's better to choose someone who is chic.
04.There is no one to take care of the nursing home, and there are crowds of people at the entrance of the kindergarten.
It's like human nature to always love children more than parents. Parents need to be taken care of, but as children, they push each other and shirk each other's responsibilities;There are groups of pampered children in the family, and the adults of the family surround a child, and the child's posture is larger than that of the parents, and the parents are not as high as the child's posture, and in the end they develop a giant baby and a "waste wood".
05.In the past, it was a kind of scolding to say that others were honest, it was down-to-earth and hardworking, and it was a kind of scolding.
In the past, it was said that people were honest, which was an affirmation of him as a person;Down-to-earth in doing things, he is a good seedling. And now saying that people are honest people is tantamount to scolding the other party for being a fool because he can't speak, because he doesn't understand human feelings, so he does all the dirty work and all the tiring work, and those kind and simple children, children who can't do things, have suffered a lot in society.
06.It is the uncle who owes the money, and it is the grandson who borrows the money.
There is a phenomenon in society, as if it is unified, it is always the uncle who owes money, I only promise when I borrow money, and I strike hard when I repay money, and in the end I can't tell who borrows money and who owes money. The person who owes money is as arrogant as the uncle, and the person who borrows the money is as humble as the grandson, and in today's society, as long as interests are involved, it seems that everyone has changed their temperament.
07 Young people, don't get married, don't have babies.
In the past, family planning required national policies to control the population. And now, in order to encourage young people to have babies, the second child is open and the third child is opened. But the main reason why modern young people face it is because it is difficult to raise themselves, and they still have childrenAfter getting married, it is not only the problem of eating and drinking the children, but also the problem of raising the children, and so on, which come to your life, so young people nowadays can not get married without getting married.
08 .Treat pets as the pearl of your palm, and treat your parents as your own burden. Some young people treat their parents extremely badly, but they treat cats and dogs in every way. And today's young people, thrifty to raise cats and dogs, some young people ask their parents to borrow money to raise cats and dogs, it is really ridiculous, every day to bathe cats and dogs, never to parents to wash their feet. Such children, raised are also white-eyed wolves, and it is indeed a good thing to have love for pets, but if you are not good to your parents, what is the meaning of your pets?
The above examples of social phenomena can be seen almost everywhere in the whole society, and I don't know if the society has changed, or the people's hearts have changed, or the development of science and technology has distorted people's mindsBut these phenomena are also a wake-up call for our lives. Let's not discard the traditional culture left to us by our ancestors, if you have these people around you, you might as well transfer them to see it, and tell them that the times have indeed progressed, but the traditional culture of our ancestors cannot be discarded!
Author |Some things about psychology, a lifetime of reluctance to love and freedom.
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