This proverb looks back to the pastRuralHumanlifeApproach and division of labor. At that time, farmland was the responsibility of men, and the condition of the fields could also indirectly reflect men's value and ability when they were burdened with heavy field tasks. A thriving farmland means that the man is equipped to manage effectively and is able to bring hope of a good harvest to the family.
Women, on the other hand, are mainly responsible for household affairs, they take care of the family, cook, do laundry, and also need to repair and clean men's clothes in a timely manner. A woman's ability to do meticulous housework can be embroidered through themLaceTake a peek. Attentive and ingeniousLaceIt represents the industriousness and virtuousness of a woman, who is more popular in the eyes of people and is more likely to be appreciated by others.
Expansion: In this proverb, men look at the fields and women look at the lace, describing the pastRuralpeoplelifedivision of labor and responsibilities. The men are responsible for the cultivation and management of the fields, and they toiled day and night, whether it was a hot summer or a cold winter, they toiled in the fields, for the sake of their families, in order to harvest a lush and rich land. Therefore, the landscape of the farmland and the growth of crops become a yardstick to measure a man's ability. Healthy and thriving farmland reflects a man's down-to-earth, hard-working and responsible character, which can create a better place for his familylifeCondition, this is the approval and identification of women with men.
Women, on the other hand, focus on household chores, taking care of their family's daily life, cooking food, and mending their family's clothes, washing shoes and socks. Their meticulousness and patience through embroideryLaceThis delicate handicraft art is on display. Beautifully detailedLaceThe pattern is the embodiment of the women's dexterous hands and family responsibilities, which brings out the virtuous and hard-working image of their housewives, and is also an affirmation and encouragement to their wives. LaceThe pattern not only reflects the skill of the embroiderer, but also shows the personality and sensitivity of the womenObservationand, therefore, those are able to embroider exquisitelyLacewill be recognized and loved by more people.
This proverb is the criterion by which the quality of men and women is judged. It is believed that a good man's body should be healthy and strong, if there is a dense oneBody hair, which means that you are healthy and able to do more physical work, which in turn brings more security to your family. However, many physically fit men tend to have a more rough personality inMarriagemay cause some distress to the wife. Therefore, the wife must become strong and strong in order to be secureMarriagestability. In addition, in the past era, when choosing a wife, men paid attention to women's physical fitness, especially women with plump bodies were more favored by the opposite sex. Not only do these busty women have a better physique, but they are also more likely to have healthy children, which adds more motivation to the family.
And "** out" is a specific constraint on women's quality. The first is to be filial, which is reflected in the respect and care for parents;The second is to be in good health so that you can take on the responsibilities of the family;In addition, loyalty is the only oneMarriageloyalty and single-mindedness;Don't steal means being honest and trusting in the family, and not behaving badlyFinally, it is necessary to be tolerant, which is reflected in understanding and tolerance for family members.
Expansion: This proverb proposes to judge and expect the qualities of men and women, judging a man's worth by his physical condition. A good man should have a healthy body, especially if he has a thick oneBody hair, which means that he is in good physical condition and is able to engage in more physical work and create more material security for the familylifeQuality. However, such men tend to have a rough personality, which requires the wife to maintain a strong and tough imageMarriageof balance. The wife must become sensible, capable and courageous for the sake of a stable family, learn to get along with her husband and make decisions for the family at critical moments.
In ancient times, men paid attention to women's physical fitness when choosing wives, especially women with plump bodies were more favored by them. These busty women usually have a better physique and are also more likely to conceive and have healthy children, which in turn brings more well-being to the family. And among women, people who are fat tend to be considered more attractive and more likely to be favored by the opposite sex. This is not because of their plump and cute image, but because of their concern for health andReproductionThe values are more in line with the expectations of society.
At the same time, the five constraints on women also reflect the requirements of ancient times for women's qualities. The first is filial piety, which represents respect and courtesy towards elders. The second is physical health, which is to be able to take on the responsibilities and obligations of the family. Fidelity requires women to be presentMarriageBe faithful and single-minded towards your family and husband. Don't Steal emphasizes the need for women to maintain family harmony and trust, and not to cheat, bully or betray. Finally, tolerance means that women should have the qualities of tolerance and understanding in the family, be able to deal with conflicts and problems within the family, and make the family more harmonious and happy.
The deep meaning of these two sayings lies in the rightRuralpeoplelifeway andMarriageThe constraints of ideas, through such constraints, can form a mutually complementary and stable relationship in the family, and then bring more happiness and joy to the family.
Conclusion:RuralAlthough the old saying is easy to understand, it contains profound life philosophy and social observation. They look back to the pastRuralHumanlifeways and values, shownRuralThe richness and connotation of culture. These sayings describe in a concise and vivid way the different roles and complementary relationships between men and women in the family, as well as the importance that people place on qualities such as physical health, hard work and loyalty. Although times are constantly changing, the wisdom and experience contained in these old sayings can still provide us with some inspiration and food for thought. Let us cherish and pass on these preciousRuralwisdom to make it combine with the development of modern society for ourslifeAdd a different kind of fun and inspiration.