Even though my father is Jet Li, we have been adrift for more than ten years, so what's the big deal.
Jet Li and his first wife, Huang Qiuyan's daughter, suffered, while in contrast, Li Zhi and Jet Li's children were endlessly pampered since childhood.
Recently, Jet Li's youngest daughter Jeda shared a ** traveling with her father on social platforms, in which Jet Li was smiling and full of warmth.
Why do the four children born to Jet Li have two completely different destinies?He had a brilliant career and was highly sought after, but why would he tolerate a stain on his private life?
It all started with his initial emotional experience.
Jet Li's childhood was rather unfortunate, as he lost his father at the beginning of his language studies. In those days, a family would be in trouble without male support, and even eating became a problem.
After Jet Li survived poverty for a while, he began to work part-time to help his family. Later, he heard that he could make a lot of money as a martial arts actor, so he resolutely decided to learn martial arts.
When he was in sports school, probably because of poverty and low self-esteem, Jet Li often hid alone and silently practiced dancing in the corner.
There is a strange man at school who is known to be a non-talkative person and always wears ill-fitting clothes. These ridicules gradually reached Jet Li's ears, and he became even more inferior.
Luckily, it wasn't long before he saw a glimmer of light.
Huang Qiuyan was studying martial arts at a sports school, and when she saw Jet Li's lonely figure, she felt sad and moved, so she took the initiative to approach him and often shared her food with him.
After getting acquainted, I will take Jet Li home every weekend to improve the food.
Huang Qiuyan's parents began to joke that you are interested in a young man and always bring him home.
Huang Qiuyan firmly said: Don't talk casually!The younger brother's family situation is not optimistic, and his mother has to take care of five children by herself!
However, when she said this, Huang Qiuyan's face flushed unconsciously, and the seed that moved countless people had also taken root in her heart.
Jet Li's long-term concern upset him, but he clearly understood that he was more grateful to Huang Qiuyan.
However, his mistake was that he chose to be with Huang Qiuyan even though he knew what he really thought. We don't know what he really thinks, we can only feel that he regrets this choice countless times.
In 1982, the movie "Shaolin Temple" achieved unprecedented success, and then set off a boom in learning martial arts all over the country, and Jet Li became a "superhero" in the hearts of people across the country.
Huang Qiuyan is very proud of this, but Jet Li is thinking about how to end this relationship in his heart.
He later thought of a way that he thought was foolproof, that is, to make his senior sister Huang Qiuyan famous. If you can't give her affection, then it's also a good choice to give her fame and financial resources.
I have to say that Jet Li still retains some feelings for Huang Qiuyan, but it is really puzzling why he was able to put this woman in danger so decisively after many years.
Jet Li successfully invited Huang Qiuyan to participate in the second part of "Shaolin Temple", but when the plan was going smoothly, it happened unexpectedly.
During the filming of "North and South Shaolin", Jet Li suffered serious injuries, and even doctors said that he could be paralyzed.
This is a huge blow to him, the glory of his life is just beginning to unfold, how can it end here?
Huang Qiuyan has been with him during this time, not only assisting him in his training, but also doing her best to regulate his emotions.
What's even harder is that Jet Li's mother was not in good health at that time, and Huang Qiuyan had to work tirelessly back and forth every day, which was really difficult.
Jet Li married Huang Qiuyan, such a dedication may not be able to be ignored by anyone, in a huge move.
Although Huang Qiuyan did not have a wedding room and did not hold a grand wedding, she was still happily united with her beloved.
Huang Qiuyan is more eager to become a virtuous wife who can keep the family in order, rather than achieving brilliant achievements in her career. Therefore, she almost gave up her career, and even refused the invitation of the crew of "Journey to the West" after marriage.
Subsequently, Jet Li went to the United States to make a living, and she settled in the United States with her eldest daughter Li Si while pregnant. They took out a loan to buy a house there, which eventually became one of the major factors that crushed her.
The martial arts gym that had been in business for a while was not in a recession in the United States, so Jet Li decided to return to the Hong Kong film industry and filmed the movie "Dragon in the World".
He met the charming and moving Li Zhi on the set, the one who made the gambling king fascinated and was almost accepted into the fifth room.
The hero is trapped in the beauty pass, and when Jet Li saw Li Zhi for the first time, he seemed to be deeply attracted to her. Later, he learns that Li Zhi has a similar experience with himself, so he completely indulges in it.
He thinks of Richi as his soul mate, as if he is the only person in the world who can truly understand him. He poured his love into this woman so passionately that he didn't even care about the responsibilities he shouldered, and he didn't care about Huang Qiuyan's care and support for him at the beginning.
He longs for the woman with all his heart, even if the other person does not accept his pursuit.
After being rejected by Li Zhi, he began to reflect, speculating that maybe it was because he had a family, so Li Zhi rejected him. So, without saying a word, he dialed the ocean number that he hadn't contacted for a long time.
Huang Qiuyan received Jet Li's **, she was very happy, and as soon as she picked up **, she shouted: "Baby, come and listen to Dad's **."
Jet Li said coldly, don't let the child hear it.
Huang Qiuyan had some doubts in her heart, and then the words she heard made her feel as if she had been hit by five thunderbolts, and she fell to the ground in an instant.
I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I've found the true love of my life, let's get a divorce.
Huang Qiuyan's heart was stung even deeper by the sentence "I finally found true love", and she realized that for so many years, this man had never loved her at all, and it was far more than just divorce.
That night, Huang Qiuyan looked at her two daughters who fell asleep peacefully: one was only 3 years old, and the other was still in infancy. Thoughts are entangled in sadness and drift in distant places.
She recalled that afternoon, when she plucked up the courage to hand the poor boy a meat bun;She recalled that her parents had repeatedly confirmed her intentions before marriageShe thought of how tired she was and could fall asleep in seconds, but she still insisted on taking care of Jet Li and his mother.
Eventually, she sighed and tugged at the corners of her mouth helplessly. Rewritten as: In the end, she pulled the corners of her mouth helplessly and sighed.
Jet Li once again expressed his admiration for her to Li Zhi, and Li Zhi did not refuse directly, but said that if Jet Li still loves her ten years later, and she happens to be not married, they can be together.
This sentence made Jet Li very encouraged, as if "hugging the beauty" was close at hand, and he did not hesitate to say in the interview: For the sake of wisdom, I am willing to give up fame and fortune.
His greatness is felt by many people, but the thought of the abandoned mother and daughter trio makes it a little funny.
During the 10-year covenant with Lizhi, many incredible events took place.
Li Zhi first decided to get involved in overseas business, and as a result, he owed a debt of 60 million;Immediately afterwards, Jet Li and Xiang Tai signed an agreement, promising to work together on 6 movies within two years to help Lizhi repay his debts.
They came together after something surprising happened to the two. In short, they ended up together.
Jet Li treated this marriage very carefully, and he held a grand wedding for Li Zhi in Los Angeles. Subsequently, they welcomed their two daughters and lived happily ever after.
After Huang Qiuyan's divorce, Jet Li left her a U.S. property that had not yet paid off her loan. Eventually, however, she was unable to repay her loan and was forced to leave the property and live a street life, eventually settling in the basement of a friend's house.
Raising two children is obviously not suitable in such a living environment. She had no choice but to ask Jet Li's help. So, Jet Li sent the child to his mother, and he himself wholeheartedly pursued Li Zhi.
When Li Si learns that her father is going to marry another woman and plans to let her and her sister attend the wedding, she exclaims uncontrollably and exclaims, "I hate you!".”
Perhaps at that moment, Jet Li's heart was also slightly moved, but this emotion was fleeting, and then he was quickly filled with the sweetness of the newlywed and washed away all the guilt.
Because he started a new family and welcomed a new daughter, he had little time to focus on his two eldest daughters.
It is reported that although Jet Li is not very generous in terms of material, he still ensures the education of his two children. However, compared to his sisters, Li Si and Li Taimi's lives seem more lonely.
Jet Li and Li Zhi take their daughters to travel around the world every year, while Li Si and Li Taomi can only stay at their grandmother's house and play mud games at the door.
Thankfully, Grandma cared for them, but unfortunately, she was not able to take care of them for a long time when she passed away. The sisters went through another lot of hardships and were finally sent to Jet Li's sister's house.
According to rumors, Jet Li wanted to bring the sisters to him at that time, but as soon as he made this suggestion, Li Si immediately rejected it.
Perhaps for the two Li Si sisters, even living in a relative's house is better than watching their father fall in love with other women and be intimate with other girls.
The two sisters' childhoods were based on the theme of being displaced and sending people under the fence.
When Li Sichang was 18 years old, he took his sister to the United States to join his mother. The mother has restarted the family, but the Li Si sisters do not blame her, because they know that the mother has suffered too much over the years.
When Li Si grew up, the only request he made to his father was to be able to enter the entertainment industry, but Jet Li refused without saying a word.
Some people may think that the reason why he didn't let his daughter get involved in the entertainment industry is because he understands the hardships of this industry. But is that really the case?
They have carefully nurtured their eldest daughter, Jane, since she was a child. She won the dance competition at the age of 6 and appeared on the stage of Andy Lau's concert at the age of 7. In addition, Jet Li often takes his two young daughters to attend many large-scale events in the entertainment industry.
Needless to say, this difference in treatment will be felt by everyone.
Li Siru currently works for a film and television company in Los Angeles, relying on her own labor to support herself and her sister Li Taimi. And the two half-sisters who have lived in a privileged environment since they were children each have independent villas given by their fathers and live a life like celebrities.
Li Si was subjected to various changes in attitude, and it was untrue to say that it did not cause her harm. Therefore, although she claims to have entered the "year of no confusion", she has never planned to find a suitable partner.
I hope I can become the daughter of an ordinary family, even if my life is not so rich, but I can live a solid life. This is a passage that Li Si wrote in her diary.
Li Si has been skeptical about feelings since he was a child because of his parents' marital problems. Although her beautiful appearance attracted many suitors, she was never impressed.
She was often advised by her mother to find someone to take care of her, but she replied firmly: "I don't believe in love, I am happier alone." ”
Jet Li's daughter" is the envy of many people, however, after seeing his attitude towards Li Si and Li Taomi, who else wants to have such a father?
Affection is certainly a precious thing in this world, but love is an instinct, and responsibility is a manifestation of human reason.
For the sake of love, he betrayed the woman who had saved him, and in the process, he also hurt two innocent children who longed to be loved by their father.
A highly sought-after father, but with a very different life experience, this may be the absurdity of life!