When students are in college, meals in the cafeteria become the most important part of their daily life. Although there are many options for school cafeterias, students usually choose several regular cafeterias due to their proximity to dormitories or because they are used to it. The frequency of dealing with the cafeteria staff also increased, and some aunts and uncles were able to remember the faces and tastes of the students, giving it a sense of intimacy. However, there will always be some people with ulterior motives in the midst of this.
A female classmate added the WeChat of a fried rice uncle, which was just to facilitate the ordering of food. However, she found some uncomfortable content in the chat history with the uncle. The uncle praised the female classmate for adding him to WeChat for the first time, which moved him to tears, and sent messages many times to care about her warmth. This makes the female classmates feel confused and uneasy, and feel that the other party may have bad intentions. She chose not to respond to these messages, but her experience was not unique, and many students have been in similar situations.
To protect themselves, students learn to keep their distance and be wary of those around them. Even those around you need to be vigilant. As someone once admonished the students, "When you are outside, you should be suspicious and malicious towards others, so that you can better protect yourself." This is not an exaggeration, in fact, it is necessary. Some students once met an uncle who gave her xiaolongbao to eat for free, but the other party asked her to keep it secret and not to tell anyone, including her parents. Later, when she went to buy xiaolongbao again, she found that the uncle's eyes were full of malice, and she was so frightened that she didn't dare to go anymore.
Students are often kind-hearted, and this trait is seen by criminals as a reason to do so. Because of this, many college students will be deceived and hurt because they trust others too much. Students should recognize the importance of self-protection and take immediate action. First of all, protect your personal information, don't talk deeply with strangers, and don't build trust easily. Personal mobile phone number, ** code, home address, and family situation should not be easily disclosed to others. There are a lot of people in the world with ulterior motives, and they may use this information to make some dangerous moves. When talking to strangers in public, also avoid talking about personal issues and try to avoid exchanging *** Only in this way can you protect yourself from harm to the maximum.
Protecting themselves is especially important, and students must act now to be vigilant. In fact, in terms of safety education, students have been receiving it since they were young, and elementary school students know that they can't just walk with strangers and can't eat what strangers give them. However, college students often lose their attention to these safety issues. However, for college students who have the ability to think and act independently, the ways in which they can be scammed are varied. Some ** will pretend to be an old man to ask for help, or pretend to be a fellow villager to get closer to each other, and some will pretend to be pitiful to win sympathy. These methods can easily lead students into falling into traps.
Therefore, students need to have some doubts and vigilance about the world. If you encounter an outrageous request, don't easily agree and don't be led by the nose. Sometimes, showing some deranged behavior appropriately is also a way to protect yourself. Kindness is a beautiful quality in students, but it is not permissible for others to take advantage of this and make themselves a tool for harm. Schools should also strengthen students' safety awareness and hold more lectures and simulations to increase students' vigilance.
In my university life, I have also experienced some incidents about self-preservation. I once met a person who claimed to be a club and seemed friendly on the surface, but at first he only asked questions about my personal situation and interests. However, as the exchange deepened, he began to make some unreasonable demands on me, such as wanting me to join their club and do some unpaid work for them. I began to doubt their true intentions and turned down their invitation. Later, when I heard that other students had suffered some losses for believing in the rhetoric of these people, I was glad that I had stayed vigilant and not allowed myself to be harmed.
This experience taught me the importance of self-preservation. Whether it's at school or in society, it's everyone's responsibility to keep yourself safe. In college life, we face more risks than ever before. Since you are in an unfamiliar environment, you must always be vigilant and do not trust others easily. I think the following points are the self-protection awareness that our college students should raise.
First of all, protect personal information. The disclosure of personal information is a major means of fraud. Therefore, we should be cautious about our personal information and not disclose it to strangers. In particular, you should be especially careful with information related to privacy protection such as mobile phones and **.
Second, keep your distance and be wary of those around you. While we all want to be in harmony with others, that doesn't mean we can trust everyone. In our dealings with strangers, we should be vigilant and raise our malicious speculation at the right time to prevent people with ulterior motives from taking advantage of our kindness.
Again, avoid greedy for small profits. In life, some people will trick us in various ways, such as giving away items for free, offering us special treatment, etc. Although these small profits seem tempting, we must learn to be vigilant and not be deceived by these **. Those who genuinely help us generally don't ask us to reciprocate or keep it a secret.
Finally, learn to say "no". When faced with some unreasonable demands or rude behavior, we must learn to refuse, and do not easily let others infringe on our rights and interests. As much as we want to maintain harmonious relationships with others, it is more important to maintain our own dignity and safety. We need to have the courage to say no to our rights and interests, and not to compromise in order to please others.
All in all, university life is an important stage in our pursuit of knowledge and dreams, and we need to know how to keep ourselves safe. By protecting personal information, staying vigilant, avoiding petty profiteering, and learning to say no, we are better able to protect ourselves from harm. At the same time, schools should also strengthen safety education and improve students' awareness of self-protection. Only by focusing on personal safety can we better enjoy university life and achieve our ideals and goals.