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Should a woman get married at 20?I don't want to get married, so I want to wait another two years. So, should women get married at the age of 30?If you don't want to get married, wait another two years. Whether a woman is married or not, the most important thing is that she has no regrets in life.
If a woman chooses to "get married", marrying the right person is a problem she must face directly.
There is no need to worry about how you know the opposite sex or what external conditions the other person has. The most important thing is that the person is the right person.
In other words, whether you meet someone on a blind date, someone who is in a relationship online, or someone of the opposite sex you meet in life or work, as long as you like them and are willing to be with them. You don't have to worry about how the other person met, what they look like, or whether the other person matches you in terms of conditions. The most important thing for a woman to consider is whether the man is suitable for marriage, and at this time, the woman should try to overcome the emotional factor and remain rational. Do you know all the three factors that determine whether a man can get married?
1.Investigate the person's background and social circle.
In life, men are selfish and have a very bad attitude towards their families. He was an unfilial son. He often scolded his parents, complaining that they didn't buy him a car, a house, and a meal. He complained that his parents were not the richest people in the world and often exploited their parents.
Men also have a bad attitude towards their friends. They often use their friends as "tools" to do things that are selfish. Sometimes they betray their friends for personal gain. At the same time, most people who associate with men are just as flawed and just as bad as he is. Women should be careful when dealing with such men and do not marry such men without permission.
When a woman is in a relationship with a man, she has to look at the man's background, understand his social circle, what his relatives and friends say about him, how he moves around his social circle, and you have to understand what you are running. If a man only knows this, a woman who only asks and does not know how to give, a woman who only knows deception and does not know mutual benefit, then she should leave him.
2.Look at the person's attitude towards themselves and those around them.
What is love?In the abstract, love is concretely "cherished".
When a man is in a relationship with a woman, he doesn't pay attention to the woman, he doesn't pay attention to the surrounding environment, and he keeps saying "I love you", but he lies, cheats, and does unscrupulous things to hurt the woman. I would do the woman behind the parents did something unnatural.
Such a man cannot get married. Just like Qin Xianglian met a ruthless person like Chen Shimei, just like Song Yinzhang met a villain like Zhou Sha, that was the shadow left in his life.
When choosing a spouse, a woman should look at the attitude of the man towards her now and not be confused by the pie that the man gets. There is a man who is not considerate enough and is not good for your family and friends, but I want him to work hard to eliminate his weaknesses as a person, become better, and give you a better life, can I expect it?Sometimes, the most practical thing to do is to give up illusions and have no expectations.
3. Look at men's attitudes and life plans.
For a woman, marriage and love are wonderful.
But marriage is based on reality as the main criterion, and marriage must be rooted in reality. No matter how perfect love is, as long as it is rooted in the soil of reality, it can bloom beautiful flowers and bear fruit without regrets.
When a woman is considering whether to get married, she has to see if she can live with this man.
If a woman's desires are simple, she does not seek wealth and wealth, but only wants a man who can spoil her, love her, and give her security, then there is no need to have too many material requirements for men. Choose. No. If a woman is thrill-seeking, adventurous, and wants a different life experience, then when choosing a spouse, the man should take into account the man's tolerance and attitude towards life. It is better to choose the type of harmony and harmony. She has a like-minded, tolerant man.
In other words, what kind of man is "fit for marriage" is determined, first of all, by "common characteristics". Men with this common trait can never get married. Secondly, it depends on your "character" and what kind of married life you want. And when you are looking for a man to live with, think about what kind of life you want, and look at his attitude and life plan. If two people get along well in chat, respect and support each other in life, then you have definitely met the right person.