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At the graduate level, getting along with your supervisor is seen as a delicate technical task. Mentors have served as mentors and supporters throughout our graduate careers, providing us with a lot of academic and life support. However, despite the fact that the tutor is our academic partner,Private interactions also need to be handled with caution to ensure that professional relationships are maintained with the right sense of proportion and distance.
The mentors are also our elders and teachers. When chatting, don't overstep the boundaries between teachers and students. Words and actions that are too casual or intimate can be embarrassing for the mentor and even affect the normal relationship between us.
Recently, a large number of graduate students said that their relationship with their supervisors may be a little ambiguous, because it can be seen from some words sent by their supervisors. But when the graduate students posted these originally unimaginable explicit chat records,Netizens found out that this was just a false alarm, and at the same time laughed a little broken, wondering what is the mental state of the current graduate students?
Because the graduate student said that the tutor sent four words,I've been there. If you don't look at it in context, this sentence seems to be what the Mary Sue male protagonist in ** wants to say to the female protagonist.
It's a pity to wake up from your daydream, this is your teacher. Originally, the teacher meant that if the first draft of the student was finished at the end of the week and he wanted to ask for advice and guidance, the teacher would be in the office all the time. Good guys, just four words almost ruined the innocent tutor, and the graduate students really couldn't resist when they went crazy.
Of course, this can also be understood that graduate students have a lot of Xi and work pressure, and this kind of behavior is called over-understanding.
For example,A teacher in the comment area just explained his requirements to the graduate student, and in just three words, the graduate student's brain made up that this is the tutor apologizing to himself,Even the original author couldn't stand it and said, "How can there be a graduate student who can go more crazy than me?".
Some graduate supervisors focus on a puzzle, the last sentence seems to care about you, I heard that you have a cold, are you okay?The graduate students who can not participate in the painting have just been moved to tears, and I want to say thank you for the teacher's concern, but the teacher's next sentence The style of painting has taken a turn for the worse, I'm afraid that you will infect everyone, so you don't need it.
The smile on the student's face stopped abruptly and froze as soon as it appeared. There are also people who also exposed their relationship with the teacher in a particularly explicit way, saying that the teacher patted his own kind of thing and said can I eat it?
In fact, it is obviously some very everyday words, but when it is screenshotted out separately by the graduate student, you will feel that this atmosphere is indeed a little wrong. A graduate supervisor worriedly said, what should you do if you go to the mice?It always sounds like a feeling of weakness, helplessness and pity.
There is also a teacher who is criticizing the studentstyped out the word stupid.,The result is also weird when it is displayed on the phone screen.It seems that it is really not easy to be a tutor, not only to have academic hard power, but also to pay attention to everyday words.
Otherwise, if you really have to be misunderstood, you can't tell. Fortunately, these graduate students are reasonable, just joking, if you really encounter that kind of real thing, it will be a bit troublesome.
Comfort is reflected in the proportion we speakOn the premise of respecting the teacher, use respectful addresses such as "teacher" and "you", and use polite words in communication, such as "okay" and "what do you think?".And so on. Ask your mentor for advice, respect your advisor's opinions, don't blindly assert yourself, and show a sincere and gentle attitude.
In terms of tone and attitude, we should avoid low voices or arrogant expressions, but maintain a sincere and generous, humble and soft image. Ask questions to your instructor with sincerity, showing a thirst for academic knowledge and an attitude towards Xi.
For example,Don't use expressions with low emotional intelligence, but show your pursuit of knowledge by asking your mentor questions:"Teacher, I don't know much about this, how do I start?Can you give me some advice?”
In addition, the way to stay safe is to be responsive to everything. Whether it's when completing a task or encountering a problem, report it to the mentor in a timely manner and demonstrate a proactive effort to solve the problem. By responding to the assignments of our mentors in a timely manner, we demonstrate our honesty and responsibility.
For example,You can take a photo and send it to the tutor when you complete the task, with the message "Delivered Completed". When you encounter a problem that cannot be solved, you should ask the tutor for advice and report the progress in time: "Teacher, I have trouble in xxx with the task you assigned to me, and I have made xxx efforts, but I still can't solve it by myself. Can you give me some advice?”
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