Time flies so fast, 2023 is about to end in a blink of an eye, and the beautiful 2024 is coming, but some old people say that 2024 is a widow's yearDoes that make sense?
With this question, I specifically asked the well-informed old man, and now we will listen to what the old man said, and let's have a long insight.
First, why is the Year of the Dragon next year considered to be the Year of the Widow?
The old man explainedIt is said that the year is the year of the widow because there is no beginning of the spring solar term next year, because according to the lunar calendar, the Spring Festival is the beginning of the Year of the Dragon, and the beginning of spring will be on the 25th day of the lunar month of the previous year, and the beginning of spring in 2025 will be on the sixth day of the first month of the 25th year, so there is no beginning of the Spring Festival in the entire Year of the Dragon.
Traditional culture believes that the beginning of spring represents the rise of yang, on behalf of the arrival of spring, if there is no beginning of spring throughout the year, it means less yang, superstitious people think that less yang is a woman without a man, that is to say, a married woman will lose her husband or no heirs, is it not a widow!Therefore, the year without the beginning of spring is called the year of the widow.
Therefore, the year that has been handed down to the year of widowhood is not suitable for marriage, and if it is forced to marry, it means that the woman is unlucky, or there is a possibility of widowhood.
Second, does this statement make sense?
To be honest, in the folk, there are more widow years, such as the Year of the Pig in 2019 and the Year of the Ox in 2021, and there are more people who have married in recent years, and after marriage, there are more couples and Meimei, and there are not many children who have no heirs, and I have not seen which woman has really become a widow, nor have I seen how unfortunate it is to marry in the year of the widow, so this statement is naturally unreasonable, it is just a superstitious view and a folk custom。
True marital happiness lies in one's own management, of course, in one's own virtue, "the family of goodness, there must be afterglow", being kind to others, happiness and joy are expected. If you have evil thoughts and can't treat your lover well, even if you get married in the spring, it will be difficult to be happy, do you say so?
Third, how to run agriculture this year?
Next year, the Year of the Dragon, it is not reasonable to say that the Year of the Dragon and the Year of the Widow are not good to marry, this is a misunderstanding, the real meaning of the Year of the Dragon is not so, according to the old man, the Year of the Dragon has no spring, it means that the Yang of the year is insufficient, that is to say, it is not warm enough, the agricultural proverb says "Jiachen has no spring year, and the dog days do not see the sky", just look at the literal meaning, in the summer of next year, there will be more rain, and there will be many days in the dog days and even many days will not see the sun.
Speaking of which, you can also think that next year is the year of "one dragon to control the water", that is to say, the first day of the next year is on the first day of the new year. For example, in two or three years, it was a dragon to control the water, and many places were constantly rainy, and even Hebei, which was perennially drought, suffered from waterlogging that had not been encountered in a century.
So, in the Year of the Dragon, what we should do is not not to get married, but to do a good job of waterlogging prevention crops and try to prepare for waterlogging prevention.
Fourth, summary
Our traditional culture is generally excellent, but there will inevitably be some dross, our correct approach is to go to its bad, carry forward the excellent tradition, this is the right way, do you say so?
The above is my personal opinion and opinion, the level limit may be inappropriate, please criticize and correct friends, thank you!