With the opening of the two-child policy, more and more parents are now adding a second-child baby to their families, hoping that the two children can love each other and take care of each other. I believe that the original intentions of the parents are good, but in some families, the two children do not get along as the parents imagined, and even some ridiculous things will happen.
Some time ago, a mother shared the "good deeds" done by her bear child on the Internet, which became popular on the Internet and attracted widespread attention and discussion among netizens. It turned out that there was a bear child who took advantage of the fact that his parents were not at home and did something dumbfounded in a short time after going out. On this day, the little couple wanted to go out to buy some food and come back, thinking that it was inconvenient to take the child, so it was better to tell the child to stay at home obediently for a while, waiting for the parents to come back and make food for them. As a result, when the two returned home in a hurry, the scene in front of them instantly stunned the two of them.
I saw the two children taking advantage of the fact that their parents were not at home, so they played the game of "cooking", and the elder brother put the second brother directly into the ingredients in a big pot at home, and then learned from his mother's usual "stew" to add water to the pot, the younger brother sitting in the pot not only felt scared, but also seemed to be very happy, and played with the water in the pot very well, and did not seem to know that he was treated as an ingredient by his brother. The point is that the elder brother saw that "this pot of soup" seemed to be missing something, so he directly poured a can of milk powder into his younger brother, and stirred it fully with a spoon, and instantly turned his brother's pot of clear soup into a pot of soup that looked very nutritious. Mom and Dad understood what was going on as soon as they saw the masterpiece in front of them.
Mom thought to herself, "My brother was stewed by my brother and had so much fun", since it has happened, Bao Ma and Bao Dad can only accept this fact, who let it be their own birth. After seeing this paragraph, netizens said that there are such bear children at home, and they began to "be demons" while adults were not paying attention, and some netizens joked that their brother's condiments were misplaced, and they should release soy sauce, peppercorns, star anise, etc. to add more flavor.
The parent in the article can endure slapping ** after the child makes a mistake, but in life, some parents will beat and scold the child as soon as they see their child being naughty, which has caused physical and mental harm to the child. So what should parents do in the face of their children's misdeeds?1.Stay calm firstMany parents after seeing their children make trouble, their first reaction is to blame and scold their children, but in fact, they must keep a cool head first and don't do things impulsively, because children are most afraid that their parents will get angry and scold themselves, especially some children who are not very mature in their minds, which will make them feel very insecure. 2.Find out what happenedThere is always a reason why children do wrong things, so parents should calm down to understand what happened, analyze the reasons why children make mistakes, sometimes children do not know that they are wrong, as parents to point out to their children, and correct them. 3.Punish and educate accordinglyFor this kind of child, parents can give some small punishments, such as punishment and eating food that they don't like to eat, etc., if the child does not know that he has made a mistake, then the parent only needs to educate the child to avoid the child from making a mistake next time.
As parents, we sometimes have to understand what our children do, after all, we all come from early childhood, so that we can educate our children better.