This year, the number of graduate students has dropped by 360,000, the first time in the past decade that there has been a decline. At the same time, the number of applicants for the national public government increased by 500,000. This phenomenon has attracted people's attention and discussion, and everyone has begun to realize that life is not just about the two paths of graduate school entrance examination and public entrance examination. Young people are beginning to become wiser and more rational, and they are no longer just pursuing the path of graduate school, but are actively looking for a way out of their lives. Life is not a fixed track, but a vast wilderness, where everyone has their own choices and ways out.
Let's think about whether when we look back on our lives, do we often think of those "what ifs...... in the first place?It's just a matter of regret?Perhaps, the path we once thought had no choice always seemed better. Taking the postgraduate and public entrance examinations as an example, many people do not hesitate to give up their work and social interaction in order to go ashore, and they are constantly fighting. However, what exactly does this so-called disembarkation mean?Is it to be admitted to graduate school?Or become a civil servant?However, once this goal is reached, there will be new expectations and pursuits, such as waiting until you get married, your children grow up, and so on. We are always jumping from puddle to puddle, pursuing a so-called ashore, but not necessarily actually reaching that so-called shore.
In the journey of life, in fact, nothing is smooth sailing, and no matter which path you choose, you will have regrets. Just like Ivan in the movie "The Butterfly Effect", no matter how hard he tries to change the past, life is always unsatisfactory. There is no such thing as the right choice in life, we can only work hard to make the right choice in the first place.
It doesn't matter what lifestyle you choose, it's important to be really honest with yourself, follow your heart's choices, and don't blindly follow or fool yourself. We always yearn for and identify with other people's lifestyles, but in the end we regret getting a life that does not belong to us.
Everyone's life trajectory can be exciting, and success is not just a way to spend a lifetime. Some seek wealth, some seek freedom and travel, and some seek worldly achievement. Success isn't about living your life the way you like most people, it's about living your life the way you like. The world is noisy, and we need to actively block out the sounds that disturb our mood.
After a person finally leaves this world, he takes with him only his own experiences and perceptions. Nothing in life is truly ours, we come into this world with nothing, and we leave with nothing. Therefore, in the limited time, we should cherish every moment, live our lives well, not be bound by utilitarian and fixed social concepts, and find our inner truth.
Whether you choose to go to graduate school, take the public entrance examination, or other paths, the most important thing in life is to be able to be your true self and live a happy and meaningful life. We must stick to our principles and beliefs, not be swayed by others, and not blindly pursue so-called success.
The choices we make in life are an eternal challenge, but we need to understand that even if we choose a difficult path, it will not be absolutely right and will not save us from regrets. The true meaning of life lies in the fact that we find our presence and value in constant choice. Whether we choose to go to graduate school or take the public entrance examination, the most important thing is that we can be authentic to ourselves, stick to our principles, and live a life that we think is meaningful. We should believe in ourselves, in our choices, in our abilities, and in our own strength. No matter which path you take, you must face it with a true attitude, stick to your beliefs, and be brave enough to chase your dreams.