"One Hundred Years of Solitude" wrote: "All the splendor that has ever been in life, after all, needs to be repaid with loneliness." ”
Looking back on the past, I found that those people and things I had experienced have been deeply engraved in my memory and cannot be erased.
This world is a world of gathering and dispersing, and when you get together, you are too happy, and when you are scattered, you will not be too sad.
In this life, people have experienced too many things and met too many people.
Some things are destined to only be a stepping stone on your way to growth.
For feelings, we always believe in the existence of fate, thinking that when two people meet, there will be a beautiful love.
In fact, love never happens by meeting.
As the saying goes: "True love is the most precious thing in the world, I don't want you, and you don't want me." ”
Indeed, it is very painful to meet the right person at the wrong time. Meeting the wrong person at the right time will only make both people miserable.
Therefore, some people are destined to only accompany you for a journey, not for a lifetime.
I once read such a sentence: "Love is a big gamble, and if you lose, you have nothing." ”
Loving but not being able to do so is the most regrettable thing in life, and how many people can let go of those who can't love.
Some people are destined to be only passers-by in your life, but some people can be the most memorable presence in your life.
In love, what you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have nothing to fear.
When you miss someone you can't love, you don't have to be sad or dwelling.
Love is a person's chaos, but one day you will meet the person who is worthy of your love for a lifetime.
How many people have entered the palace of marriage because of love, and have chosen to divorce because of the triviality of life and the pressure of reality in marriage.
We often say that if you don't experience a relationship, you don't know how to love.
Whether you are single or married, whether you have a significant other or not, don't forget the people and things you once loved.
When you lose these things, you will know how to cherish the people in front of you and cherish the present.
Those people and things that you once loved deeply only understood their importance and significance after you lost them.
And the people and things that you know to cherish after you lose them must be worthy of your nostalgia and gratitude.
The writer Mr. Qian Zhongshu said in "The Siege of the City": "Some people are destined to be passers-by in life;Some things are also destined to become stories. ”
Everyone experiences these four things in life, but very few can remember them and think about them from time to time.
Because, with the passage of time, some things and people seem to have been stranded by time and can no longer be remembered.
The New Tang Dynasty Book Wei Zheng Biography wrote: "The husband uses copper as a mirror, and he can be dressed properly;."With history as a mirror, we can know the rise and fall;With people as a mirror, you can see the gains and losses. ”
Many times, what we see in others is ourselves.
Those who once thought that they would be unforgettable may not be truly unforgettable, nor can they really be forgotten.
As you grow up and understand that there are many things in the world that you can't force, you will understand that some things and people are destined to be missed.
As the saying goes, "Don't be nostalgic for the scenery you miss, and don't have to keep the passers-by who leave." ”