Liu Shaoqi criticized Peng Dehuai in public, but the bad tempered Peng smiled and poured tea for L

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-29

As we all knowPeng Lao is always known for his uprightness and full temperamentIf his fiery temper comes up, no matter who is on the other side, he will be punished twice.

However, when *** criticized *** in public at a meeting, Mr. Peng was not angry, but returnedSmiled and poured a cup of hot tea for ***So why is that?And why criticize him?

** and *** were both born in 1898, and even the month is only one month apart, the year Mr. Peng joined the Hunan Armyalso entered the martial arts hall in Hunan, so the two of them are considered to have the same military age.

They are also Hunan villagers, they help each other like brothers on weekdays, treat each other with all sincerity, the two of them have dared to think and dare to do since they were young, and they have never rubbed a little sand in their eyes, seeking truth from facts, telling the truthBehind the seemingly unrelenting affection is a sincere heart to eliminate violence, help the weak, and serve the country and the people.

The two of them have nothing to talk about, and they get along with each other very frankly and casually, but the two straight people often have disagreements at workHowever, Mr. Peng's temper was cleverly pinched by ***.

It turns out that whenever Mr. Peng loses his temper with him, he can always maintain his rational emotions, persuade him seriously, or directly reason with facts to prove that Mr. Peng's point of view is wrongMr. Peng couldn't reply a few words before he "lost the battle".was choked and lost his words, so the argument between the two often turned into unilateral criticism in the end, and Mr. Peng was forced to become a "good temper".

But the more this is the case, the closer the relationship between the two becomes, and the leaders on the ** are not used to seeing themThe two people who "don't have the right temper" and quarrel when they meet are very good friends, and it is also a joke in the party.

And *** and *** can do this,It is precisely because the quarrel between the two is never for their own selfishness, but for the sake of the country and the general good, although the two parties have different opinions, but the goal is the same.

During the Long March, the two men worked together for several months, and since then they have been at odds over the transfer of troops in guerrilla warfare. However, since the Northern Bureau was stationed in the same area as the headquarters of the Eighth Route Army,They have an extraordinarily close relationship with each other, so they work closely together and there are no gaps.

once criticized Mr. Peng for being a little too strict and unfair, and the two even slapped the table excitedly for this matter, but after the quarrel, Mr. Peng's stubborn temper also came up, but this temper was not for *** but for work.

After that, Mr. Peng behaved as if he was in progress in the local party and government workAn uphill battle, vigorously rush. He conducted in-depth research, listened carefully to public opinion, and brainstormed through democratic discussions.

Although Mr. Peng's fiery temper has not changed, his work intensity and methods have changed dramatically. The officers and soldiers he trained under his command were already strongAnd he himself has a tenacity, really pushing himself and others, and working together with them to promote the success of all work!

This is as Confucius said: ". .If there is a change, people will look up to him!”

And when the party talked about this matter, they also jokingly said that *** This is using the "radical method"!But this is really a joke, because *** has emphasized it many timesEveryone criticizes each other, that is, the party's self-criticism, and the courage to self-correct is the obvious difference between our party and other political parties.

When you hear criticism, you can correct your mistakes in a timely manner, which is a very gratifying thing. Because it's so important to be able to learn from your mistakes and make changes!

Mr. Peng is very serious in his daily life and even has reached a strict level of work, but they are all dedicated to the public, and because of this, they have completed the task many times.

In fact, judging from the above, it is not difficult to understand that ** has some "strange" ways of getting along with Mr. Peng, Mr. Peng is also quick to come and go quickly, and in the face of justified criticism, he will definitely accept it with an open mind.

For example, in September 1942, ** was ordered to come to North China for a work investigation, and at this time, the person in charge of the north was two old friendsSince Yan'an said goodbye, it has been several years.

**also specially arranged a quiet and clean accommodation for ***, when the national conditions were difficult,Even if he is a leader, his food, clothing, housing and transportation are not much different from ordinary people.

After settling in, ** immediately started working and visited in personNorthern Bureau, Eighth Route Army Headquarters, Taiyueand other areas, listen to local work reports.

** He also has a deep affection for North China, he has worked and lived here for a long time, and he also knows the local area very well, and has made a lot of contributions and provided a lot of new ideas for local development and construction.

Therefore, he has his own set of opinions on the work in North China, but Mr. Peng also has his own management philosophy, so the two inevitably have disagreements.

**After a few days of in-depth investigation, a work evaluation meeting was organized, and he first affirmed and encouraged Mr. Peng's work, but then solemnly pointed out that North China is inNumbers, military strength, military-local conditions, and mass baseand so on are far beyond other regionsHowever, in such an advantageous situation, the overall development is somewhat unsatisfactory compared with other regions, and he believes that this is because Mr. Peng pays too much attention to the army and ignores other fields, and there are some subjective conceits.

Such sharp words made the participants sweat, everyone knew Mr. Peng's temper, for fear of setting off another "bloody storm", but to everyone's surpriseIn the process of criticism, Mr. Peng not only did not get angry, but smiled and poured hot tea into the teacup, and continued to listen to the criticism with an open mind.

In fact, it is not difficult to understand the deep friendship between the two, what they show is the frankness and straightforward expression of their opinions between the revolutionary comrades, who seem to have different opinions, but the core is the same, as it is said in the Analects:"The gentleman is harmonious but different, and the villain is the same but not harmonious. ”

Mr. Peng and *** respect each other, Peng respects Liu's cultivation and talent, and Liu respects Peng's loyalty and bravery, both of whom occupy an important position in each other's hearts.

Before and after the Korean War, the two often found time to meet in their busy schedules and talked about everything.

We have seen the deep friendship between *** and *** from these revolutionary stories, and also seen the other side of Mr. Peng's "bad temper", in the impression of many people, ** bad temper, as if he is always fierce to others,However, Mr. Peng was still working during the war on the battlefield, and he took great care of his comrades-in-arms and subordinates.

Many soldiers who have worked with this old chief, when recalling their experience of working together, all invariably said:It is an honor in their lives to be Mr. Peng's subordinates.

History has created that generation, revolutionary comrades, who are stronger than gold.

They overcame all obstacles, shared weal and woe, and fought together for the revolutionary cause. This kind of comradeship is not just a simple friendship, but a deep tacit understanding and concern.

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