When the name He Qingkui is mentioned, many people may not be familiar with him and have no impression at all.
He actually has a considerable background and is the "behind-the-scenes supporter" of Gao Xiumin and Zhao Benshan.
Gao Xiumin and Zhao Benshan performed well on stage, while He Qingkui created a wonderful script for them behind the scenes.
Everyone calls He Qingkui a "ghost screenwriter" at work, but in his love life, he is evaluated by two completely different kinds.
Some people call him a "scumbag", and some people praise him as a "peerless lover".
People evaluate the relationship between him and his wife Zhang Yanru as a "scumbag", but the relationship between him and his lover Gao Xiumin is called "peerless love".
What did He Qingkui do to his wife Zhang Yanru that caused him to be called a "scumbag" by others?
What kind of behavior did he show to Gao Xiumin, so that people can't help but sigh that he is a "lover"?
Today we will reveal the emotional entanglement between He Qingkui and the two women, whether he is a scumbag or a lover?
He Qingkui was born in 1948 on the banks of the Songhua River. In the first half of his life, it cannot be described as "doing nothing".
He Qingkui suffered from malnutrition for a long time, and his family was poor at that time, and his body was too thin to engage in heavy physical labor.
Seeing his pity, the production captain arranged for him to do some simple farm work and help weed. However, He Qingkui is still often cut to the chin with a sickle.
The father felt sorry for his son because he was always injured in farm work. For this reason, his father begged for someone to arrange for He Qingkui to follow the head of the village troupe to participate in the performance.
When He Qingkui went to perform in the troupe, he seemed to have found his interest. In their spare time, they spend their time writing a two-person turnaround.
He Qingkui wrote the script for "Two Scorekeepers" for the first time, which was warmly received, and the script was published in newspapers and praised for it, and he received a five-yuan manuscript fee.
He Qingkui thinks that he can make money by using his pen, which is much easier than going to farm work, and even easier than singing as a duo.
From this time, He Qingkui began his two-person script writing career.
He Qingkui has reached the age of marriage, and he should consider finding a daughter-in-law. Between the stars and the stars, time waits for no one.
He Qingkui's life was polished by the "educated youth" Zhang Yanru.
Zhang Yanru originally felt depressed, but since she met the talented He Qingkui, her life in the countryside has taken on a new look.
She would rather give up the opportunity to return to the city, but also stay in the countryside with He Qingkui and start a family together.
He Qingkui initially worked in the troupe to earn an income. However, due to the poor management of the troupe, it was disbanded, and he lost his job with no background. The scripts he wrote were never recognized.
Zhang Yanru shouldered the burden of the family and farm work, while He Qingkui had to juggle the work of a fisherman and insisted on writing the script.
In the past 20 years, Zhang Yanru has never blamed her husband for not concentrating on his job.
Zhang Yanru is still as gentle and considerate as before marriage, she not only gave birth to two sons and a daughter, but also accompanied He Qingkui to fish and sell fish.
Despite the hardships of life, she never complained, and even encouraged He Qingkui with a smile when the villagers always laughed at He Qingkui behind his back.
He Qingkui was writing at the table, and after half a day of hard work, he suddenly cried in a low mood.
He felt bad in his heart, because he had been making his family live a hard life all these years.
He Qingkui's sad look made Zhang Yanru feel distressed, and she comforted him and said that she should relax and concentrate on writing, and everything would be fine with her.
With Zhang Yanru's comfort and encouragement, He Qingkui regained his confidence in writing and was determined to continue to persevere.
Zhang Yanru ushered in the second opportunity of her life to return to the city in 1986.
He Qingkui and Zhang Yanru took their children back to the city together this time.
Because of their low level of education, He Qingkui and Zhang Yanru can only rent vegetable stalls in the city to sell vegetables for a living, and sometimes sell fish to supplement their families.
He Qingkui finally ushered in a ray of light in his bleak life in 1988.
He Qingkui is standing in front of the stall in the cold winter, kicking his feet, and warmly beckoning customers to come and buy fresh vegetables and fish.
Gao Xiumin was shopping for vegetables at the market, and when she passed by a vegetable stall, she suddenly felt that the stall owner looked a little like an acquaintance she once knew.
She stepped forward enthusiastically and shouted, "Hello, Brother He!"”
Back then, Gao Xiumin used to be an actor in the troupe where He Qingkui worked.
At the age of 19, Gao Xiumin left the troupe, got married and gave birth to a daughter, and her career was thriving, and she eventually became the deputy head of the art troupe.
Gao Xiumin felt very uncomfortable, because she knew that He Qingkui was originally a talented person who was very good at writing scripts, but now he is living a living by selling vegetables.
She decided to help her former friend, and after learning about He Qingkui's experience, she said to He Qingkui: "Brother He, you have written a very good show, can you write one for our team?"”
We'll show you and pay you.
He Qingkui heard the news not only from the manuscript fee, but also from the premiere fee, which inspired him with these hundreds of yuan. As soon as he got home, he locked himself in his room and racked his brains, and finally rushed out of the script.
He Qingkui went to the folk art troupe with great expectations, but he didn't expect the leader of the art troupe to give him a heavy blow.
He Qingkui has been disappointed many times, because the leaders refused to accept the script after reading it. He walked back with the script.
When he was confused, Gao Xiumin resolutely decided to be different, assured the leaders, and expressed his willingness to plan and direct the script himself, believing that it would make the show a great success.
Under Gao Xiumin's strong recommendation, the leaders agreed. Gao Xiumin's support made the performance of "Who Marries Whom" surprisingly outstanding.
In addition to bringing He Qingkui hundreds of yuan in manuscript fees and premiere fees, this script also allowed him to quickly increase his popularity in Jilin Province.
He Qingkui did nothing in the first half of his life, but he eventually made great progress in the village.
The county cultural bureau hired him as a screenwriter, so he had a stable salary. As a cultural person, he no longer has to set up a stall to sell vegetables.
The reason why Qingkui is happy is because Zhang Yanru has worked hard in this family for more than 20 years, and now she has finally come to the end.
He Qingkui is engrossed in writing the script and is full of confidence in the future, and Gao Xiumin has also become his exclusive actress, and the two trust each other.
The two also often share ** roles, script content and lines, and gradually become the most tacit partners.
As the days passed, He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin gradually discovered that in addition to work, they were also emotionally inseparable from each other.
Gao Xiumin and her husband are often separated from each other, and the communication gradually decreases, resulting in a gradual decrease in the topic between them and a rift in their relationship.
She found that He Qingkui was more talented than her husband, and the two always couldn't finish talking about topics together.
Gao Xiumin is 11 years younger than He Qingkui, but he also continues to inspire He Qingkui. Gao Xiumin has been by his side all the time, when he is racking his brains for the script.
He Qingkui looked at the script he wrote, and saw that Gao Xiumin performed even better, and his heart felt great satisfaction. He Qingkui gradually found that his dependence on Gao Xiumin was getting deeper and deeper.
In the end, they couldn't help but decide to give up their family for love, and Gao Xiumin was anxious to decide to cut through the mess and divorce her husband.
When He Qingkui returned home, he watched his wife Zhang Yanru work hard, and although he wanted to file for divorce, he finally held back.
I finally made up my mind and said, "Yanru, let's get a divorce, I can't leave Xiumin!."Although Zhang Yanru was suffering, she did not agree to the divorce.
She said to He Qingkui with tears streaming down her face
He Qingkui, you can leave. My heart is no longer here, and I can't get it back anyway. You and Gao Xiumin are together, but I will never agree to a divorce!
He Qingkui watched his wife tearfully tell and couldn't bear to mention the divorce again.
The children don't want their parents to divorce, but He Qingkui said: "Your father has been writing for almost a lifetime, and it is not easy to see a little hope." Only Gao Xiumin can make Dad succeed. ”
He Qingkui arranged the housework, and then sorted it out and returned to Gao Xiumin.
After Gao Xiumin met He Qingkui, she no longer forced him to divorce, and the two began a fourteen-year cohabitation life.
In 1992, Gao Xiumin carried He Qingkui's "Baggage" and participated in the comedy star competition and won the first place.
Ho Ching-kui and Ko Xiumin chose to quit their jobs at the troupe after their achievements, and they became freelance actors and screenwriters, ready to move towards an even more brilliant career.
After Zhao Benshan heard about He Qingkui's reputation, he also took the initiative to come to the door, hoping to cooperate with him.
He Qingkui was grateful to Gao Xiumin for helping him in his early years, and he told Zhao Benshan that if he wanted him to write a script, it was okay, but he had to bring Gao Xiumin with him.
Zhao Benshan, Gao Xiumin and Fan Wei cooperated on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, and He Qingkui provided them with a wonderful script. After He Qingkui earned the bonus, he happily took Gao Xiumin to the gold store to choose a gold necklace.
He Qingkui finally fulfilled the promise he made when he was with Gao Xiumin when he was together, and let her enjoy the glory and wealth.
When He Qingkui was tired from shopping, he would take off his leather shoes and then help Gao Xiumin change into flat shoes. He Qingkui tasted unprecedented love in Gao Xiumin, and the two were as sweet as a couple in love.
After He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin lived together, they began to call Gao Xiumin's mother "Mom", and Gao Xiumin's mother also regarded He Qingkui as her "son-in-law".
Li Na, Gao Xiumin's daughter, also lives with them, as if they were family.
When He Qingkui got along with Gao Xiumin, he was inspired and wrote more excellent scripts.
His scripts "Selling Abduction", "Water Delivery" and "Red Sorghum Model Team" carry the youth of many people.
Because Gao Xiumin delayed the rehearsal of the Spring Festival Gala in 2004 because he went out to participate in the performance, the show was not effective.
Gao Xiumin and Zhao Benshan had quarreled before because of unfair income distribution, and the conflict escalated to a big quarrel. After that, Gao Xiumin left Zhao Benshan with He Qingkui.
Although He Qingkui followed Gao Xiumin to leave Zhao Benshan, their career is still thriving.
After He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin became famous, the money they earned from their performances would be divided according to the ratio of four or six, He Qingkui would get forty percent, and Gao Xiumin would get sixty percent.
He Qingkui used most of the money to support Zhang Yanru and her children, while Gao Xiumin used the money to support relatives in her hometown. For the sake of the child, Zhang Yanru finally chose to swallow her anger and acquiesced to the relationship between He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin.
The bleakest moment of He Qingkui's life occurred in August 2005.
He Shunchun served as He Qingkui's assistant that day and died in a car accident in Guangzhou. This tragedy occurred on the 8th.
After He Qingkui received the **, he hurried to Guangzhou to deal with his son's funeral.
He Qingkui, 57 years old, looked much older overnight after learning the bad news.
When people enter their old age, just as they enjoy the happiness of family reunion, they suddenly face the pain of the death of their relatives, which makes He Qingkui tormented.
Gao Xiumin originally intended to go to Guangzhou with He Qingkui, but in the end he failed to realize it due to his identity.
After ten days, He Qingkui rushed to the northeast physically and mentally exhausted after dealing with the aftermath. Before returning to his residence, the news came that Gao Xiumin had died of a heart attack.
For many years, Gao Xiumin has had the problem of apnea during sleep.
He Qingkui often snores and has poor breath. As long as he moved Gao Xiumin's arm slightly, Gao Xiumin could breathe smoothly, and He Qingkui would be fine.
Unexpectedly, Gao Xiumin was only 46 years old and passed away in his absence because of his old illness for many years. He Qingkui could barely endure the two blows in ten consecutive days.
At this moment, Zhang Yanru ordered her second son to rush to the funeral site to wear filial piety for Gao Xiumin.
Zhao Benshan and others also rushed to the funeral site to bid farewell to Gao Xiumin's last journey.
After He Qingkui dealt with the affairs after his death, he decided to leave all the several properties he bought with Gao Xiumin to Gao Xiumin's daughter.
When He Qingkui left the house, he didn't even take a single piece of clothing with him.
After Gao Xiumin passed away, He Qingkui personally planned and designed her cemetery and statue in order to miss her, and Gao Xiumin on the statue smiled shallowly, as if he would always be by He Qingkui's side.
He Qingkui mentioned his good memories of Gao Xiumin many times in the interview on the show, and he said that he would never do anything to be sorry for her.
He preferred not to take a penny after her death, because he felt that it would be disrespectful and hurtful to her to do so.
Li Na once said that although her mother Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui were very happy, she thought that her mother did not marry He Qingkui as the biggest regret in her life.
What Gao Xiumin wants, He Qingkui will try his best to get it, even if it is the stars in the sky, gold and silver mountains.
In He Qingkui's life, the only promise that he could not give Gao Xiumin was a marriage certificate.
When He Qingkui was sad and frustrated, Zhang Yanru chose to forgive him.
Regardless of the past, He Qingkui is still her favorite talent back then. She left the past behind and returned to his side, taking care of him and accompanying him through the most difficult moments.
Everyone praised Zhang Yanru for her broad-mindedness, she was willing to let her husband, who had cheated on her for more than ten years, go home, and allow her second son to wear filial piety for Gao Xiumin, which is really extraordinary.
Maybe she had an epiphany after a long wait, after all, people often say that why should women be embarrassed by women?
Both of them are in love with the same man, and that's the root of the problem. And when Gao Xiumin died suddenly, the resentment had long since disappeared.
After He Qingkui returned to Zhang Yanru, he began his retirement life, taking time out to spend with his children and enjoy the happiness of family reunion. In 2015, Zhang Yanru finally fell ill with heart problems, and after being taken to the hospital, doctors recommended that she undergo heart bypass surgery.
On the same day, He Qingkui was about to go out, so he said to Zhang Yanru: "You can't leave, you have to wait for me to come back." If you have to leave, you can only leave in my arms. ”
He Qingkui's words made Zhang Yanru laugh, and after a few sounds, she fell into his arms.
Since then, the intricate emotional entanglement between He Qingkui and the two women who love him deeply has finally come to an end.
He Qingkui, 73 years old, although he has stopped writing scripts for many years, he lives with his children, although the living conditions are average, but he lives happily and comfortably.
His love triangle with Zhang Yanru and Gao Xiumin finally came to an end, and the once glorious achievements have long been scattered in the wind.
This fourteen-year love of joys and sorrows is full of love entanglements, and no one is a winner in the end. He no longer cares how the outside world evaluates him as a "scumbag" or a "peerless lover".