The people you try to socialize with are not as good as your teachers. Your teachers are academic giants, they are giants, and they do better than you in their field. You didn't listen to their classes well during your college years, but now you're trying to socialize. You missed a great opportunity back then. Insights into hot spots in education
Sometimes I feel this way when I'm in front of my students. They try to socialize upwards, but I don't approve of them going to the boss's drinking party. They will say, "Teacher, I have a drinking party tonight, I must go to it, and I will have a big coffee." I said, "This big guy, in my circle of friends, this big guy called me, I'll go." You didn't go, and you have to work hard to go, right?Because I don't look down on this circle of so-called big coffees. Because the circle of big names can't enter the atmosphere of my circle, these people are just some small bosses. They will say, "The teacher can solve my employment, if you really want to solve your employment, I will give you a **." I said, "Okay, take this exam well, get this certificate, take out this result and **, and I'll give you this **."
So I think the best way to socialize is to socialize upwards. I would encourage students to work hard to learn Xi and follow the right path. Why do they go the wrong way?These people are going to exchange with you, can you bring anything to these people?I can't bring anything. Think about it, for this boss, is it that you have a stronger ability to decide when you meet him at the wine table, or is it stronger for a teacher to give him a ** recommendation to him?If I call ** to recommend the past, you are not his junior brother, but his junior brother. And you know you at the wine table, you may be his little brother's little brother. Do you think he will help his younger brother's younger brother, or will he help his junior brother?Because if he offends you, he offends the whole school. And he's going to work hard to socialize with us.
So he thinks it's a circle, and he will even get to know the resources and circles of the teachers around you through you. So the value you bring to the table will be more. Therefore, students come to learn Xi well and have good grades, and teachers must like such students. I was in touch with these so-called upward socializations, and I regretted that I didn't study hard Xi back then.