Zhao Benshan is often called "out of Shanhaiguan, there is something to find Zhao Benshan", this name is not casually said, you have to have a certain strength to dare to call yourself so
Zhao Benshan couldn't get a penny when he married his wife, but after becoming famous, he abandoned his wife Ge Shuzhen, which is really unimaginable.
Ge Shuzhen still has two children in her life, but sadly, her son died at the age of 12. In order to make up for the guilt of these three children, Zhao Benshan gave more love and care to their eldest daughter.
Years later, Zhao Benshan did not expect that his eldest daughter would choose to marry a poor young man. There is a saying that "it is better to tear down a temple than to destroy a marriage", but for the sake of his daughter's happiness, Zhao Benshan is still resolutely opposed.
Zhao Benshan took out a dowry of three million, only asking for his daughter to be happy, although Zhao Yufang said cruel words to him, "If you don't marry him". Looking at his eldest daughter who was so stubborn, he felt helpless.
Why didn't Zhao Yufen marry a poor boy, even though her father was a comedy master Zhao Benshan, and her mother was also a million-dollar rich woman?
Zhao Yufang married for three million back then, and now that many years have passed, is her life okay?
1. The marriage blessings of parents.
Zhao Benshan's sketches have become classics in everyone's hearts, because of his dedication to the interpretation of characters, and only those who have experienced it can understand the essence of it.
Zhao Benshan was not born wealthy, and his parents were farmers. The family was poor, illness often plagued them, and unfortunately, he lost his mother at the age of six.
Soon after, his father also left home, leaving him alone, relying on his neighbors to make ends meet.
He later followed his blind second uncle to learn skills, which made him live forever. When Zhao Benshan was young, he began to learn art, because his second uncle was a good erhu.
It wasn't until he was 17 years old that he used the skills he had learned to join the commune's propaganda team at the time, and then switched jobs to the troupe to learn two-person turns.
He studied diligently and eventually became a pillar of the stage, busy with various performances every day. Although he was old enough to start a family, no one wanted to marry him because of his poor family.
It wasn't until Ge Shuzhen was introduced to him by the matchmaker that they realized that the two had similar family backgrounds, but Ge Shuzhen didn't have any luxuries, just hoping to live a stable life.
Therefore, she did not dislike Zhao Benshan because of his family background, and the two became husband and wife. However, it is a pity that after becoming famous, Zhao Benshan abandoned this "bad wife".
Secondly, let's talk about Zhao Yufang's childhood.
Soon after Ge Shuzhen married Zhao Benshan, she gave birth to Zhao Yufang's daughter. People often say that a daughter is like a thoughtful little padded jacket, and this sentence is not bad at all.
Although Zhang Yufang is young and lacks strength, she still has to help her mother share the housework. Zhao Benshan is responsible for going out to perform to earn money, while his mother is in charge of housework at home. However, after the birth of the younger brother, the harmony of the family was disrupted.
Zhang Yufang looked at her newborn brother and felt very curious, so she kept calling her brother's name.
Zhao Yufang happily teased her brother's soft face, but she was surprised that he didn't react.
They told their mother, Ge Shuzhen, about this, and then tried to make some noise to get his attention, but nothing happened. Ge Shuzhen was very scared and hurriedly took the child to the hospital for examination.
The doctor told Ge Shuzhen that the child was born deaf and hypochondriasis, and that the disease** was almost hopeless. This news hit Ge Shuzhen hard.
The illness made it even worse for the family, who were already struggling to make ends meet, but they persevered**.
Zhao Benshan redoubled his efforts to perform for the sake of the child's condition, while Ge Shuzhen helped people with work during the day and was busy with sewing work at night.
The young Zhang Yufang can only help share the housework, and she also takes over the responsibility of taking care of her younger brother very sensibly, even if she can't hold her younger brother, she will stand by the bed and feed him medicine.
She was only four years old at the time and was in the stage of needing more love from her parents, but she didn't mind that her parents were too busy taking care of her younger brother to be there for her.
She learned to cook at such a young age, just so that Ge Shuzhen could come home and enjoy a hot dinner after a busy day.
However, she never expected that her father, who loved her so much, would one day divorce her mother, and when she came home from school, she saw her mother sobbing.
With an embarrassed expression on her father's face, Ge Shuzhen knew that no matter how sad she was, Zhao Benshan had already made up her mind. So she said to Zhao Benshan mercilessly: "Our mother and wife will not rely on you in the future." ”
Zhao Benshan married Ma Lijuan soon after the divorce, and with her, he soon forgot about Ge Shuzhen. However, during the two years of marriage, Ma Lijuan failed to have children, which made him think about his children again.
After the divorce, Ge Shuzhen realized that no matter how difficult she encountered, she would never ask Zhao Benshan for help. Later, her son's condition deteriorated and he urgently needed to be sent to the hospital, but she did not inform Zhao Benshan.
It wasn't until Ma Lijuan came to visit her relatives in the hospital that she saw Ge Shuzhen and told Zhao Benshan about it. When Zhao Benshan came to visit his son in the hospital, he didn't expect that this would be the last time their father and son would meet.
Soon after, Ge Shuzhen's 12-year-old son left this world. His death made Ge Shuzhen's heart hurt more than the cold of winter. Since then, she has only been left with her daughter.
Ge Shuzhen never imagined that her well-behaved and sensible daughter would quarrel with her over a poor boy.
Marry a poor man.
Zhao Yufang was later admitted to the Foreign Chinese College, and Ge Shuzhen decided to use her family to open a restaurant in order to give her daughter a good living environment.
With the help of his daughter, Zhao Benshan didn't expect that business would become more and more prosperous, and even opened a few branches, and life finally got better, and at this time he also became a comedy master of the Spring Festival Gala.
He even directed movies by himself, his career is thriving, and his worth is even richer.
Zhang Yufang is 27 years old and has fallen into trouble in the face of relationship problems, while her parents have achieved the pinnacle of their own lives.
As she grew older, Ms. Zhao began to worry that she was still single. Ge Shuzhen is also anxious, and Zhao Yufang also has some worries about her parents' marriage experience, worried that her love life will encounter difficulties.
Under the persuasion of her mother, she gradually began to accept the emotional facts. Ge Shuzhen introduced her to a rich second generation, although Zhang Yufang herself is not short of money, she does not like to be extravagant and wasteful, and that person spends a lot of money.
Zhao Benshan later introduced her to a boy with a good family background who worked in a bank, but she didn't like it after seeing it, so this relationship ended without a hitch.
Until a poor boy appeared in her life, Zhao Yufang chose to marry him without hesitation.
Although he did not have a house or a car, he still lived with his parents and received a meager salary in a small business, which in the eyes of his parents was the quintessential representative of the "poor boy".
Zhao Yufang insisted on taking him home to meet his parents, but Ge Shuzhen and Zhao Benshan were completely opposed. This caused Ge Shuzhen to almost cut off the mother-daughter relationship with her, because Zhao Yufang insisted on not marrying him.
Zhao Benshan was also extremely angry, but Zhao Yufang firmly supported the other party. Subsequently, he made an extreme decision and was lucky to save his life.
For the happiness of his daughter, Zhao Benshan gave three million to Zhao Yufang, and everyone understood that the two were truly in love, so they agreed to get married.
Zhang Yufang is different from Zhao Benshan's other daughters, she doesn't like publicity, but enjoys ordinary life. She has been married to her husband for 15 years, and she has been pampered for 15 years.
During this time, they also welcomed a child. In order to better take care of his wife and newborn children, as a husband, he deliberately adjusted his shifts, working hard during the day and returning home to take care of the children at night.
Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen were very relieved to see Zhao Yufang so happy after marriage. As long as you can be happy, it doesn't matter if you don't have a lot of wealth.
All in all. Zhao Benshan loves his grandson very much, and it seems that Zhao Yufang gave birth to another daughter two years later. Now she is glad that she made the choice not to marry him, and now she has all her children.
Zhao Yufang's choice was completely wise, and although her life was ordinary but full of happiness, it was in stark contrast to Zhao Benshan's other children.
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