Sometimes, a person may accept your kindness but is unwilling or unable to do so for a variety of reasons:
Different expectations and values:Sometimes, people have different expectations and values for relationships and giving. It may be that your expectation is that the give and the reward should be commensurate, but the other person may have a different opinion.
Emotional imbalance:Sometimes, a person may not be emotionally at the same level or have different needs. This can lead to an imbalance in giving and rewarding in the relationship.
Fear or insecurity:Some people may be reluctant to develop emotions or give due to fear or insecurity, and they may need more time to build trust and comfort.
Personal Questions or Challenges:Personal problems, challenges, or life stresses can also cause a person to be unwilling or unable to give. This can include issues with work, family, mental health, and more.
Lack of communication:Sometimes a lack of communication can also lead to this. It may be that the other person is not clear about your expectations and hopes for the relationship.
If you find yourself in this situation, the best way to do that is to communicate openly and honestly with the other person. Your expectations and feelings about the relationship, listen to the other person's thoughts and reasons. Sometimes, a deeper understanding and communication can resolve this imbalance, but sometimes it can also mean that the sustainability of the relationship needs to be reconsidered.