Teachers have always been the main responsible for the education of students, and it can be said that they are important mentors in the process of students' growth. However, with the development of society and the increase in parents' attention to education, the authority and influence of teachers in student education seem to be somewhat restricted. Parents' attitudes towards teachers have also gradually changed.
In the context of quality education, parents pay more attention to the all-round development and personality cultivation of students. They expect teachers to treat students in a gentle and friendly manner, listen to students' voices, and pay attention to students' emotions and needs. However, this expectation is in stark contrast to the existence of "Buddhist teachers" in reality. Many teachers focus on the lesson and lack care and guidance in other areas. This practice has caused dissatisfaction among parents, who believe that such teachers are irresponsible and lack pedagogical spirit and ethics.
When educating students, teachers sometimes have to take some punitive measures to guide students' behavior and correct their mistakes. However, there are also large differences in parents' attitudes towards specific punishments.
Recently, a female teacher in the tourism class of Bazhong Vocational High School in Sichuan Province caused controversy by hitting a student's palm with a ring ruler. A paragraph of ** shows multiple students waiting in line to receive punishment, which has caused great outrage among parents. Some parents believe that the teacher's use of a ruler to hit the student's palm is not a reasonable way to educate, but more like venting anger. They questioned the teacher's pedagogical competence and attitude.
However, some netizens disagreed. They believe that it is normal for students to make mistakes in their Xi and life, and that reasonable educational discipline is necessary. These netizens believe that the teacher's use of a ruler to hit the student's palm is a reasonable way to punish him, rather than an act of venting anger. They believe that parents are too hypocritical and should not use their own opinions to constrain teachers' education methods.
Educational discipline is an important means for teachers to educate students, and it is also the embodiment of teachers' responsibility to students. However, the methods and scales of educational discipline need to be well grasped by teachers.
Teachers have the right to take disciplinary measures such as criticism, warnings, and suspensions against students, but they must make decisions where appropriate and in light of the student's personal circumstances and personality characteristics. Educational discipline should not be turned into pure corporal punishment, let alone a way to vent emotions. Teachers should guide students to recognize and reflect on their mistakes through criticism and education, and cultivate their sense of responsibility and moral awareness.
However, in educational discipline, teachers also need to pay attention to proportions and scales. Excessive discipline can have a negative impact on students' mental and physical well-being, and even lead to resistance. Therefore, teachers should maintain warmth and focus on emotional communication during the disciplinary process, so that students can truly recognize their mistakes and correct them in a positive way.
Parents play an important role in the education of their students. They are the child's first teacher and should give the child more care and guidance on the basis of school education. Parents should lead by example and focus on cultivating their children's character and sense of responsibility, so that they can learn to deal with their mistakes and bad behaviors correctly.
Parents also need to be rational about teachers' educational and disciplinary behaviors, and not to interfere too much in teachers' decision-making and behavior. After all, teachers have a wealth of educational experience and expertise, and their approach is often well thought out. Parents should communicate with teachers to understand their attitudes and methods towards their children's education, and give appropriate support and cooperation.
Educational discipline is an important part of teachers' work in educating students, and it is also the embodiment of teachers' responsibility to students. However, when conducting educational discipline, teachers need to grasp the proportions and scales, and pay attention to emotional communication and individual differences. Parents also need to be rational about teachers' educational discipline and avoid excessive interference and criticism.
Finally, both teachers and parents should take the holistic development of students as the starting point and work together to provide them with a good learning environment and education Xi environment. Only through cooperation and understanding between teachers, parents and students can the true meaning and goals of education be achieved.