Recently, the article "Husband and wife divorced on the street" was crazy by netizens**.
More than 20 years of gambling addiction have left the man in a quagmire, and recently he has become more and more addicted, and he has not returned for several days. In a fit of rage, his wife dragged him out of the casino, but he had to face his angry declaration: "I can't change it in my life, if I can't do it, I'll get a divorce!."”
The two scuffled fiercely on the bustling street, becoming a drama in the eyes of passers-by.
The takeaway brother who passed by stopped, and in the hurried crowd, many college students watched and laughed with the mentality of watching the excitement, and even sang Liu Ruoying's "Later".
In the midst of this chaos, the wife struggled to squeeze out a smile, but her heart was filled with anger and grievances.
As the saying goes, don't base your happiness on the pain of others.
People can have nothing, but they have to have a minimum of upbringing.
In this long marriage, the woman's mood is like a picture that has been tortured and mottled.
More than 20 years ago, she entered the palace of marriage ignorantly, and her husband was a "good man" who pretended to be seamless, and everything was so beautiful, even a little too beautiful.
However, this beautiful dream was shattered again and again in disappointment.
The staggering amount of money in her bank card disappeared like a relentless storm that destroyed all her illusions of happiness. She asked her husband about **, but was shocked by his hesitant answer.
The man who had promised to spend his life together turned out to be a gambler. This sudden truth was like a bolt from the blue, destroying all her beautiful hopes for her future life. She couldn't believe it, she didn't dare to face it, but the cruel truth was in front of her.
Decades have passed, and women have paid too much for this seemingly incorrigible marriage. The husband's gambling addiction became more and more rampant, and all the property in the family was devoured by gambling, which made the woman's patience reach the limit. The thought of divorce churned in her heart like a raging tsunami.
One day, she saw her husband gambling again and did not return for several days and nights. She couldn't take it anymore and decided to get him back and face this unbearable marriage. Without hesitation, she ran to the casino and pulled her husband out of the gambling game.
However, the husband did not want to return home and insisted on continuing to indulge in the pleasures of gambling. Even threatened on the street: "I can't change it for decades", the woman felt desperate, and she started a fierce quarrel with her husband on the street. The entanglement between the two attracted many passers-by, and the street boiled into a hustle and bustle for a while.
However, in the midst of this family turmoil, a group of college students became unique "** club" performers. Seeing this dramatic family dispute, they stood aside excitedly and began to sing the song "Later" to the couple.
These college students have a playful smile on their faces, as if they are in a good movie. Their singing, accompanied by the couple's quarrels, echoed in the night. All this is like an absurd drama, and the onlookers on the street are both spectators and actors, pushing this tragicomedy to a climax.
In that hustle and bustle, the woman was deeply trapped in helplessness about marriage and anger towards her husband. And the college students played it all out so easily, as if the collapse of the marriage was just a drama for their entertainment. The "** meeting" on the street has become a satire of her bitter life, and it is also an indifferent mockery of her inner pain.
As for the uncle, he also watched the college students sing with a smile on his face, and there was no trace of shame and guilt in his expression.
And the woman at this moment was reluctant to even raise the corners of her mouth, and she couldn't laugh at all.
She didn't understand, obviously she was already on the verge of collapse, why did she sing and coax, why did she look at her like a joke?
So, is singing this song a celebration of a man's lack of appreciation and gratitude for his wife, or is it a celebration of a woman marrying the wrong person?
In this regard, many netizens ridiculed:
To be honest, when I saw this **, I was dumbfounded, what kind of college students are these!
Why did she have to have fun with her suffering when she had been struggling for more than 20 years for a family and finally had the idea of escaping this unhappy marriage?
When you think about it, it's really sad and ridiculous, what did she do wrong?
There is a saying,You can't really get to know a person until you're standing in his shoes and walking his path.
There is really no real empathy in this world, you have not walked the path that others have walked, you have not suffered from others, you never know how painful it is to stick a knife in someone else.
If you can't comfort you, holding it aside and smacking your lips is also a minimum of conscience.
I don't know if you still remember that on April 7 last year, a female citizen in Hongkou District, Shanghai, was killed by cyberbullying for 200 yuan.
It all started with a letter of commendation.
A local woman from Shanghai, Joshua, lives in Hongkou, but her father is in Qingpu, a 27-kilometer journey. My father is old, his hearing is not good, and his health is not good, so he can only rely on his daughter to deliver the cooked rice. Then the epidemic came, the policy was blocked, and the takeaway was not easy to deliver, so my father had to eat white rice to survive.
Joshua was heartbroken and contacted several delivery services, but there was no sound.
She had to ask the takeaway brother who had delivered the food before and promised to give 200 yuan as a reward.
The little brother kindly agreed, he said: "I think she is very filial, and at this time, it is not easy for everyone." When she called me, her voice was crying, and she was very anxious, so I immediately relented and promised to help her send it. "Not for money, just to help.
The part-time brother turned off the platform, temporarily retreated, and rushed to Joshua's house. But the 27-kilometer road is even more bumpy than crossing the mountains. All kinds of resistance, the electric car was out of power, checked the nucleic acid report of the pass, could not find the charging pile halfway, and arrived at the father's location at 10:37 p.m.
Later, I wanted to walk on the elevated road, but I found that the electric car could not go up, so I decided to walk the last two kilometers. Finally, at 11 p.m., the meal was delivered to Joshua's father's door.
Joshua was very moved when he saw the little brother's dedication, but because the little brother didn't want to be paid, he had to forcibly charge him the phone bill. Then she promised to send a pennant and invite her to dinner after the epidemic was lifted to express her gratitude. This touching story was recognized and rewarded by an Internet big V**, and the takeaway brother was also commended and rewarded by the company.
However, the story does not end in a happy way.
After the praise letter spread on the Internet, a large group of people who like to find fault emerged in the comment area, speaking ill of each other, saying "I was moved to cry only for 200?".", fully demonstrates the careful planning of Shanghai people", etc. These remarks gradually turned into online violence, which made Joshua suffer terribly.
Anxious to clarify, she contacted the blogger, who also published her private message in the hope of easing her burden. However, because of the online violence, Joshua finally couldn't bear it, emptied Weibo, and chose to commit suicide by jumping off a building, leaving behind a seven-year-old child and a hearing-impaired father.
Sometimes, onlookers can also do evil, and lowering your eyebrows is compassion.
Can the words of these people be called righteous?Apparently not.
These people don't really care about justice, but chase after a momentary vent, looking for pleasure, just to leave a little trace of existence in front of the public.
After watching this scene, people can't help but feel a chill in their backs, who can be sure that they will not become the next object to be entertained and dissolved?
This group of people does not care about the truth, they do not know the reason, as long as they see someone being stepped on, they will follow while spitting and clapping their hands, hoping that the other person will fall immediately.
Perhaps, we have all been among those onlookers, but while being kind to others, we also need to reflect on our own behavior and avoid following the trend as a harm.
In this world of love and understanding, let's look at each other with a tolerant eye and create a warm society together.
Quite agree with this sentence:
"To judge a person, first walk a mile in his boots. ”
Not understanding the situation, not making random remarks, and learning to keep your mouth shut are the most basic kindness and the most basic cultivation.
After all, there is no empathy in this world, no one will really understand you, and everything in life is self-aware.
The depression in your heart is not visible to others;
No one can hear the cry of your heart.
What you think is a thousand arrows piercing the heart, in the eyes of others, is often painless;
Your so-called pain may be just hypocritical in the eyes of others.
So, when you speak freely and are excited and cheerful, do you think about the feelings of others?
In April 2022, a local woman in Shanghai thanked an enthusiastic delivery man, but because of 200 yuan, she couldn't bear the online verbal violence and died, which is deeply distressing.
In May 2023, a shocking incident occurred in Hongqiao Primary School in Hanyang District, Wuhan City - a first-grade boy Tan was hit and run over to death by a teacher Liu in the school. Tan's mother chose to commit suicide by jumping off a building when she couldn't stand the pressure of online speech.
In December of the same year, a gambling couple divorced due to quarrels, and they were watched and sang by college students, causing anger on the whole network.
There is a good saying: "Some people are raised and raised, and some people are raised." ”
Some people know how to respect others and know how not to speak freely when they don't know the details, which is the most basic upbringing;Others, on the contrary, seem to be able to show their dignity only by showing their superiority.
True upbringing is a subtle existence, a measure of proportion, a moderation of words and deeds;It is respect for others, but also equality and tolerance.
As the writer Lung Yingtai said:"Your attitude towards the weak is your upbringing. ”
A well-educated person feels warm like a spring breeze, while a person who lacks a culture causes disgust.
True nobility is not to exalt oneself by belittling others, but to have a love for others in one's heart and to do one's best to take care of others.
Being kind to others is a form of self-preservation;Not embarrassing others is also paving the way for yourself.
Let us take care of our words and deeds and infect others with gentle words. Between words and deeds, the background of awe and care is delicately spread, and it exudes a fragrant fragrance like a flower.
Let us connect our hearts and minds in the moment of laughter, do not forget to care for the emotional ups and downs of others, and work together to create a wide and quiet harbor.
Let friendliness become our precious creed, and every word and sentence is a seed sown in each other's hearts.
Convey love in a friendly tone, like a soft breeze caressing each other's heartstrings. In every small gesture, express deep concern for others and let goodwill flow naturally between us like a trickle.
In the happiness of success, let us keep a humble heart and never forget to extend our love to every corner around us. Because only in true care can we weave a simple and beautiful picture of life together, and let this warmth spread to the whole world.
Delicate care is not exaggerated, but shows in the daily moments.
Whether it's a greeting, a listen, or a small help, it's a true expression of care.
In this busy and real arena of life, everyone deserves to be understood and cared for.
Let us convey sincere emotions with practical actions, so that care not only stays between words, but also integrates into all aspects of life.
Only in this kind of mutual care can we jointly deduce an ordinary and rich chapter of life, so that warmth can quietly bloom between us, without words, only with heart.
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