How Zhou Yi views marriage
1.There is a difference between men and women, and the Kun hexagram in "Zhou Yi" says, "The authenticity is bad, and the ring of marrying a wife" is said. Some scholars have explained that this is to warn people that there is a difference between men and women, and that there should be no confusion between men and women. Therefore, there is a strict distinction between men and women in the weekly rites.
2.Marriage between men and women should be carried out according to etiquetteThe salty hexagram of "Zhou Yi" shows that both men and women sympathize with each other with the principles of integrity, honesty and uniformity, and will obtain auspicious results. One of the six three words said: "Xuyi, repent." Jizong, Ji. This means that both men and women should be cautious and respectful about marriage, follow certain etiquette rules, and not marry casually.
3.Men and women should pay attention to age in the "Zhou Yi" Tun hexagram 62 speech, "Tun Ru Fu Ru, riding a horse Ban Ru, bandit marriage." It means that the 62 Yao of the Tun hexagram is the Yin Yao in the Yin position, and should be ruled by inaction, but he is not satisfied with the status quo, but is like facing a great enemy, and is heavily guarded. It's like riding a horse and getting ready to go. In fact, this is not an enemy, but a desire to marry horses. This shows the ancients' view of the age of marriage.
4.Men and women should carefully choose good days and auspicious days for marriage, and the family hexagram of "Zhou Yi" says, "Family, regret and auspiciousness; The woman is stingy. The family hexagram on the nine lines said, "There is Fu Weiru, the end is auspicious." The family hexagram ** said, "The rich family is lucky." These are all warnings to people to choose carefully the auspicious day for marriage. Don't be hasty. Because marriage is related to the good fortune and misfortune of a family. Therefore, the ancients attached great importance to the auspicious day of marriage.
5.Men and women should be cautious in their marriage, and the first nine lines of the "Zhou Yi" hexagram said, "Shock and curb the line." This means that the man should restrain his desires and submit to the woman's demands. The hexagram 65 of "Zhou Yi" says, "Ji Zongkua." It means that only by returning to the sister can you boast of others. Therefore, the way of husband and wife should be cautious from the beginning to the end.
6.Men and women should pay attention to the marriage of the "Zhou Yi", and the Qiangua 94 sentence says, "There is no blame for jumping in the abyss." This means that a man and a woman can only become husband and wife through in-depth interaction and understanding. The hexagram ninety-three words of "Zhou Yi" say, "The husband is not gone." This means that when a man goes on a campaign, he should not be obsessed with women, but should stick to the right path in order to be auspicious. The hexagram ** of "Zhou Yi" said, "It is the son of Ma Qi." This means that if a woman misbehaves, she will give birth to an unworthy son. These are all warnings to people to pay attention to the right match and not to be easily infatuated with the wrong wife.