Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge
Mr. Wen Mu Jinxi
During this time, a man dragged his wife and children out of the car, sparking a discussion about family education and emotional management.
What's going on?
On December 7, in Hangzhou, Zhejiang, a car owner photographed a suffocating scene, and the man dragged a woman and a child from the car, and there were still a lot of vehicles coming and going.
* The footage shows a Porsche parked on the side of the road, and after the man got out of the car, he opened the door and dragged the woman in the car down, and the woman was holding a child in her arms.
After the woman was dragged out of the car by the man, the two children put it down and had an argument with the man in the past, and the child saw the two adults arguing and cried helplessly on the side of the road.
The child's cry and the quarrel between the two adults were extra conspicuous in the traffic, and the owner of the car behind saw the child crying, got out of the car and walked to the child to comfort him.
The different practices of the three adults, from the side to see their own concept problems, this car owner who got out of the car with a double flash, undoubtedly saved the child at a critical time.
It has been confirmed by many parties that the adults who quarreled in ** were husband and wife, it was their biological child who was crying on the side of the road, and it was a kind person who comforted the child.
According to normal logic, parents will give priority to their children in doing things, but the couple in this incident did not see a sense of responsibility as parents.
Just imagine, in case a child has an accident on the road, then how will they face the child?
Parents are the first teachers of children, and the way parents solve problems can directly affect their children's subconscious, which exposes parents to problems that are not only violent tendencies, but also negligence in treating children's education.
After the incident, everyone focused on the man's action of dragging his wife and children out of the car, and discussed whether the two should divorce?
Because the two had an argument in public, which caused a certain social impact, the reporter quickly contacted the man, and the man told the situation at the time.
The reason for the procrastination is that the man and his wife had an argument, they discussed the issue of children's education, and after the communication was fruitless, the man did something wrong in a fit of anger.
Not only that, but after being dragged out of the car by her husband, the woman left her children and rushed to her husband to make the man pay for his actions.
As long as one of the husband and wife keeps calm, then the matter is just a small dispute, but they do not focus on the children, but pay too much attention to their own feelings.
Let's see how well-wishers deal with it?
The good Samaritan and the quarreling couple did not know each other, he saw the child crying, immediately walked over to comfort the child, and reprimanded the behavior of the two, which shows the owner's sense of justice.
After the incident, the man was condemned by the whole network, he is the main person responsible for the incident, as the head of the family, he cannot solve the problem in the right way, and will only resort to violence.
In the face of an interview with reporters, the man said, "I regret it, I won't be so impulsive in the future, apologize to my wife and children, and thank Mr. Zhu for helping." ”
The woman also responded to the matter, "I am also at fault, I shouldn't have an argument when my husband is driving, and then look at his performance, I will try to talk well and try to quarrel with him as little as possible." ”
Now that the two parties have reconciled, the relevant departments have also dealt with them, and the public security organs have issued a "Domestic Violence Warning Letter" to the man for education and warning.
It's easy to lose your mind in the middle of an argument, but luckily they met a good Samaritan, otherwise it is likely to make the incident worse.
At the same time, the man's behavior violated traffic regulations and was punished, and the local streets and relevant departments of the two have intervened in the follow-up treatment to effectively protect the legitimate rights and interests of women and children.
This matter is very hot, and we can see everyone's plan for the violence, and after the person responds, the response to them is also very swift.
First of all, the place where the crime occurred was in a public place, and the man dragged his wife and children out of the car, which was intensifying the conflict between the husband and wife, and did not solve the substantive problem.
Whether it's a man's words that are too extreme, or a woman's words that make a man angry, they shouldn't argue in front of their children.
What is silent is that the two originally quarreled because of the child's problems, but when the child needed help, they turned a blind eye.
It can be seen that they are not good at dealing with their children's education, and it is very likely that first-child parents care too much about their own feelings, and they will cause trouble.
The comment section overwhelmingly suggested that the two divorce, but this will also cause harm to the children and make a problem serious, which is a simple way for modern people to solve the problem.
I believe that after the discussion of netizens, the person concerned has realized his mistake, and as long as he pays attention to his own emotions and the way to solve the problem, it will be regarded as a lesson.
After one thing, I hope they will think more about their children and learn to control themselves.