Love is a beautiful and complex emotion, and sometimes loving someone can make us blind, desperate to pursue and give. However, when we understand that a relationship is not fruitful, choosing "foolish love" often only makes us more miserable. No matter how much we like someone, we should also be rational about our feelings and learn to protect ourselves.
Getting lost in the fantasy of love and blindly pursuing yourself hurts
When we have a strong affection for someone, it is easy to get lost in the illusion of love. We may ignore each other's shortcomings and create a perfect image for ourselves. We revel in romantic fantasies and willingly give everything away from the reality of the situation. Lost in illusions, we often struggle to see each other for what they really are, leading to an unstable foundation in the relationship, which may end up paying more hurt and disappointment.
In the process of getting lost, we may develop a mindset of blind pursuit. We will recklessly make many sacrifices and efforts for the other person, ignoring our own needs and values. We may amplify each other's strengths and turn a blind eye to our own needs and inner voice. This blind pursuit will only cause us to lose ourselves and sacrifice our happiness excessively. When we cling too much to an illusory ideal, we will only end up hurting and disappointing ourselves.
If you give too much and don't get a response, you will only be let down and ignored
Another problem we blindly pursue is that we may give too much and not get a response. When we choose to be "foolish" and do not ask for anything in return, we often ignore the importance of balance and interaction. Feelings require the joint dedication and care of two people, and one person giving too much and the other not giving the same attention can lead to inequality and unfairness. Such situations can make us feel let down and ignored, and make our efforts and efforts worthless.
In the process of giving too much, we are also prone to pain and loss. We can get caught up in the emotions and behaviors of the other person, worrying about the other person all the time, but in the end we don't get anything in return. This kind of one-sided effort will only make us exhausted and feel that we are not valued and valued. Our hearts are deeply hurt, and the other person may be completely blind to our efforts. Such pain and disappointment can further exacerbate our psychological burden, leaving us feeling helpless and hopeless.
Unable to face reality, such persistence will only lead to a cycle of pain
When we choose "foolish love" and blindly pursue someone, it often means that we are unable to face reality. Sometimes, we may have big illusions about the relationship, thinking that as long as we stick with it, everything will be solved. However, this is often not the case. There can be all kinds of problems and challenges in a relationship, and choosing to escape these realities will only allow the problems to build up, ultimately leading to deeper pain.
When we cling to a relationship that doesn't come to fruition, we tend to get stuck in a cycle of pain. We are unwilling to face reality and unable to accept problems and frustrations in our relationships. We may repeat the same mistakes again and again, expecting to change the other person or solve the problem through persistence and dedication. However, the reality is often harsh and does not meet our expectations. Such a cycle will only lead us deeper and deeper into the problem of not really solving the problem, and ultimately bringing more pain.
Increasing pain and disappointment can lead to self-loss
Over time, increased pain and disappointment are inevitable outcomes. When we pursue someone wishfully and give for it at all costs, we often expect the same in return. However, if the other person does not respond equally to our feelings or does not give sincerely, then we are likely to feel let down and ignored.
As a result, our efforts are in vain, and our best efforts are not rewarded accordingly. This imbalance causes us to feel hurt spiritually, and the indifference of the other person deepens our pain and disappointment. Eventually, we can lose ourselves, get lost in unhealthy relationships, and lose sight of our inner needs and happiness.
Persisting in the blind pursuit of a fruitless relationship will only increase the pain and disappointment. Choosing to escape reality, not being able to face the problems and challenges in a relationship, and clinging to an unreciprocated relationship will only keep us trapped in a cycle of pain. Our efforts become meaningless and we risk losing ourselves and our happiness.
All in all, love requires the joint efforts and true emotions of two people, and choosing "foolish love" will only make us lose ourselves wishful thinking, and give disproportionately to what we get. Therefore, no matter how much we like a person, we should also treat our feelings rationally and protect ourselves while sticking to our principles. Love is wonderful, but if there is no result, we must also learn to let go and create a better future for ourselves.