On the stage of life, each of us is an actor and an audience at the same time. We use our acting skills to interpret our respective roles, and at the same time, we are also observing the performances of others.
Wang Zhiwen reminded us that in this process, people must learn to hide 2 things, otherwise it will be a matter of time before you get hurt!
What are those two things?One is the heart, the other is the ability!
Why?
Wang Zhiwen explained: First,The heart should be hidden in the heart, once it is said, it will become a story in the mouth of others, if the heart is not defended, it is a matter of time before it is hurt;
Deep in the heart of each of us, there is a mysterious ocean, deep and vast. It hides our joys, sorrows, worries, and hopes. But these things are not all suitable for exposure to the sun, because once they are confided, they can become fodder for small talk, or even misunderstood or distorted.
How so?Because there is a desire to snoop in human nature, always wanting to uncover the secrets of others to satisfy curiosity. At the same time, human nature also has a kind of rejection psychology, and people often choose to avoid or ridicule the expression of emotions that are too straightforward.
Therefore, true wisdom lies in knowing how to properly handle one's own thoughts. Not all things are suitable for sharing, and some things are more suitable for being buried in the bottom of the heart and becoming nourishment for personal growth. And there may not be many people who can truly understand us and accept us, but their existence is like a beacon that guides us to find our way in the darkness.
Second,The ability should also be hidden, and the ability is like a sharp edge, which is a thorn, and it is easy to stab others. People are jealous, and they would rather accept the success of strangers but it is difficult to tolerate the top-notch people around them. If you don't know how to restrain yourself, you will definitely attract countless guns and arrows
In the arena of life, ability is our ** and shield. It gives us a foothold in this competitive world. However, the sharp edge often stabs others. People tend to be tolerant of strangers' success, but they are hard-tolerated with the best of those around them. Driven by this jealousy, if we don't know how to restrain ourselves, we can easily become the target of others' attacks.
True wisdom lies in knowing when to show and when to hide. Excessive ostentation can only be offensive, and even lead to unnecessary fighting. And the real strong are those who know how to show their abilities at critical moments, and at the same time can hide appropriately. They know that the stage of life needs to be relaxed, and excessive publicity will only accelerate their decline. Only those who know how to show at the right time and hide when necessary can go further and more stable on the stage of life.
Wang Zhiwen's two reminders are like a mirror on the stage of life, allowing us to see our position and role clearly. In this complex world, we need to learn to protect our own hearts and abilities, while also respecting the privacy and talents of others. Only in this way can we go further and more steadily on the stage of life and shine our own light.
Let's work together to become a better version of ourselves and let others feel our warmth and strength.