Quarrels between husband and wife are inevitable, but how you deal with them can make the difference between you and you in this "war". Today, I'm going to share a strategy that can make you a winner right after a couple fight.
First of all, we need to understand that a quarrel between husband and wife is not a zero-sum game, but a communication process that requires the participation of both parties. In this process, your reactions and attitudes will directly affect the outcome of the fight. So, how can you emerge victorious in a quarrel?The answer is understanding and respect
Understanding is the first step to solving any problem. When your partner expresses their opinions and feelings in an argument, what you need to do is not to refute but to try to understand their position. This way, you can find the key to solving the problem.
Respect is the foundation of a relationship. In an argument, you may feel angry and disappointed, but you need to remember that your partner is also a human being, and they also have their own feelings and needs. To respect their feelings is to respect your relationship.
Finally, you need to learn to control your emotions. In quarrels, the loss of emotional control often leads to the deterioration of the situation. Therefore, you need to learn to calm yourself when you are emotional, take deep breaths, take a moment away, etc.
Overall, a quarrel between a couple is not a war, but a communication process that requires both parties to participate together. It is only through understanding and respect that you can emerge victorious in this "war". So, the next time you have an argument with your partner, try this method, and you will find that you will not only settle the dispute, but also improve your status in the family.