Two situations in which children who study well are depressed and do not go to school!
The first is to set a high goal for yourself and force yourself to work hard, and finally exhaust yourself!
The second is that parents keep controlling their children, letting their children learn, and the children are more sensible, constantly catering to the ideas in their mother's hearts, being a good child in the eyes of their mothers, being a good student in the neighbor's next door, but not himself, so when this kind of child is depressed and does not go to school, they lock themselves in the house and do not communicate, do not communicate, and do not open the door at this time!Parents need to stop bothering their children, the first situation is that parents can understand, understand such a child, he forces himself every day, so that he is tired, tired!
The second type of parents want to take back control of their children, but also to force him to go back to school, but also to ask him to do his homework, the child has been tired in order to adapt to you, don't let him adapt to you anymore, let the child take a break first, parents can adjust the previous interaction mode with the child, let the child help you open up, the second step is to help the child adjust his mind and mind!The first kind of child doesn't set goals, if you can't reach the goal, don't set it again, do what you can, do what you can do and do it well!The second is that this parent has to be a counselor with the child, so that the child can say that he complains about you, he hates you, so many years you let him have no self, so that the child can get a full expression, the third step is that it is possible for the child to return to school to learn again, through these 3 steps to solve this kind of child who is particularly good at learning, so to deal with it!
The ideology of parents is to raise children as pets, the school is to raise children to be problem-making machines, and the society is to raise children into wasteI just let parents have a high-dimensional cognition, see clearly the chaos of the family, school and society, and use the true educational logic of doing things to upgrade the dimension, so as to completely solve the problems of depression, lying down, hating school, not going to school, etc.