Recently, while revisiting "Snail House"**, I was surprised to find:
Guo Haizao and Song Siming met for the first time so greasy and absurd, I couldn't believe it.
Seaweed met with Song Siming with the boss, who was still a trainee employee at the time.
The first time they met, Song Siming asked directly: "How old is Miss Guo this year?"”
Got married?"Nope. ”
What a bright future!”
The seaweed at that time was strange, and when I was 25 years old, I was not married, so would the future be bright?Words that can't be taken. Seaweed pouted again. Secretary Song on the other side was still very good-tempered, and he was still smiling when he looked at the seaweed.
Look, Song Siming, a married man in his 40s, saw a young and beautiful little girl, and immediately staged the greasy "teasing" trick of a middle-aged man.
The more I look at it, the more I realize, maybe Song Siming has never really owned seaweed, but is just greedy for the youth and purity of seaweed, this is the heart palpitation he once lost.
He didn't like her, he just longed for her nakedly, and this was the last time a middle-aged man was stubborn.
He wanted to prove that he was still strong, that he wasn't too old, that he was prestigious. Fulfill your desires, compensate for your regrets, and fill your emptiness.
We all say, stop fantasizing that married men mean the truth, because men don't have hearts, they just love themselves.
I don't like the original partner, I don't like my lover, they are just stepping stones and interpretive flowers on his future path.
If he is truly in love, he will not stump and feel sorry for the two women.
At the end of the day, it's not liking.
The more I read "Snail House", the clearer my heart becomes:
A woman only relies on her own strength, and she attaches herself to a man, and in the end she gets nothing. It's really dangerous to give a man a fate. Not cost-effective.
I often hear many female friends talk like this: marry someone and marry Song Siming, you have feelings and money.
I laughed at that.
Before meeting Seaweed, Song Siming was really a husband, father and leader who was not bad for money.
But the truth and darkness of his humanity are being completely stimulated and frantically grown by seaweed.
Even if there is no Guo Haizao, there will be Zhang Haizao, Li Haizao, and Wang Haizao, but it is only a matter of time.
Song Siming took a fancy to Guo Haizao, and getting along with her was all naked to vent his "desire", and he had no himself.
What left a deep impression was when Song Siming and Guo Haizao met for the first time.
In order to borrow 60,000 yuan from his sister Guo Haiping to buy a house, Guo Haizao knew that he owed Song Siming this money, and if he couldn't afford it, he had to use his body to pay it off.
Song Siming took Guo Haizao as his own, and also thought that she was completely herself for the first time, and was ecstatic.
However, this is actually a misunderstanding, and falling into his passenger seat is just a drop of "auntie's blood" in seaweed.
Because he mistakenly thought that Seaweed was the first woman who belonged to him completely, Song Siming sank even more, which was the embodiment of his super possessiveness.
Make the seaweed call for wind and rain. I could, because, for the first time, she made herself a woman, and completely. ”
Later, Guo Haizao accidentally got pregnant, and when he knew that he was pregnant with a boy, Song Siming was even happier, this was the only male in the Song family that he had been in love with for a long time.
Song took Guo Haizao for himself and asked her to have a boy, and this extramarital affair was an absurd and naked "desire" from beginning to end, and there was never love.
Because love is never wanton possession, it is the joy from the heart when getting along with you, the respect for the other person's personality, and the mutual giving to the other person to make the other person better.
In this extramarital relationship, Song never paid tribute to seaweed, but just raised a cute little animal, allowing it to please and satisfy his various desires for human nature.
With Song Siming, there is a shame in human nature.
Leaving respect and love, he used money and small favors to make seaweed fall and become a tool for his power, desire and heirs to inherit.
He never thought about the suffering of seaweed, the embarrassment of seaweed, and the future of seaweed. Because how can a pet talk to him about it?
He didn't think she was worth it.
Don't be fooled by Song Siming's ability on the surface, money and small favors, you are too humble to understand a woman's love, and don't talk about marrying.
There are dark and shameful things in everyone's nature, but we must always be vigilant: do not let this dark corner completely swallow up the truth, goodness, and beauty in our human nature.
After middle age, having sex without love with a lover is essentially a tragedy in life.
Chose the wrong path to hurt these two women because of low self-esteem, selfishness, fear, and greed.
As a woman, you must learn to introspect
In this pluralistic society, there are many paths to success and happiness, but there are no shortcuts in the process.
Don't be blinded by men's petty favors and pretending to be amorous, a man who loves himself is not allowed to talk about his feelings as a third party.
Do not lose your personality and dignity for money, so-called love.