Cui Jinxi - "life mentor" and "life mentor" in Zhen Huan's biography The title of "life mentor" appears frequently in the barrage comments of "The Legend of Zhen Huan", and I believe that many viewers will immediately think of the characters we are about to discuss when they mention this word. That's right, she is the most outstanding assistant in Broken Yuxuan, the palace maid Cui Jinxi.
From the moment Zhen Huan first stepped into the palace wall, Jinxi guarded the left and right like an eldest sister, always giving guidance to Zhen Huan when she was confused, and comforting Zhen Huan when she was sad, and Zhen Huan contributed the most wonderful scene during the grounding period - a deep and thorough analysis of the emotions of the harem sisters. Today, let's learn with Zhen Huan the "sisterhood" of the "life mentor" Cui Jinxi. During Zhen Huan's grounding, the secret of Shu Xing glue was finally revealed.
Zhen Huan, who was deeply hurt by the "love between husband and wife", suffered a heavy blow on the "sisterhood" again, and this time, she completely fell into an emotional trough. So, Jinxi began her teaching with her "sisterhood". First of all, if a sister makes you feel uncomfortable all the time, it is likely that you are really "uncomfortable" with each other. In fact, not only Jinxi, but even the audience can feel that the relationship between Zhen Huan and An Lingrong has been in an awkward state for a long time. You may think I'm talking about Zhen Huan's miscarriage?
In fact, from the time Zhen Huan first entered the palace, An Lingrong's every move brought her a lot of trouble. For example, An Lingrong personally went to the cold palace to instruct Gonggong Su to execute Yu. After Meizhuang learned of this, he said: "I always feel that this is not the Lingrong I know. Many people criticized Meizhuang for being fake because of these words, accusing her of separating sisterhood behind her back. But have you ever thought that although there is no substantial evidence, Meizhuang just expressed the discomfort in her and Zhen Huan's hearts.
As Meizhuang said, An Lingrong and the Yu family don't seem to have a deep hatred, plus An Lingrong is usually timid and afraid, and never dares to resist, but suddenly ran to the cold palace to command the execution of people, if such a thing happened to your friend, would you be shocked?Why An Lingrong killed the Yu family, we have also analyzed it before, it is nothing more than jealousy that the Yu family, who is lower than his status, has been favored by the emperor, but he has suffered humiliation. In other words, from the very beginning, An Lingrong was a sensitive and resentful person.
For Zhen Huan and Meizhuang, who always uphold kindness to others, discovering their friends naturally makes them feel incomprehensible and uncomfortable. Despite this, Zhen Huan did not directly deny this friend, but chose to make excuses for her. Zhen Huan once said to Meizhuang: "An Lingrong is also out of our good!."Since then, she has been comforting others and herself with it. For example, when An Lingrong was jealous of Zhen Huan's love for Chun'er and made Zhen Huan feel uneasy, a chestnut cake made her reflect and realize that she was overly suspicious and alienated An Lingrong.
For another example, after Zhen Huan's miscarriage, An Lingrong not only didn't ask or listen, but also took the opportunity to compete for favor, making Zhen Huan feel that her words and deeds were inconsistent and lacked sincere sisterhood. But a trip to Penglaizhou dispelled some of Zhen Huan's doubts. Therefore, if a friend is always making you feel uncomfortable, maybe there is no need to make excuses or excuses, maybe you really don't get along, and what you are waiting for may be just an opportunity, a straw that breaks the camel's back. It's actually a pleasure to finally find such an opportunity.
In addition, there are people who are not good to her, she will be good to you. This is perhaps the easiest trap to fall into when dealing with friendship in real life. Many people believe that being unreservedly kind to others is a way to express affection and bring people closer. However, it often backfires, and some people become jealous, while others gradually take everything for granted. And it just so happened that An Lingrong had these three situations. Zhen Huan's kindness to An Lingrong probably doesn't need to be said. Since before entering the palace, Zhen Huan has shown full sincerity to her and personally took care of her at home.
However, what is this good thing in An Lingrong's eyes?She said to Baojuan when Zhen's mother first entered the palace: "The first time I went to Zhen's mansion, everything was so beautiful, everything was so novel, and now it is my turn to stand on it, it is time for me to reward them with things." "Look, the Zhen family's kindness to her is not gratitude in An Lingrong's heart, but jealousy that has been hidden for a long time. Eventually, one day, when the opportunity arises, I can't wait to show off and go back in order to find some kind of psychological balance.
There is also the jade hairpin that Zhen Huan gave to An Lingrong by Jinxi. An Lingrong said: "She has never given me such a good thing in ordinary times, all for the sake of Chun Chang Presence, and the nobles of Guan don't need me anymore if they are Chun Chang Presence, so they flashed me aside." However, Yuchai and Jinxi were wrong, obviously An Lingrong's inner desire for exclusivity was at work. She hopes that Zhen Huan's kindness and Zhen Huan's support will only belong to her, and Zhen Huan is not allowed to have other sisters around her. Moreover, after An Lingrong's father suffered misfortune, Zhen Huan also spent a lot of effort to help.
An Lingrong was out of danger, but he didn't care about Zhen Huan's kindness, and even thought that other people's gifts would not help. She never seemed to value Zhen Huan's kindness, no matter how good Zhen Huan was to her, it meant nothing to her. At the same time, interests are seen as the most powerful weapon to destroy sisters' feelings. Jinxi once said that sisters hurt each other in the harem, almost describing the queen. On this sister topic, the queen mother has the most right to speak, because she not only hurt her own sister because of interests, but also used interests to make An Lingrong betray Zhen Huan.
Many people have found fault with Zhen Huan's shortcomings in this sisterhood, but what finally made Zhen Huan and An Lingrong go their separate ways?Isn't it profit-driven?When Ambi Huai was saved, how did Baojuan persuade her?She said nothing as good as the pleasure of being pampered and getting ahead. What did An Lingrong say when he saw Zhen Huan's jade hairpin?She said that she had never seen such a good thing, but Zhen Huan could take it out at will and reward others.
She took refuge in the queen, harmed the children of Fucha and Zhen Huan, took the opportunity of Zhen Huan's miscarriage to take the throne, wore Shu brocade clothes every day, and put up a shelf for the favored concubine, isn't all this for the sake of profit?Seeing that Meizhuang and Zhen Huan were favored, watching them win countless rewards, their status was constantly improving, enjoying the favor of Big Orange, and being respected by others, An Lingrong's heart was shaken. The problem is not that Zhen Huan is not good enough, but driven by huge interests, An Lingrong betrayed sisterhood.
Although this is a TV plot, it also reflects the world of today's adults, whether it is family, friendship or love, it needs to be carefully managed. When we work hard to manage our relationship but still can't avoid the breakdown, maybe we can learn from Aunt Jinxi's words, and maybe we can suddenly open up.