Recently, a piece of news about a girl who no longer participates in the circle of friends to post gift money has caused a wide response on the Internet. According to reports, in order to avoid participating in the ineffective social interaction of the circle of friends, a girl in Yanbian, Jilin Province issued a circle of friends to make it clear that she did not participate in the gifts of ordinary classmates, and received praise and recognition from countless netizens. This move not only sparked a discussion about "rectifying the money", but also caused people to think about modern social etiquette.
According to reports, the girl's name is Xiao Wang, and she received marriage invitations from a number of junior high school classmates who had known each other for a long time but had not been in touch for many years. Faced with this situation, Xiao Wang directly sent a circle of friends to express her disgust with the Xi of etiquette, and said that those who agree with her idea do not need to explain more, and those who do not agree will not become good friends, so that friends who are not familiar with her will not invite her to the wedding in the future. At present, no one has asked Xiao Wang to give a gift. Many netizens praised it one after another, expressing their deep sympathy. They think that Xiao Wang's approach is very capable, and it is a symbol that young people are beginning to straighten out their money.
In fact, this is not the first time that Xiao Wang has not participated in the ceremony. According to reports, there was a lady surnamed Li before, who complained on social ** that her salary was not high, but every weekend she would be consumed by various weddings to spend a lot of money on gifts, a phenomenon that also resonated with many people. Faced with frequent wedding invitations, she had to give up her travel and rest plans and spend almost all of her vacation on gifts. There are many similar examples, and many young people say they can't afford the heavy pressure of the ceremony.
This phenomenon has led to thinking about social etiquette. Some people believe that Sui Li is a traditional Xi, a respect and blessing for others. However, for some young people, gifting has become a heavy burden. And for these people, whether they need to be courteous has become a question they really think about.
There is no consensus on this issue. Some people believe that everyone has their own financial pressures and should not force others to perform the reciprocal rites. Others believe that following the ritual is a traditional Xi, a sign of respect and blessing for others, and should be done in accordance with the rules.
In any case, thinking about social etiquette is a necessary process. As some netizens said, young people's rectification of money is actually examining this traditional Xi, ** the truth and shortcomings.
As society changes and young people think, people's views on Xi are also changing. More and more young people are looking at the practical meaning and financial burden of gifts. They began to refuse to be courteous in order to express their position and attitude. This phenomenon has attracted widespread attention, and it has also made more people start to think about the connotation and importance of social etiquette.
Finally, I would like to ask a question, what is your opinion on the gift?Have you ever encountered a similar situation in your daily life?Do you think it's the right thing for young people to do to clean up their money?Welcome to leave a message and discuss.