When many people look for a partner, they will regard "good to me" as a very important criterion, but often ignore whether the other person is a good person or not.
We often encounter people who are overly generous, verbally insanely complimentary, flattering, and eager to build intimacy quickly.
Care for you, accompany you, greet you with warmth, and take care of everything;Any boy would do it.
It's because "being good to you" is the means, the path you have to take.
You feel that he cares about you and cares about you, but after being together, it's like a different person. That's because, he's already done what he's going to do.
It's easy to be moved by these behaviors to think you've met the right person.
But in fact, it is likely that this is only a temporary manifestation of the passionate phase of the relationship, and as the relationship is longer and the two parties become more familiar, these behaviors will also fall back to the average or even fade as the passion recedes.
To put it simply, that person is good to you based on the logical chain that you can provide enough value to the other person. If you lose your value once you lose, or the other party no longer needs your value.
His purpose is only to possess you, and to be good to you, but only a means and means to achieve his end.
In the face of such a man, we need to be vigilant and respond rationally.
In the process of building a relationship, we need to think rationally, not blindly fall into the sweet words and excessive generosity of the other party, and protect our emotional health and rights.