As the saying goes: "Thirty and stand, forty and not confused." ”
This shows that middle-aged men are more mature physically and mentally after experiencing rich experiences, and have a deeper understanding of feelings and life.
In fact, many young women prefer middle-aged men because they are more mature, steady, and know how to take care of women.
Men at this stage are not only successful in their careers, but also have more emotional experience and are able to live in harmony with women.
Middle-aged men can give substantial support to women, both materially and emotionally, bringing them more happiness.
Of course, not all middle-aged men accept all types of women, and they will choose the right partner according to their needs.
Women who can really attract middle-aged men, as shown by Zhu Suosuo in Yishu**'s "Golden Years".
Zhu Suosuo has attracted the attention of almost all men, and the reason why she can stand out among many women is because she has a unique advantage.
First of all, there are women who have the ultimate beauty.
Shakespeare once said, "Women fall in love with their ears, and men love with their eyes." ”
This shows that the first thing a man pays attention to when he first looks at a woman is her appearance.
No matter how good a woman is in her own right, what attracts a man in the first place is actually her beauty.
A woman with an extremely beautiful appearance is bound to be able to attract the attention of men, who will be attracted to her looks and then decide how to pursue her.
Men are usually practical and tacky, any man loves beautiful women, and as long as you are beautiful enough, he will definitely be tempted.
In "The Golden Years", Zhu Suosuo was born poor, but attracted many successful men, mainly because of her stunning looks.
A woman who really has a beautiful appearance is able to attract everyone's attention as soon as she appears, and no matter what type of man she is, she can't escape the love for beautiful women.
The men who get along with Zhu Suosuo have successful careers and accumulate wealth, but they compete with each other for Zhu Suosuo's attention. Even if they just meet each other, they will be happy, and this is the attraction of beautiful women.
Therefore, if a woman wants to impress the heart of a middle-aged man, she must work on her appearance. No matter what the occasion, a beautiful and dignified appearance will always be your business card.
However, a woman's beauty does not need to be highlighted by expensive clothing and decorations, but should focus on maintaining a dignified and neat manner, possessing a certain temperament, and making a lasting impression.
Just like Zhu Suosuo, she is dazzling every time she appears in front of men, making it difficult for men to resist her beauty.
Women who truly have great beauty are full of self-confidence, because self-confidence can show a unique temperament, which is the best quality to attract men.
Secondly, there are women with high emotional intelligence.
For middle-aged men, they have experienced ups and downs in life and have seen many things clearly.
At this stage, men need women who have a certain level of emotional intelligence, be able to speak appropriately in formal situations, and skillfully adjust the atmosphere.
In this way, the man will feel that he is very decent, which is also the capital to show off, which greatly satisfies the inner sense of accomplishment.
In addition, in private situations, women are able to mingle with men, compete with each other, and play tricks, which will give men a thrill of conquering and being conquered.
In "The Golden Years", Zhu Suosuo shows this trait of high emotional intelligence. She is able to handle various situations with ease and behaves very appropriately when interacting with men. When she is alone with men, she can deal with them flexibly and easily, which has won high praise from men.
In fact, middle-aged men pay more attention to whether women are in tune with themselves in soul, and this is what can really move them.
Zhu Suosuo succeeded in achieving this, and although she verbally complained when she got along with men, she made them feel that they were not doing enough and had to find other ways to make up for it.
The real high emotional intelligence of women is that they know what they want from men, but they subtly make men feel that he has not done a good job and feel guilty about her.
When Zhu Suosuo gets what she wants, she will not ask for it endlessly, but knows how to stop at the right time. Truly achieve peace of mind about gains and losses.
If a woman always asks for it, it may be nothing at first, but after a long time, the man will think that she is very materialistic. Zhu Suosuo has never acted like this, but knows how to refuse at the right time, and never accept what should not be accepted.
The more she does this, the more men can't figure her out, and the more they can't do without her, which is exactly the embodiment of women's high emotional intelligence.
In **, people who know Zhu Suosuo are willing to make friends with her, which also shows that she is a woman with high emotional intelligence and knows how to capture the hearts of others.
Therefore, in order to impress middle-aged men, women need to have a certain amount of emotional intelligence.
Only in this way can she hold on to a man's heart and make him love her all the time.
Finally, there are gentle and rational women.
As the saying goes, love the country more love the beauty.
In fact, no matter how good a man is, he can't compete with a woman's gentleness.
A truly gentle woman not only knows how to be coquettish and sassy, but also is gentle and kind, virtuous and virtuous, knows how to care for men, and is full of friendship for everything around her.
At the same time, they are also sensible, decisive and resolute in their work, calm in life, and can not only put themselves in the shoes of problems, but also understand the feelings of others.
They will do their best, but they will not compromise on things that are not worth it, even if they are forced, they have their own principles and opinions.
is like Zhu Suosuo in "The Golden Years", no matter which man she is with, she will not rely too much on each other.
The man confesses that he loves her, and she accepts it with a smile, and if the other party no longer loves her, she will pretend to be aggrieved and leave. She will give to men, but always in moderation and good at proportion.
For a middle-aged man, they go through a lot of feelings, and if the woman is always dependent on him and revolves around him all day, he may get bored.
On the contrary, women know how to give moderately, and if they leave him, one day he will not find you, but he will be anxious, and he will take the initiative to come to you.
Therefore, when developing a relationship with a middle-aged man, a woman needs to understand that her love should not be overfilled.
Keep your distance moderately, become a gentle and rational woman, and he will cherish you more.
In fact, a middle-aged man wants a woman who knows how to be rational and gentle, who can understand him, comfort him, and give him spiritual comfort.
In short, women need to be rational in love, not to lose themselves, and at the same time to have the qualities of gentleness and kindness in order to truly touch a man's heart.
For middle-aged men, they no longer need too much passion and romance, but pursue a plain and quiet life.
In such a life, having a woman who understands him and walks into his heart is what they really desire. I hope you will soon become a truly admirable woman in the eyes of middle-aged men.