In life, you can always meet all kinds of people, some people like it, and people can't help but get closer;Some people are so obnoxious that they can't help but feel disgusted.
Interpersonal communication is an art, and we tend to have different attitudes towards these people.
In the face of the person we like, we can always show the good side, so as to enhance each other's feelings;
In the face of hated people, some people may not give a good face, write their thoughts on their faces, or have trouble getting along with each other.
In fact, associating with unpleasant people tests our wisdom even more, because we have to endure our own adverse reactions from time to time.
So, how do we properly treat the people we hate and be gracious?
Respect him. Von Schiller once said, "Whoever does not respect others, others will not respect him." ”
Respect is always mutual, respect others, in order to get the respect of others, but also to respect yourself.
Only those who deserve respect can be respected by others.
And respect for others is also a person's inner tenderness, the embodiment of a person's quality.
Each of us has our own independent soul with our own unique values and stories.
Even if you hate that person, he is unique in the world. No one can be like him, and no one can replace him.
And respect is a gentle force, which can melt the ice and snow between people, gradually resolve thorny contradictions, and narrow the relationship between people.
It is also a beautiful virtue that fills our hearts with tolerance and kindness, and makes our lives glow with beautiful brilliance and full of moving beauty.
Even if you don't like the other person, maintaining a certain amount of respect can make it hard for others to hate you.
And, when he wants to get you in trouble, it's hard to get started, because you respect him enough that he "appeared out of thin air" and "was wrong";
And you respect him in the eyes of others, and if he is critical of you, it will also cause others to criticize him.
Invisibly, it helps you.
Respecting the person you hate may make you feel a little aggrieved and disobedient inside, but change your mind:
It wouldn't hurt to respect a man more, but he didn't respect much more either, and it would be great if his hostility towards me was less.
Don't take him too seriously.
Read a sentence: "The great wise man will be humble, and the great good man will be forgiving;Only wise people have enterprising spirit, and good people are narrow-minded. ”
A man of great wisdom must be humble and forgiving;People who lack wisdom are aggressive and bargaining.
It is the wisdom of life not to care too much, especially with people you hate, not to care too much, and to be aggressive.
It's already unhappy to be with someone who hates us, and when we get entangled with him because of something, it brings us more bad emotions.
The neighbor was very lazy, and swept the leaves and soil in front of the door to the door of Uncle Sun's house many times, and even sometimes secretly pulled out the vegetables in his yard and cooked them.