Many times, there is a communication barrier between men and women, and often both parties are used to using their own minds to figure out each other's psychology. Many women will find that after getting married, how is it that men are different from before marriage?I think men have changed, but in fact, men have not changed, but women don't understand men to feel that men have changed.
The first point is that men need sex more than affection. For men, sexual needs are basic needs, emotional needs are only spiritual needs, don't measure men by women's thoughts.
The second point is that men are always realistic. Men's behavior will have their own motivation and logic, and they often have a strong sense of purpose, so it will be said that men are more rational and women are more emotional. Men often know exactly what they want.
Third, men also have needs and are the protagonists in their own lives. Many times, men and women tend to accommodate women's wishes when they are together, because many of men's needs are dispensable, but it does not mean that men have no needs. On the contrary, men are more likely to give in to other needs, but tend to be more paranoid and unreasonable when it comes to the needs they care about.
Fourth, men are more important than words. Men use words as tools than women, and men care more about how they feel about their actual actions. Many men don't care as much about language as women do.
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