My name is Li Suying and I am 65 years old this year. Speaking of my daughter-in-law Zhang Xiaoli, I still have some worries in my heart.
After marriage, Zhang Xiaoli was also very filial to me, often came to the house to help me with housework and chat with me. I admire Zhang Xiaoli very much. When she gave birth to my granddaughter Li Sisi, I was so happy that I went to their house every day to help take care of the child.
Mom, you've worked hard, I'll take the child. Let's go to the living room and take a break. Zhang Xiaoli always said this to me.
At that time, our family was very harmonious. I, my son and daughter-in-law often eat together, and we are always together during the holidays. Xiaoli often cooks my favorite hometown dishes and invites me to eat. I looked at their family of three and felt happy and happy.
However, the good times were short-lived. Last year, Zhang Xiaoli suddenly became cold to me, and sometimes when I went to her house, she didn't welcome me very much.
One day, I went to her house for dinner as usual, and Zhang Xiaoli's face was ugly. I thought to myself that maybe it wasn't going well at work, so I didn't care. After dinner, I went to the living room to watch TV, and suddenly I heard Zhang Xiaoli and my son arguing in the room.
Your mom is really getting more and more inches, and I can't stand it anymore when I come uninvited every day!”
Mom is indeed a little troublesome, but she is my mother after all, and you have to be considerate of her. ”
Considerate?I've been considerate of her for so many years!I've worked hard to pull Sisi up, has your mother helped me?She's just here to eat and drink!”
Xiaoli, don't talk about my mom like that. She is also kind and wants to spend more time with her granddaughter. ”
Good intentions?I think it's delicious and lazy to do!Li Xiaoming, you have to choose, either her or me!”
Hearing this, my heart suddenly cooled in half. It turned out that my daughter-in-law had long been resentful of me and had been suppressing it.
That night, I had insomnia until the wee hours of the morning. I felt very sad in my heart, and felt that all the kindness I had been to my daughter-in-law had been in vain. How harmonious our family used to be, I thought of her.
In the past, our family was so harmonious that I loved her as if she were my own daughter. Now that she resents me so much, my heart hurts like a knife.
* Zhang Xiaoli on the other end said coldly: "No need, we can cook by ourselves." After saying that, he hung up directly.
My hands shook and my phone almost fell to the ground. Xiaoli had never rejected me so directly before.
At noon that day, I couldn't help but go to her house with the dishes I cooked. When I entered the door, Xiaoli was sitting in the living room with a black face, and Li Xiaoming and Sisi were not at home.
Xiaoli, Mom made a few dishes for you, try them. I said cautiously.
I said I don't need you to do it!Take the food away, I don't have a place for you in my house!Zhang Xiaoli said sharply.
Xiaoli, why do you talk so hurtfully?Mom is just a good heart, do you resent Mom so much?"I couldn't help but get red circles in my eyes.
Sisi is my granddaughter, what's wrong with me hugging her?You won't even let me see my granddaughter now?”
She's my daughter, I've got the final say!Are you endless?Hurry up and take the food away, don't bother me!”
Didn't you hear me?I don't let people live!Hurry up and get out!”
Zhang Xiaoli shouted hysterically. I was yelled at by her, and I turned around and walked away with the food, tears blurring my vision.
After this incident, my relationship with my daughter-in-law broke down completely. Xiaoli never let me go to her house again, and I didn't answer her **. When Li Xiaoming came to see me, I couldn't help but ask him, "How is Sisi doing?"”
She's fine, she's in kindergarten. Mom, I'll deal with the matter between you and Xiaoli slowly, don't be too sad. Li Xiaoming replied to me.
My heart is half cold, and I may not see my granddaughter in the future. She is still so young and needs the care and companionship of her grandmother.
Later, I heard Li Xiaoming say that Zhang Xiaoli was going to divorce him, and the child changed her surname, and I was even more heartbroken. Is this how my son and granddaughter were taken away by her?
Later, I heard Li Xiaoming say that Zhang Xiaoli was going to divorce him, and the child changed her surname, and I was even more heartbroken. Is this how my son and granddaughter were taken away by her?
One day, Li Xiaoming came to see me, looking very depressed.
Mom, Xiaoli is really going to get divorced, and said that the child will take her surname in the future. ”
What?How could she do that!Sisi is the flesh and blood of our Li family, how can you follow someone else's surname!I said excitedly.
I didn't agree with it either, but she was very resolute, and I couldn't persuade her. Li Xiaoming said helplessly.
Then you agree?Just watch her take away your flesh and bones?”
My heart broke when I saw my son's face in despair. Xiaoli clearly wants to get along with us, so that we will never see Sisi.
I thought about it for a while and said to my son, "Let's go talk to Xiaoli, she can't be so ruthless." Sisi is only 5 years old and needs the care of both parents. ”
What are you doing here?I've made it very clear, my child has my last name, don't try to change it. ”
Xiaoli, we have no opinion on the child with your surname, can you consider co-parenting?Sisi is still young and needs the love of her parents. I tried to be as gentle as I could.
Need love?Did you ever love me in the first place?All day long I knew to join forces against me!Zhang Xiaoli roared angrily.
We're dealing with you?Mom has always taken care of you as if you were her own daughter. Li Xiaoming was also anxious.
Take care of?It's clearly here to take advantage!You are the same, always towards your mother, and you don't care about me at all!”
Xiaoli, are we not doing enough, do you feel wronged?We can improve slowly, but please don't make such a decision for the sake of your children, we are a family. I pleaded.
Family?I've seen enough of this kind of home!I never need your consent to make decisions!Zhang Xiaoli said.
My son and I were speechless. Xiaoli's attitude is so resolute, we really can't change her mind.
In this way, Zhang Xiaoli and Li Xiaoming divorced, and the child also took his mother's surname. I lost my daughter-in-law and granddaughter, and my heart was cut like a knife.
I had a hard time in the days that followed, and I always missed Xiao Sisi. Li Xiaoming was also in pain, but he said that he would adjust slowly and respect Xiaoli's choice first.