Flash Marriage: The marriage behind the modern version of love fast food, a social system that has existed for thousands of years, is not only the foundation of human reproduction, but also the bridge of cultural inheritance. However, as the old saying goes, "love is easier than getting along", in real life, it is not difficult to find that even the most compatible couples may eventually part ways for various reasons.
In this materialistic society, the ** of money and status often becomes a huge test of emotion. The young man married the daughter of the leader, which was supposed to be the beginning of a strong alliance to build a better future together.
However, this marriage ended lightning due to differences in concepts, which can't help but make people question the concept of marriage in modern society. Back in ancient times, marriage was often a union of interests between families.
The man is usually a poor scholar, and the woman is the daughter of a rich family. In this marriage, the woman not only has to take on the heavy housework, but also learns to be humble, teach her husband and children, and even supplement the man's family expenses. Implicit in this is a deep traditional notion that marriage is a responsibility, a dedication to the family.
On the other hand, in modern society, although there is no strict concept of family interests in ancient times, marriage is still not child's play. In the marriage of the young man and the leader's daughter, the man insisted on saving money to buy a house and did not agree with the woman's attitude towards luxury life, which was undoubtedly a huge collision of concepts. Modern society has more diverse expectations for marriage, but at the end of the day, mutual understanding and respect between husband and wife are still the foundation of the marriage relationship.
The young man's actions, although understandable as his efforts for the future of his family, ignore his wife's feelings and needs in real life. He failed to understand that both parties in a marriage need to contribute to the family, not unilateral demands and pressures.
In the same way, the woman needs to understand the man's efforts and expectations, and only then can both parties find a balance in their shared married life. In short, whether ancient or modern, marriage needs to be managed and maintained by both husband and wife. Only by mutual respect and understanding can we truly realize the beautiful vision of "holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son". New Year's Eve Creation Challenge