I'm 56 years old, I don't marry or partner with my neighbors, and I live in a special pension model, which is good!
Introduction
Pension is a topic that people pay attention to, and the pension model is related to everyone's life.
Today, let's share the story of Aunt Huang, a simple and happy pension model.
The following is Aunt Huang's own statement.
I am Aunt Huang, 56 years old this year, from Hebei, and I was a middle school teacher before I retired.
My husband passed away many years ago, and only one daughter married out of town.
My husband and I are from the same village, we have known each other since childhood, and later we were both admitted to university, and we stayed in the county seat after graduation.
Our relationship has always been very good, when he just left, I cried every day, often called my daughter **, crying while talking, a dozen is half an hour.
My daughter has to go to work and take care of her children, she is in the field, no matter how filial she is, I can't count on it.
My daughter can come back twice a year, sometimes on New Year's Day and sometimes for Chinese New Year.
Usually when I go out and go in, I am alone at home, and I don't even have anyone to talk to, and I feel more and more lonely.
One day, I was shopping for groceries at the morning market, and I suddenly felt dizzy, and my legs and feet did not obey the call, so I sat on the ground.
Just when I was worried that I was seriously ill, suddenly, a big hand patted me on the shoulder.
I looked back and found that it was Lao Wang, who lived in the same neighborhood as me. He asked me anxiously, "What's wrong with you, why are you uncomfortable?"”
I nodded weakly and said, "Maybe it's low blood sugar."
Lao Wang hurriedly went to the small shop next to him to buy a few pieces of toffee, peeled off the candy paper as he walked, and when he came to me, he stuffed the candy into my mouth.
A piece of sugar swallowed in my stomach, and my head was no longer dizzy.
Seeing that my face was better, Lao Wang slowly helped me up, and helped me carry the vegetable bag until I was at the exit of the house.
Since then, I have been close to Lao Wang, and after meeting in the community, we walked and chatted with nature.
I found Lao Wang to be a kind and interesting person. He is passionate about life and loves to sing and play chess.
His sense of humor always makes me laugh. We got closer and closer and became friends.
One day, while cooking dinner at home, I accidentally burned my hand. I was in excruciating pain, but I didn't know what to do.
At this moment, Lao Wang came, knowing that I had burned my hands, and told me to quickly flush with cold water, saying that ** would not blister.
Within a few minutes, Lao Wang came to my house, and he had the ointment in his hand and applied it to me little by little.
It's been a long time since anyone cared so much about me, and my tears flowed down my eyes, and I suddenly felt warm in my heart.
As time went on, our relationship became more and more intimate.
We take care of each other and live together.
Although we are not married and do not live together, we care for and support each other like family.
We had a lot of wonderful times together and became indispensable people in each other's lives.
This kind of life, Lao Wang and I both like it very much.
However, some neighbors in the community began to gossip, saying that it was immoral and immoral for me to be with Lao Wang.
I feel very aggrieved, Lao Wang and I are both single, just take care of each other, and do nothing immoral, these gossips pierce my heart like a needle.
After thinking about it, I decided not to associate with Lao Wang, but my heart was very entangled and struggling.
I deliberately didn't contact Lao Wang, I didn't reply to his WeChat messages, and I avoided him when I went out.
For about half a month, I suddenly found out that Lao Li hadn't called me **, something must have happened.
As soon as I inquired, it turned out that Lao Wang was hospitalized with pneumonia. I quickly stewed the pork rib soup and used a thermos pot to go to the hospital to see him.
finally found Lao Wang's ward, and through the door glass, I saw Lao Wang lying on the bed, bored watching TV.
Seeing me come in, Lao Wang's eyes seemed to shine, and while drinking the soup, he said: It's delicious.
Lao Wang stayed in the hospital for a week, and I changed my tricks every day to bring him rice, chicken soup and fish soup, for fear that he would not eat well.
After Lao Wang was discharged from the hospital, he said that in order to thank me for taking care of him, he invited me to his house for dinner.
I was worried that Lao Wang's body would not recover well, so I didn't let him cook, so I fried his favorite dried tofu with sharp peppers and fried peanuts.
Two small cold dishes were also tossed.
Lao Wang also opened a bottle of red wine, and the two of us chatted while eating.
Suddenly, Lao Wang stopped talking, and after a few minutes, Lao Wang looked at me and said slowly: Lao Huang, I know that you ignore me because you are afraid that others will gossip, or let's get a license to get married.
After my husband left, I never thought about remarrying, I thought it would be very troublesome, whether the children agreed, the house, savings, etc., there were too many things involved.
Lao Wang and I live in a community, take care of each other, don't get married, and don't live together, saving the contradiction of firewood, rice, oil and salt.
I think this pension model is very good.
@七月刘说
As the saying goes, "It's hard to get old, but it's sweet to get old." ”
The pension model of Aunt Huang and Lao Wang taking care of each other is also very good.
I hope that each of us can find a suitable way to provide for the elderly and spend our old age happily.