This is also a very common type of breakup, in the process of falling in love with you, your ex has too many negative emotions in the relationship, and eventually breaks up overwhelmed. What if you want to redeem it?
First of all, we need to know that there are many kinds of accumulation of negative emotions, for example, you often lack consistency, you often do not give, you often belittle TA, etc., which may lead to the accumulation of negative emotions.
There is also our most common, the accumulation of negative emotions caused by your wrong behavior after the breakup, which is also divided together.
There are too many negative emotions, and the other party has a kind of habitual thinking about you, that is, to get along with youI think that you are not going to fall in love, that it feels unpleasant to be with you, and that it is uncomfortable to get along with.
It's a bit similar to when you see roses and you think of love, when you see cakes you think of birthdays, and so on.
Many people may not realize the seriousness of this problem, but simply think that you can rely on a few words and a few apologies to make the other party believe in you, and then reconcile with you, this idea is somewhat naïve.
For the breakup in this situation, my advice to everyone is to be sure to take actionLet the other person believe according to your actions, and get back together with you, there will be no negative emotions like before.
For this kind of problematic breakup, don't think about getting back together quickly, and don't think about getting back together slowly, the speed depends on how much you change and how well you can create feelings.
But if I'm done with it today, I'm going to be a little bit out of water, and what I'm going to share with you isYou can make a difference through things.
I'll give you an example to illustrate:
There was a boy who was like this before, in the process of dating his ex-girlfriend, he didn't care enough about his ex-girlfriend and always thought about himself, and his ex-girlfriend felt that he had no place in his heart and insisted on breaking up.
I won't go into a lot of details in the middle, in the continuous recovery, they finally had a chance to meet, and then I told him a small detail, I said that when walking, let the girl walk on the inside of the road, a lot of warm male type people, this kind of small details do not need to be taught, but he is obviously not this type of boy.
As a result, the accident still happened, he may have replayed my words in his mind repeatedly, and then when they walked, he saw the girl walking on the outside of the road, and his knee-jerk reaction was to pull the girl inside, and when the boy reacted, he felt very self-reproachful and felt that his behavior was too reckless.
Who knew that the plot was reversed again, and when the meeting was about to end, the two chatted, and at this time the girl said: I was very touched when you pulled me just now, I have never felt the love of this detail before.
With the encouragement of this sentence, the boy's confidence was immediately raised, and the reunion was finally successful.
The story is finished, and everyone's focus is not on the story, but on what I said at the beginningThere are changes that you need to make deliberately.
For example, if you didn't like hygiene before, then when you have the opportunity to contact the other person, you should pay special attention to your overall clean impression, and if you have the opportunity, you can also deliberately say: we don't go to that food stall to eat, I noticed it last time, and the hygiene is not particularly good. The other person will immediately think how you have started to pay attention to hygiene.
For example, if you used to talk and always liked to belittle the other person, you can deliberately make the other person behave, and then you praise the other person, and the other person will think that you will appreciate him or her, etc.
In the process of recovery,Self-change is fundamental, how to show requires you to use your imagination, as long as you are willing to think, you will definitely have a chance to perform.
I wish you all a good day.
Redemption