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The world we live in is very imperfect, full of falsehood and ugliness, and everyone becomes vigilant, suspicious of everything, living cautiously, not daring to trust anything easily.
However, not believing does not mean not being able to trust. As human beings, we must believe in something in order not to despair completely in life, and to have something to rely on and believe in life.
For me, this makes perfect sense.
There are some things that cannot be easily believed, and believing in them will bring disaster to oneself.
However, there are also people and things that we need to believe in, and believing will make us better.
First of all, we have to believe in ourselves.
If there is only one person in this world that we can fully believe in, it must be ourselves.
Believing in yourself is the foundation of being a person and making things happen.
In the case of Li Zhihua, she is called"Angel with Broken Arm", at the age of three, he suffered a sudden fire and lost both arms.
Many people think that this child will achieve nothing in the future, but Li Zhihua does not see it that way. She believes that even without hands, she can make a good living with her feet.
With the help of his parents, Li Zhihua learned various life skills such as washing clothes with his feet, cooking, combing his hair, and folding quilts. She also had a pen tied to her toes, learned to write and draw, and earned her undergraduate, graduate, and doctoral degrees with honors.
Now she lives a fulfilling life, has a successful career, and has a happy family.
Such a counterattack is inseparable from the initial self-confidence.
Believing that her fate was in her own hands, she changed it with determined efforts.
She believes that she is no worse than others and has proven herself to be excellent through practical actions.
She believes that she can live the same life as normal people, so she is sincere and optimistic about people, and she reaps happiness.
The trust of others can also give us confidence and courage, but only our own trust in ourselves can make us go further and firmer.
As the writer Liang Xiaosheng said:
In the most difficult times of life, we have to believe in ourselves. Don't complain and don't give up on yourself. As long as the heart is strong enough to believe that you will be able to come out, then the sky will not fall and life can go on. "
Life is like a journey, and at the end of the day, we are all walking alone.
We ourselves are our only reliable travel companions. Whenever anyone doesn't believe in you, you have to believe in yourself.
Only when you believe in yourself will the wheel of your destiny begin to turn, turning more smoothly and steadily.
In addition, we need to believe in the law of cause and effect.
Emerson once said:"Only shallow people believe in luck and chance, and strong people only believe in cause and effect. "
Cause and effect here refer to:"Plant a grain of millet in spring and harvest 10,000 seeds in autumn", that is, what you sow, you will reap.
In life, many people only see the results, but ignore the causes, so they are prone to resentment and dissatisfaction.
When we see others successfully buying a house, buying a car, getting promoted and raising their salary, we will be jealous and envious, but we can't see the dedication and effort behind them.
Seeing other people's happy families and loving husbands and wives, we will be jealous and complain that we have chosen the wrong person, but we cannot see their tacit understanding of caring for each other and sacrificing each other.
When we see our peers slim and growing against age, we will say that they buy it with money, but we don't see the self-discipline and maintenance that has been around for decades.
Because we only see the results, not the causes, we will never be satisfied with the results.
If you want to reap the results that you are satisfied with, you should think of ways to find a way from the cause, instead of being lazy or playing clever, hoping for a miracle to appear in the result.
The book "Meditations on Life" says:
The so-called human world is the interweaving of cause and effect. One can not believe in fate, but one must believe in cause and effect, because cause and effect must exist. "
Master Xuanzang also said:"Believe that cause and effect are right, but don't expect that everything has a cause and an effect, because many causes and effects take time to prove. "
To believe in cause and effect is to believe in the laws of the world, and to respect cause and effect is to respect objective facts.
A person's fate does not depend entirely on individual efforts, but more on a series of causes and effects.
People who believe in cause and effect will be humble, calm, not impatient, and not resentful. They can live a better life.
Finally, we have to believe in love.
Love is the most beautiful emotion of human beings, whether it is family, love or friendship, it can give people warmth and hope.
Many people, after experiencing one or two emotional betrayals and frustrations, will have doubts about love, believing that love is unreliable, family affection is not lasting, and friendship is false.
Some people even think that there is no real love between people at all, they are only together out of interests, and when the interests disappear, the relationship will be dissolved.
However, love is love, and it is always there and will not change. What changes is the people we meet and the things we experience.
We may remember the story of Ms. Wang, who was seriously injured when a young pregnant woman was pushed off a cliff in Thailand.
Many people said after reading it"i don't believe in love anymore."、"i don't believe in men anymore."、"i don't believe in marriage anymore."
Some people even think that she will leave a shadow in her heart because of this, and she no longer dares to believe in love and the existence of men.
However, the kind-hearted Ms. Wang has not lost hope in life. She said she was able to grit her teeth and get through it all, undergo numerous surgeries, endure great pain, and get back on her feet because of one word: love.
The care and love of family, friends, medical staff, police officers, and countless strangers gave her hope and courage to continue living.
Now 35 years old, she has returned to her normal life. A reporter asked her curiously:"Does this experience make you have a bad impression of the opposite sex?Do you still have any expectations for love and marriage in the future?"
Ms. Wang said with a smile"What a wonderful thing love is, who wouldn't look forward to it?Of course, marriage is good, but you must choose the right person. If God is willing to arrange for the right person to appear in my life, I will go all out to embrace my new feelings and cherish my new partner.
Love is the only salvation for humanity, and it can help us get through the most difficult moments of our lives.
As Albert Einstein wrote in his letter to his daughter: "Love is the essence of life, it conquers all things, it transcends all things, it is the only answer we have in this world." ”
You can not believe in love, but you must believe in love itself.
It's not that this world is completely unreal, it's just that it's hard to distinguish between truth and falsehood.
To doubt everything, not to believe in anything, can cause us to be immersed in endless anxiety and self-consumption.
We have to believe in something in order to make life fun, hopeful, and motivated.
So, choose to believe in yourself, because believing in yourself is the foundation of success;Believe in the law of cause and effect, for it determines our fate;Believe in love, because it is the most beautiful force in the world.
Fueled by this power of belief, our lives will be filled with wisdom and strength, and we will go where we want to go.
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