High school students go to school and live in school Bai Yansong's father's voice, why don't my children live in school!
When I went to high school, was it better to go to school or live in school?Bai Yansong confided in his heart: My child does not live in school.
As they enter high school, students face some of the toughest challenges of their lives. In order to cope with the academic pressure at this stage, they have to study hard every day, almost usable"Get up early and be greedy for darkness"to describe. They even wish they could recite a few words while eating. At the same time, parents are also immersed in the intense pace of learning, for fear that their children's learning time will be affected by trivial matters.
Middle school is the most hurried and stressful time in a student's life. In order to gain more study time, many parents consider letting their children live on campus, which can save time commuting to and from school every day. Up to half an hour can answer some more math questions, which is a great help for learning.
Some teachers also advise parents to consider letting their children live on campus. After living on campus, students have more time to study every morning and evening, and parents can also relax a little. Considering that the students have already entered middle school and their self-care skills have matured, parents do not have to worry too much about their children's living on campus.
However, the current situation is not as easy as it seems. Bai Yansong's words and the reality tell us that not everything is as easy as it seems.
It was only after the GCSE that we realised that the gap between day and boarding schools was not small and would affect the results of the GCSE examination. The importance of high school learning cannot be underestimated, and a small choice can have a profound impact on a student's college entrance examination score. Faced with such a choice, many parents can only turn to teachers or experienced people to provide a better learning environment for their children.
A middle school teacher noticed the difference between day and night during a lesson. The gap between the two is not half a star.
He is the head teacher of the top class of an ordinary middle school, and the academic performance of the class is at the upper middle level, and the learning atmosphere and learning attitude are very good. The school is located in an urban area, and most of the classes are day students, but the boarders usually communicate more with the teachers, and the teachers are more concerned about their academic performance.
By the end of the exam, there were 60 students across the school who had achieved a score of 500 or above, of which 45 were day students and only 15 were boarders. In the teacher's class, there were 11 students who scored 500 points or more, and they were all day students.
At first, some of the boarders were the focus of the teachers' attention, and they achieved a good score of around 450 in the gaokao, which was a far cry from the students at the time. The teacher was puzzled as to why a student who usually worked hard did so badly in exams.
After careful observation, it is found that the dormitory students are greatly affected by group life, and there are also differences in the learning habits of the dormitory students, especially the students in ordinary middle schools, who are not highly motivated to learn. If you see that your roommates are having fun every day and are easily motivated, your grades will naturally suffer.
What's more, living on campus doesn't save as much time as parents think. Although students do not have to go back and forth between school and home every day, they need to rely more on themselves, and their self-care skills have improved, but their study time has been affected to a certain extent.
The students in the dormitory have different personalities, and it is inevitable that there will be friction in life, and it will take a lot of energy to deal with classmates. Walking only takes the time to go to and from school, and parents help with other things, so that students can concentrate on their studies. Not only did the teacher see the difference between day school and boarding school, but the famous TV host Bai Yansong also recognized day school.
Bai Yansong is a well-known public figure who has his own opinions on various hot topics. He is also an ordinary father, and Bai Yansong's choice is very firm about whether to go to boarding school or stay in school. He said that when he first sent his children to boarding school, primary school students were very resistant and did not want to stay. Bai Yansong said bluntly:"I won't let my son stay in boarding school if I die"。
On the one hand, it focuses on students' psychological resistance and discomfort with lifeOn the other hand, it focuses on the parent-child relationship. Accommodations tend to alienate parent-child relationships. There is a generation gap between students and parents, and if they are not together for a long time, there is a lack of communication and exchange in life, and there will be problems in the parent-child relationship. This is more serious than grades, and accommodation is not the only way to improve grades.
Bai Yansong's words have solved the doubts of many parents. After all, boarding is not as good as going to school, and parents who can afford it should let their students go to school, so that the student's life is more convenient.
Of course, boarding and day schools are not absolute choices. Some families are unable to support their students in school due to long distances or other reasons. In such a situation, students can only rely on their own perseverance and self-consciousness to live and learn in school. Not all students can benefit from the journey to school.
Students who are close to home and whose parents are not too busy with work are more suitable for day school. The quality of life is higher, does not delay the normal work of parents, and can also bring the parent-child relationship closer. Students with poor self-control and poor learning are also suitable for day school. If they live in school, they are playful and lack parental discipline and may be more prone to indulgence. If these students go to school, they will be less influenced by their peers and will be able to study under the supervision of their parents when they come back from school.
After all, going to school and life is an external force, and if students want to improve their grades and maintain a good learning state, they have to rely on their own efforts. Children who study hard will definitely be worthy of their efforts.
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