Ge You is the best proof of this, a well-known actor. Everyone says that "you can't have both fish and bear's paws".
Ge You has a history of 38 years in the entertainment industry, and he has created many classic films for the audience.
He, Liang Tian and Xie Yuan are known as the "Three Musketeers of Comedy", and he is also one of the first actors in China to win the title of "Cannes Best Actor".
Despite his fruitful career, he felt lonely in his family life.
His parents died n times, his only relative was far away, and he did not have any children after marriage.
He used to show a high-spirited demeanor on the screen, but now he rarely appears in front of the camera again.
As a well-known performance artist, how did Ge You gradually move towards such a "sad" state?
He's 66 years old, so how did he spend his life?
Whenever everyone thinks of this actor Ge You, they may think of his mouthful of Jing**.
Ge You's ancestral home is actually in Hengshui, Hebei.
Ge You was born in 1957 in an ordinary family in Beijing.
Although his family was not wealthy, he did not feel financial pressure.
Embarking on the road of being an actor is also an accident in Ge You's life.
He wasn't good at improvisation when he was in kindergarten.
Despite the teacher's orders, he just stood there at a loss.
After Ge You ended his experience in the commune, he ushered in the opportunity to change the trajectory of his life.
The All-China Federation of Trade Unions Art Troupe began recruiting students in Beijing in 1979, and Ge You also signed up, hoping to try.
He did a sketch performance called "Feeding the Pigs" at that time.
Perhaps because he really had the experience of feeding pigs when he cut the line, his performance won the recognition of the judges and teachers.
Ge You stepped into the entertainment industry in this way.
Due to his mediocre appearance, he could only play the role of the dragon in the theater at first, until he was selected by the director to play the role of "The Stubborn Master".
It took Ge You nine years.
Due to his unique charisma and excellent acting skills, more and more directors have begun to recognize his talent.
Whenever the opportunity arises, he does not hesitate to seize it. Since then, he has seized every opportunity.
He successively participated in movies such as "Code Name Jaguar" and "The Great Satan", and gradually improved his national popularity.
The real reason why he became a powerful actor is still "Alive".
The film won Ge You the first international award of his acting career.
Next, he starred in "Farewell My Concubine", which is also known as a classic in film history.
The film is still a must-have Xi material for many film practitioners.
Ge You usually shows the audience in movies as a comedic role.
However, in everyday life, he is not a charismatic person.
Ge You prefers to stay alone when he is not acting, quietly emptying himself, staying at home, and rarely participating in social activities.
Despite the fact that he lived such a comfortable life, time flew by, and in the blink of an eye he was already 28 years old.
Although he himself was not impatient, the friends around him began to feel anxious about him.
Ge You and his future wife, He Cong, first met in this year, when they were introduced by a friend.
Whether Ge You believed in the arrangement of fate is unknown, but when he first met He Cong, he immediately developed a strong affection for her.
He Cong is a people's teacher, his character is also very simple and unpretentious, and at the same time he reveals a strong literary atmosphere.
Ge You was attracted by this temperament, and he was immediately attracted.
Maybe it's because I'm Xi to the artificiality and hypocrisy in the entertainment industry.
He Cong's purity and unadorned made him fall in love quickly.
Two people whose relationship journey is almost blank, but they are unambiguous when they fall in love, and it didn't take long for them to enter the stage of meeting their parents.
Although they received the support of their friends, it was a pity that they were not recognized by He Cong's parents.
The two old men consider that their daughter is just a simple ordinary teacher, while Ge You lives in the complicated entertainment industry.
In the face of many **, life is not suitable.
Although their considerations have some merit, they cannot change the position between the two people, who have long been firm.
He Cong's choice proved to be correct, because in the second year of marriage, Ge You's career began to go on an upward trajectory.
Ge You has been married for many years and has never had a bad scandal with any actress.
In this way, He Cong can quit his job with peace of mind and run the family of the two of them wholeheartedly.
Ge You's parents expressed great satisfaction with their marriage.
The two old men felt extremely sorry for only one thing.
Since Ge You and He Cong got married in 1985, they have always enjoyed the enviable world of the two over the years.
They also have a high degree of agreement on fertility issues after marriage, and they tacitly choose not to have children.
There is an old Chinese proverb that says well, there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great, but it's a pity.
Even now, most parents find it difficult to accept that their children are reluctant to have offspring, let alone in those days.
Their decision was strongly opposed by both parents, especially Ge You's parents.
Until 2016, when Ge You's father died, he failed to witness Ge You's succession, which can be regarded as a regrettable ending.
There was also some rift between Ge You and his mother because of this.
Later, the couple always took time to accompany Ge's mother to go out for a walk and enjoy the fresh air.
However, in Ge's mother's opinion, it is more important for the couple to have a child than these.
He Cong is no longer young, and there is no turning back in life. However, at this time, he is no longer young, and there is no turning back in life.
Maybe they regretted it, but that doesn't change anything.
They want to maintain their lifestyle, to enjoy their lives to the fullest, and there's nothing wrong with that.
is just like what Da Zhang Wei said when he heard it on the show.
Once a child is born, they must be held accountable because they are not commodities and there is no such thing as a return option.
If you don't have the confidence to be able to raise a child well, then choosing not to bring him into the world is also a responsible choice.
Ge You's parents are very sorry, because in their old age, who doesn't want to have children and grandchildren by their side.
They want to see their children and grandchildren, and that's not wrong.
This problem is like an unsolvable puzzle that cannot be wrong from any point of view, but it is also true that it does not satisfy both parties.
Although Ge You and his wife have been married for many years, they have not had children of their own.
However, their lives are filled with the laughter of children.
Ge You is the eldest in the family, his parents have two children, and he has a younger sister.
It is no exaggeration to say that it is absolutely appropriate to call Ge You a "pet sister madman".
Since my debut, I have been supporting my family and trying to help my sister achieve a better life.
When Ge You proposed that her sister wanted to study abroad, she did not hesitate to fund to realize her sister's wish.
During those years, my sister lived and studied Xi in Germany, and also met the love of her life.
They chose to settle down there and began a life of raising a son and a daughter.
The couple is very fond of their two little nephews because they have no children of their own.
For any request, as long as it is raised, it will be met.
In fact, it can be concluded here that although Ge You does not want children, he likes children.
The two were committed to public welfare until middle age.
Not only did he help many children develop academically, but he also adopted a child.
He has a certain fate with them, because his biological father Fu Biao is Ge You's good brother.
However, as fate would have it, he died of lung cancer in 2005, leaving behind a young son.
Ge You is a righteous person, he doesn't want to see Fu Zien lose the warmth of his family, so he has been raising him by his side for many years.
Ge You's cultivation of Fu Zien was not in vain, and now he has become an excellent director.
Ge You and his wife are now in their sixties, and it is time to enjoy their old age.
Ge You's mother, Ms. Shi Wenxin, died in 2002 at the age of 94.
In a foreign country, his sister is far away, and only Ge You's wife is by his side at the moment.
Ge You rarely takes on filming anymore probably because of his age, since he was 19.
He has created wonderful characters in each film, so he has been deeply loved by the audience.
Although he had no children and no daughters to serve by his side in his later years, his later life seemed a little bleak, but fortunately, he still had his wife by his side.
Husbands and wives often get along with each other on weekdays, starting from a young age and continuing until old age, which may be regarded as a deep love.
According to Ge You himself, he thinks that when two people quarrel, the more noisy they are, the better their feelings are, and the more noisy they are, the more inseparable they are.
After half a century of quarrels and run-ins, the couple is happy after all.
Teacher Ge You has recently become the focus of the news because of his famous "Ge You Lying" lawsuit.
As of November 23, 2023, there have been more than 700 similar incidents.
This emoji was originally used in the TV series "I Love My Family", and it was the performance of the famous actor Ge You in the film.
His casual movements cater to the mentality of today's young people who want to be rotten, so they are extremely widespread.
This action was made into a meme and spread widely on the Internet.
Although it was supposed to be a good thing to help increase visibility, in most cases, Ge You himself did not agree during the dissemination process.
Obviously, this behavior violated Ge You's portrait rights, so after careful consideration, he decided to file a lawsuit against these people.
However, on the Internet, there are mixed reviews of this behavior.
It is said that Mr. Ge won the lawsuit, but lost the situation.
He should make more use of legal means to protect his rights and interests.
Although Mr. Ge You rarely films again as he gets older, as long as he encounters a good script, he will still actively participate.
Teacher Ge You was pleasantly surprised to reappear, and Feng Xiaogang's official film Weibo announced on December 1 that "If You Are Honest Do Not Disturb 3" has been finalized.
According to the ** published on the web platform.
Mr. Ge still maintains his usual serious attitude when acting, and examines his lines while eating.
Recalling Mr. Ge You's excellent performance in the first two films, I believe that he will also bring more jokes to the audience in the third movie.
Outsiders may think that Ge You has some regrets in his life.
has a successful career and a deep relationship between husband and wife, but in his later years, he has no children to take care of and accompany him.
Life is like a one-way ticket, and there is no regret medicine to buy.
Even at some point in the middle of the night, he had doubts about his choice, but now that the decision has been made, all regret is useless.
Over the years, Ge You has presented countless classic films to the audience.
It brings laughter to the audience and promotes the development of China's film industry.
I hope that in his old age, he and his wife can find their own happiness in life together.