On December 25, a shocking news spread on the Internet: netizens met Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian at Hong Kong Disneyland, and they took their daughter to play together. This has attracted a lot of attention. After all, it is said that Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian announced their divorce on February 14, 2022. After such a short period of time, they actually took their daughter to Disneyland together, which inevitably made people feel that the relationship between the two had eased, and some netizens even speculated that they might reconsider remarriage because of their daughter. The comment area immediately exploded, and netizens gave their opinions, some persuaded Wu Qian to leave quickly, and some people thought that Zhang Yujian's career was cold after the divorce, and now his attitude towards the mother and daughter has warmed up.
In this high-profile incident, the private lives of Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian have once again become a public topic. While this brief encounter sparked a lot of speculation and comments, it also made people revisit the marriage history between Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian. Wu Qian, a figure who was once known as the school flower and goddess of Xiamen. In 2013, she became popular for her role as Xiao Xiaomo in "Why Sheng Xiaomo", and was deeply loved by the audience. In 2019, Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian collaborated in "I Only Like You", and this work also made Wu Qian fall in love with Zhang Yujian deeply. The relationship between the two did not develop smoothly, at first they chose an underground relationship, and later quietly married again.
However, Zhang Yujian declared that he was single, which made the outside world question the authenticity of this relationship. It wasn't until someone photographed Wu Qian with her daughter that Zhang Yujian had to admit that he was married. What is even more outrageous is that his official announcement of marriage is full of resentment and yin and yang weirdness. In the end, the marriage ended in divorce, and the reason for the divorce was also a long-standing grudge between the parties. All this makes people think deeply: what happened in this marriage?Marriage is supposed to be a commitment for two people to walk the road of life together. However, for Wu Qian, it doesn't seem to be a happy marriage.
At the peak of her career, she got married in a hurry and gave birth to a daughter, but all her efforts were not understood and recognized by the other party. Zhang Yujian insisted on establishing a single character to gain the love of fans. And his appearance is not outstanding among stars. In contrast, Wu Qian's career highlight moment may have made him feel inferior, so he chose to be cold and violent and cover up his marriage. What's even more unacceptable is that he never gave Wu Qian a wedding, not even a name. This indifference and repression eventually led to the breakdown of the marriage. Cold violence in marriage is often more disturbing than cheating. After the divorce, Wu Qian regained her former brilliance and returned to the state of school flower.
All this is deeply heart-wrenching, and at the same time, it also gives people a deeper understanding of cold violence in marriage. We may not be able to fully understand the grievances and hatreds between Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian, but we can draw an important revelation from it: in marriage, we should respect and understand each other, rather than passing on our own pressure and emotions to the other half. Only true equality and understanding can build a truly strong marriage. In such a marriage, perhaps we can draw some reflection from it. When there is a conflict between career and family, how should we make trade-offs?In marriage, how should you balance personal growth and relationship stability?
These questions may not be easy to answer, but it is these questions that make us think more deeply about the meaning of life and happiness. Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian, two once brilliant stars, have now become cases of marriage and love. Their divorce may let us see all kinds of difficulties and challenges in marriage, but at the same time, it also makes us understand that only true respect and understanding can make a marriage long and happy. Perhaps, this is also the best blessing for their divorce.
Wu Qian's rebirth: From the predicament of idol dramas to self-liberation When Wu Qian participated in Sister Lang, netizens found that she exuded an independent charm, as if she was a woman who had lost her husband, but she was not mocking her for being widowed, but praising her rejuvenated state. For a woman to maintain a single strength, it means that she can choose to have a man or not to have a man. She can love someone deeply, but she can also leave it with determination. If he can't give you the happiness you want and makes you feel insecure, leaving decisively is the best policy.
Netizens have advised Wu Qian not to remarry, because when she was good, Zhang Yujian didn't know her, and when she was in trouble, he showed favor, which made people feel that Zhang Yujian was too realistic. Wu Qian has struggled out of the predicament of her marriage and should never repeat the mistakes of the past. Some people may say that Zhang Yujian will change, but it is difficult to change the issue of principle. Unless it is just a few small issues, we still need to firm the bottom line on major issues of right and wrong. Let's reveal a heart-piercing truth, that is, the audience of idol dramas is mostly female, and the director is also filmed for female audiences. Men think more rationally and think that career, friends, and games are more important than love.
Therefore, women can believe in love, but they should not overindulge in it. Wu Qian is a vivid example, she really fell into it after performing too many idol dramas. No one is the absolute female number one, and in your own world, you are the only heroine, and others are just supporting characters in your daily life. Don't care too much about what other people think, because there are always 30% of people who won't like you. After the wind and rain, there will be a rainbow after all. Be your own little sun, illuminate yourself, and illuminate the future!These words are not only for Wu Qian, but also for those who are lonely, lonely, and confused. Let's witness Wu Qian's rebirth, liberate herself from the predicament of idol dramas, find yourself again, and regain her life.